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to date or not to date...


Posted Monday May 22 2006, 11:30 pm

alrighty here is my story...

theres this guy i like at school-he likes me back and has asked me to go out to see a movie friday night(and my friend wants to talk to him about asking me to my our 8th grade dance)--i hear though, that he is dating a freshman+hes got "in a relationship" on his myspace...what do i do..i really really like this guy?!?!?!

-doctorkay-

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Considering Telling Bf About Bi-sexuality


Posted Monday May 22 2006, 10:45 pm

I am a female from Canada.
I am in a serious committed relationship with my bf and he does not know that I am bi-sexual. I have been considering telling him because of my re-occuring problems about fantasizing being in a relationship with a female.
I love my bf as well and we have a healthy relationship. I want to tell him because I don't feel right keeping secrets from him. We are very open to each other. Should I tell him? How should I put it so he won't feel threatened?
Advice please?

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I'm mutually in love with someone and I want OUT!


Posted Monday May 22 2006, 9:59 pm

I've been with my boyfriend for a year now. I'm completely in love with him, and he seems to be in love with me as well. And, well, just recently another girl has popped into his life. He has emotions for her that he is trying to hide, though he has admitted and I know that they're there -- But he won't act on these emotions because "he doesnt want to hurt me."

Now, when I imply that I am going to back away so he can just continue on and be with another girl, he doesn't let me. He gets scared. Like he wants to keep me close.

And part of me wants to just let him be with this girl because I can't be happy knowing he likes someone else, and is still with me. But at the same time, i don't even have it in ...

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when are you a couple?


Posted Monday May 22 2006, 9:52 pm

15/f i asked a guy out on a date and he said yes, and we have hung out a few other times. When are you an official couple and when is it okay to introduce someone as your 'boyfriend'. also its raining where we are and i was wondering if anyone had any ideas a little more original than a movie for a date idea somewhere in seattle

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SH0ULD i TELL HiM?


Posted Monday May 22 2006, 9:16 pm

ok so this boy right? we like each other but nothin has happend. we're cool and all. i never really told him how i REALLY felt like why i like him and stuff like that. after this school year he might move and i don't want him to forget me. soo.. should i tell him how i feel before the summer? my fear is that i dunno if he feels the same way. advice please lubb youzz!!

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Signals?


Posted Monday May 22 2006, 9:06 pm

How exacally do you send a guy "signals" that you like him and such?

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he made another mistake


Posted Monday May 22 2006, 8:52 pm

ok so my exboyfriend whent on a trip this weekend and he got drunk and went skinny dipping w/ his friend and her sister and ended up having sex w/ both of them cuz he liked both the girls. he told me because he has some feelings left for me but i cant trust him i know i cant ive been trying to get him to stop drinking for ever and its reasons like this that make me try to get him to stop so he doesnt do anything stupid which he already did. he feels bad about it but he already did it! what can he change now? and i had a really strong feeling the night that it happened that he had done something he would regret. lately ive been missing him and considering taking him back but what do i do now? i odviously cant trust him. please help!!

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best friend...<3


Posted Monday May 22 2006, 7:37 pm

kay so my guy best friend..u know the usual story. i fell for him. he's the sweetest boy ever.
so yeah i told him i liked him over the phoen and he told me he liked me as a friend so im like alright so now theres this big dance coming up and everyone has dates and its kinda a big deal so im wondering if i should ask him or would that be like, too pushy or something? i'd tell him that we could go as friends..but i'd think of it as more so what should i do? should i ask him or not? thanks

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GRADUATION PRESENT


Posted Monday May 22 2006, 7:29 pm

my girlfriend is graduating on saturday. i have NO idea wha to get her.I am going to get her a fitted for a birthday which is next wednesday. can someone pleasehelp me out on what to get her for her graduation. should i get her, her favorite drink, or just get her a basket of liquor??? idk please help

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mixed signals?


Posted Monday May 22 2006, 7:20 pm

16/f
okay so they guy i like likes me back, i know this. but heres the story, he came over to my house a lot last week, like 3 times and it was cool. we talk on the phone everynight for like and hour at min. but w/e and he told me that he loved me and i could tell he meant it b/c he hasnt said it to me yet and weve been hanging out for a while. its sincere. but in school he always acknowledged me he some sort of way and now he can walk right past me as if i don't exsist and this is really upsetting and for while it was like we were dating because, well phone calls everyday, every 45 minutes hanging out during and after school alot of other things inbetween adn i need to know how he feels adn why he is sening mixed signals/ what sho...

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Father abuses Son...


