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to date or not to date...
alrighty here is my story...
theres this guy i like at school-he likes me back and has asked me to go out to see a movie friday night(and my friend wants to talk to him about asking me to my our 8th grade dance)--i hear though, that he is dating a freshman+hes got "in a relationship" on his myspace...what do i do..i really really like this guy?!?!?!
-doctorkay-
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well have your friend talk to him about asking you to the dance then go with him and then ask him after about having a relationship with someone else or if he likes you...
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If he says himself that he "is in a relationship" then how much more clear can you really get? Sounds like a player.
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Talk to people that know him. See if he really has a girlfriend, without making it obvious why you are asking. If you make it obvious, they probably will tell you he is not because they want to help him out. If you find out he has a girlfriend, don't date him.
As for the Myspace thing, a lot of people put "In A Relationship" in their profile when they aren't. Just like some people find it funny to put that they are one hundred years old and divorced. If it really bothers you though, ask him.
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hey! ok first of all, IM him or call him and confront him about his status on myspace! ask him why it says "in a relationship"... if he denies it or makes up a stupid excuse and doesn't change his profile, then he is lying and he really does have a girlfriend. that happened to me with a guy... he claimed to be single and always tried to get me to go out with him, and when i asked him about his "in a relationship" status on facebook (it's like myspace, but for college students only) he would say he is too lazy to change it and that he is single... and i eventually found out he was lying all along! he had a gf and the whole thing turned into a big mess. what a liar... a quality you do NOT want in a bf, right?
if that is the case, then deffinitely forget about this boy right away! why? well two reasons... first of all, if he has a girlfriend, there is a good chance that you will get hurt in the end because he will decide to stay with her. once again, this happened to me with another boy (yes my life can be so dramatic haha)... he had a gf, he really liked me and i did too, we kind of had a "thing" and he ended up choosing her because they had been together for so long and he "thought" he loved her. this boy will win no matter what.. if he picks you he has a girl, and if he picks his gf he has a girl. however, for you, there is a 50% chance that you will get hurt! second of all, do you really want to be with a boy who does that to his gf? once i thought about it this way i got over this guy right away! if he is dating and talking to other girls behind his girlfriend's back, then what makes you think he won't do it to you if you become his gf?
sorry this is so long, but i would forget about him if he does have a gf... and deffinitely forget about him if he has a gf and tried to lie and say that he is single! if he really is single, changes his myspace profile and sounds sencere in his answer, then give the boy a chance! :) let me know if you need more help! good luck!
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