I don't know what he is thinking. Friends or what?
Question Posted Monday May 22 2006, 5:24 pm
I don't know if this guy see's me as a friend, or what.
We started talking like a month ago. We're both on the track team so that's how we started talking. We started talking when he ("Caleb") was saying "he'd def hit that" about me and my mom was right there & he didn't know that was my mom. So now it's a big joke. His friend was trying to hook up with me, and so Caleb would always ask me if I liked his friend. He would ask me questions like, who was your last bf?, was it serious?, is your brother [senior at our school] chill with you having bf's?, describe your dream guy, etc.
I tried backing off because I thought he had a gf because he'd kinda talk about her a lot, like his friend would ask if they had sex, and he'd be like, "no dude, it's not about the sex, isn't that right, (my name)?" I acted like I wasn't listening to their convo. Then I found out that they broke up like 3 months ago, but are still good friends.
he sat next to me on the bus ride to our track meet last week so we both get messages from each other. and we pretty much hung out all that meet, as well as the one a couple days ago. then he asked if he could sit by me on the bus on the way to our next meet. and i got 3 hugs from him and he let me wear his hat. our coach was even like, "looks like romance is blooming on the team!" when we were putting stuff away and everyone else was on the other side of the track. he said my accent was cute more than once. and he brought me cookies. and then i was complaining about how fat I am and he's like, blah blah blah you're not fat, you're the prettiest girl at school, etc. then asked for my number so we could go tanning like we said we would.
we got in a play fight last weekend when the whole team was hanging out at someones house, and it was all like, "tell her i'm not talking to her!" and then he was apologizing and his friend came and was like, "she's mine now! you can't have her." and he was like, "I don't want her!" so, idk, that made me sad? sometimes he'll walk with me back to the school and wait for my ride and then he'll leave after i have. and he'll tell me about his ex gf's and how much of a douche bag he was when he dumped them and shiiiiit. idk what he's thinking, he has tons of friends that are girls so maybe he's just a flirty person.
Additional info, added Monday May 22 2006, 6:57 pm: What's going on? And what should I do next? Should I be more flirtier, just act like friends and nothing more, or what? And he knows I don't like his friend, because I told him I didn't. Everyone at school assumes I do like him though, but this guy actually ASKED me if I do, not assume. He asks me how the boys in my life are?..not really sure what that means.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? BlackBatman answered Monday May 22 2006, 6:12 pm: Well yeah, he can either be a flirty person, or in the process of trying to find out information about you for his friend, he came to the realization that you're his type. Like the Taming of the Shrew. (If you've read that by shakespear)
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