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Father abuses Son...
Okay My names Kristen 17/f...I'm in a relationship with a guy who's father abuses him..the thing is my boyfriend is just letting this go like nothing happens. I'm scared that his father could get more mad and seriously hurt him..I've tried to talk to him about it and tell him how I've felt but he just says to not worry about it. I mean how can I not? I love this guy with all my heart I can't loose him!!! Please I need help please :-(
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I have been in this situation before. First, your boyfriend doesn't say anything because regardless of what he says he loves his father and doesn't want to see him in jail. Second, if he does go to the police, your boyfriend will go to foster care until he is 18. He is 17 now and doesn't have that much further to go until he is 18. You can probably talk until you are blue in the face but it's not going to matter. He is a man and he has to handle it himself. The best thing you can do for him is stand beside him and back him up in any situation. I hope this helps. And remember, it is your business when your boyfriend tells you about it, but if you act on it without his permission you may lose him anyway, so be careful how you handle the situation.
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You know, he can tell you not to worry about it all he wants to, but it's more than likely because he's too scared of what will happen if the police do find out. I think you need to let him know that you have to go to the police and let him know your reasons for why you want to go .. such as you loving him and how you don't want him to be hurt anymore than he is right now. Just let him know .. reassure him that things will be alright and do what you think is right. I hope I helped!
-Kayla
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you should try talking to the police. what his dad is doing is not right and it's serious and if your boyfriend isnt doing it the police would probably be a good idea..
sorry not a lot of advice but i really hope everything turns out ok!!
<3Ali
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