Posted Monday May 22 2006, 7:08 pm

Okay My names Kristen 17/f...I'm in a relationship with a guy who's father abuses him..the thing is my boyfriend is just letting this go like nothing happens. I'm scared that his father could get more mad and seriously hurt him..I've tried to talk to him about it and tell him how I've felt but he just says to not worry about it. I mean how can I not? I love this guy with all my heart I can't loose him!!! Please I need help please :-(

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This boyy :\


Posted Monday May 22 2006, 6:52 pm

ive known this guy for a while and i recently started to like him. we flirt all the time and it always seems like he likes me. ive gotten various people to ask him, his answer is that he likes me and his x & that hes confused. i kno his x has a boyfriend and that she doesnt like him at all ne more. should i just forget about him i really like him but i dont want to wait foever for him to make up his mind to ask me out.
we did hook up at the movies tho....

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i wanna go back


Posted Monday May 22 2006, 5:35 pm

i'm a guy in hi school and need advice on what may seem to be an easy but hard question. i want to know how i can be a lovin person again. yeah i said again cause i used to be, with my friends family n everyone. but i dont think i am anymore, and people are tellin me that ive been changing. my parents good friends and gf have been telling me things too. i dont know what it was but what are some attitudes or ways of thinkin that i culd set up to help me cause just doing a few things here n there wont help too much for the long run. any ideas why i stopped im not a mean person or anything, and i do try. does this happen to alot of ppl and am i just over reacting?

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I don't know what he is thinking. Friends or what?


Posted Monday May 22 2006, 5:24 pm

I don't know if this guy see's me as a friend, or what.
We started talking like a month ago. We're both on the track team so that's how we started talking. We started talking when he ("Caleb") was saying "he'd def hit that" about me and my mom was right there & he didn't know that was my mom. So now it's a big joke. His friend was trying to hook up with me, and so Caleb would always ask me if I liked his friend. He would ask me questions like, who was your last bf?, was it serious?, is your brother [senior at our school] chill with you having bf's?, describe your dream guy, etc.
I tried backing off because I thought he had a gf because he'd kinda talk about her a lot, like his friend would ask if they h...

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What does this mean?


Posted Monday May 22 2006, 5:12 pm

So there's this boy i like and i thought he liked me too. The only time we would talk is during math class, so normally i would look forward to it. Most of the time we would talk the whole time. Today, though, when i tried to start talking , he wouldn't really talk. so i would ask questions, and he would be like "no" or "i don't know". He kept on saying how stupid math class was and then "we only have 12 minutes left..." then at the end of class he tried really hard to talk to me. What does this mean? Does he like me?

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this is for everybody to read, and it is not a question!


Posted Monday May 22 2006, 4:07 pm

I just wanted to tell everyone that if you ever need anybody to talk to, well, i am here, and even if it is a really long story too!
My email is hev7777777@yahoo.com!
I might not be able to solve my own problems very easily, but i can try to help with yours!
i guess that i will ttys!

Hev

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a guy


Posted Monday May 22 2006, 3:49 pm

oh my gosh, this guy that i totally like a lot is moving to Olklahoma tomorrow, and we have been talking a lot about things lately, and i am almost positive that he does to, and he is old enough to stay here in Cali.
He has said things like, i dont want to leave because i will be loosing all of this, and i said all of what but he wouldnt reply.
I want to tell him that he should stay, but dont know if i should!
Should i tell him?
Please help! I am confused!

Hev

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I'm in love my best friends boyfriend


Posted Monday May 22 2006, 12:46 pm

Ive been best friends with kay for 3 years and recentlyy she started dating jay. Now Jay is an amazing person,Cute resepectful loyal hard working funny and intellegent. And Kay whom I love to pieces is the EXACT opposit now dont think im beig mean she really is she quit her first job after a month.Anyway i guess my question is what should I do?

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online love


Posted Monday May 22 2006, 11:18 am


last summer i met a boy in a chatroom ... yes i know chatroom. I use to go in them all the time when i was bored and whatever play around i guess anyways i started talking to this kid, and over time i actuallu started to like him. I never seena picture of him at first so i know i liked him for him and not what he looks like. We kinda dated ... ughhh sounds gay i know i know. Its not like i cant get a guy in real life, i can and i do but i always end up thinking about him. I've seen his picture only a month ago and hes alright! not cute or anything but i still love him. His personality is wonderful and i cant get enough of him, but the whole idea of meeting him from online makes me feel like a geek! i dunt noe. I had a boyfriend befo...

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Long Distance


Posted Monday May 22 2006, 9:33 am

I am college student and I have been in a relationship for about 7 months now. However, it seems like longer, he and I lived in the same dorm this past year and we spent a lot of our time together so it feels as though we have been together for almost double that. We figured we would be spending the summer apart since his parents are from half way across the country, but, when he returned home his parents informed him that he would not be returning to school we both went to this year.

We decided to go the route of the long distance. We decided that neither one of us wanted to break up. Yet, I am the type of person who fears commitment and anything seroius and I in a normal situation I have my doubts. There are some days thou...

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