ive known this guy for a while and i recently started to like him. we flirt all the time and it always seems like he likes me. ive gotten various people to ask him, his answer is that he likes me and his x & that hes confused. i kno his x has a boyfriend and that she doesnt like him at all ne more. should i just forget about him i really like him but i dont want to wait foever for him to make up his mind to ask me out.
we did hook up at the movies tho....
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? loves2shop86 answered Monday May 22 2006, 8:07 pm: hey! all you can really do is wait and give him his time to decide! he needs to get over his ex girlfriend completely before he can move on to another relationship, and it sounds like he isn't over her yet! you don't want to be in a relationship with him now anyways, because it will just be a rebound for him, and that is deffinitely not something you want to be part of!
i think you should move on for now and see what else is out there, but keep in touch with him. once he is over his ex he will know it, and if he is still interested in you he will approach you. if you still have feelings for him when he does, then that's great and you guys will be able to work it out! but for now, give him all the time in the world because the last thing in the world you deserve is to be someone's rebound girl! :) let me know if you need more help! [ loves2shop86's advice column | Ask loves2shop86 A Question ]
herbivore answered Monday May 22 2006, 8:05 pm: hey. it seems to me that you should take the first move in this situation. he said that he likes you! guys can be attracted to a different girl, as long as he likes his girlfriend better and he doesnt let things get out of control. i would go ahead and ask him out. you might as well considering his ex has a boyfriend. you can start out by asking him to go out sometime (like the movies again), or you could go out for ice cream ;p. good luck. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥ [ herbivore's advice column | Ask herbivore A Question ]
alilovesyou answered Monday May 22 2006, 7:50 pm: i think you should talk to him and tell him to make up his mind so you can start trying to move on if he doesn't make up his mind. this isnt a lot of advice but talking to him or having someone talk to him is probably the best thing you can do.
i hope this helps!!
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