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I'm in love my best friends boyfriend
Ive been best friends with kay for 3 years and recentlyy she started dating jay. Now Jay is an amazing person,Cute resepectful loyal hard working funny and intellegent. And Kay whom I love to pieces is the EXACT opposit now dont think im beig mean she really is she quit her first job after a month.Anyway i guess my question is what should I do?
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well first of all how long have they been together i mean are they all i love n stuff? well before you take ne actions n how you feel just casually n a normal conversation talk to him n see how he feels about her being like that n maybe your right maybe he feels he deserves better n maybe your that "better" hes looking for but dont like make a move on him or do nething to mess up their relationship if its meant to be it'll mess up on its own but 1st find oput how he feels!
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You just have to get over it somehow. NEVER get involved with a friend's ex (or current of course). Unless of course you don't want that friend anymore. Friends always come first.
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hey, dont do anything. its her relationship. dont get in the way of things. let her make her own descisons even if there bad ones. she isnt five and she def. doesnt need your guidance. let her fail or suceed by her descison making. cait♥
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Why do anything? Your friends aren't babies and are allowed to make mistakes and be in bad relationships. For all you know Kay might have something to offer Jay you simply can't see.
Staying friends with the both of them is simple: Just do it. Even if they break up, even if the relationship is messy. Just act in such a way that it is clear you care for them both and won't take sides.
You don't really have a problem here. They *might* have a problem, but come on girl, give them a chance, be mature and maintain your friendship with both of them despite anything that might happen.
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i understand what your saying.. but to tell you the truth hun.. if you want to keep them both as friends i woudl stay out of it and wait patiently for them to break up.. because if you talk to jay about breaking up with kay and it gets back to kay.. then she's going to get really upset wtih you.. so my advice is to wait for them to break up .. and then jump on it & let him know how you feel abotu him && hopefully he feels the same way towards you =]
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