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I dont understand why he isnt talking to me anymore.i really


Posted Friday May 26 2006, 8:41 pm

the guy i like, we were getting along so great!!!! he even treated me like his girlfriend! well now something is going wrong. all of a sudden he hasnt been talkting to me for the past 2 weeks. just like that. click! i dont get it. i didnt do nuthin wrong. we had so much fun together. there are 3 and a half more days of school left and i want to talk to him real bad but im afraid to because im afraid he doesnt want to talk to me for some reason and hell get annoyed if i do or something. i always walk past him and stuff. we never make eyecontact anymore and we never talk and before i had this gut feeling that he liked me too before but now i dont feel anything. my question is what can i do to get him to talk to me again. just like to start a ...

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I really care about him..even if he doesnt think so


Posted Friday May 26 2006, 5:08 pm

Ive been going out with Jon for almost a year weve had are ups and downs around six months of going out one night he told me he didnt think i really loved him we had plans that night to go to a christmas party i was all ready to go but he just left me at home all night and hung out with his friends instead i was so upset i called my two bestfriends crying he just left me hanging they told me to break up with him or they wouldnt be my friend anyore so i dumped him the next morning my friends were always jealous that i didnt always hang out with them anymore but i made sure i hung out with them alot.My friends promised them would be there for me during the break up but they werent they became best friends and ditched me.jon is one of those gu...

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so confused .


Posted Friday May 26 2006, 4:49 pm

Okay, well. The boyfriend I have now, he picked me (as in, he asked me out) and well the first times a said no and maybe but then after a while a said yes.

I started liking him. But after a while, I realized he's not perfect. And sometimes I'm feeling great about being with him, and sometimes i'm not. I'm having my doubts.

And I think I want someone else, but i don't know. Cause what if there really isn't anyone better? and he doesn't get back with me. helpp?

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a guy


Posted Friday May 26 2006, 4:24 pm

ok so im 13/f and i like this guy, steven. we talk like kinda a lot. he always looks me in the eye. when he laughs he looks at me and i smile back. he's funny and makes me laugh. is he flirting with me? what our other signs of flirting or getting trying to get my attention? ill rate high!!!

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i think i messed up w/my boyfriend


Posted Friday May 26 2006, 4:12 pm

i told my boyfriend that he could dip and he said he wouldn't do it if it would bother me but i wanted him to be happy so i told him it was ok with me but it really bothers me like alot and i can't tell him how i feel because his 16th bday is sunday and i want it to be the best bday he's ever had, so what should i do?

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Why Does This Happen?


Posted Friday May 26 2006, 3:38 pm

Why do guys always flirt with the girl after the girl stops liking him? Or at least that has always been my experience.

Here's my problem: I used to like this guy, "Bob", and he didn't like me back at thr time. Eventually, I got past that and started liking this other guy, "Todd". I'm good friends with both of them but recently "Bob" has been flirting with me again. "Todd" likes me back as well, but our relationship is on stnad by. For example, today "Bob" was playing with my hair, like running his fingers through it. I didn't object at all. Do I go back to "Bob" or do I wait for "Todd"?

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Mixed messages


Posted Friday May 26 2006, 3:36 pm

ok well i like this guy and i dont know if he likes me or not because he looks through my classroom window when ever he walks by and looks at me and shows off infront of me or when he plays B-ball before he shoots he looks at me..and i dont know he talks to me more then all the girls and calls me up and everything but recently he had told someone that he liked me only as a friend but im not sure i think he might be lieing because hes friends with my brother hich is like the leadr of the group so he might be afraid to loose his friends..or i might be wrong he might not like me...im not sure wut to do or think..i dont know if i should tell him or not..thanx

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confused,jealous,and scared


Posted Friday May 26 2006, 2:25 pm

I need soooo much help i miss my ex skyler soo much. i love him and i don't know how i can tell him. i mean i used to say it all the time when we were going out. But now that he is going out with someone who i thought was my friend. I don't know what i should do. She always said he was a prick and all this stuff and i didn't believe anything she said and i still don't cause i love him and i need him to believe me but i'm scared to talk to him. Cause i'm afraid he'll call me a liar. What should i do???? :(

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I think its time to end this.


Posted Friday May 26 2006, 1:47 pm

My boyfriend and I have been going out for 5 months. And while I deeply care about him, that same spark isn't there that there was up until about a month ago. I make excuses so I don't have to go see him when I don't feel like it, and a lot of the time, I don't feel like it.

He started to get on my nerves from not knowing when to stop playing around and being too shy to ever say anything when I'm upset or suprise me with something or be sweet more than on the very rare occasions.

I think its time to end the relationship as it stands now. I still really DO want to remain friends with him though, and I know that usually never happens after a breakup. Especially when the guy is so attached, like it is here. He (...

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I Like Every Guy


Posted Friday May 26 2006, 5:30 am

13/f
I have a really big and annoying problem: I pretty much like every guy I come across. It's really annoying... all I do is stare at them. And it's not just guys from school! It's celebrities too. I'm so tired of it; I feel like I can't concentrate. I've had a boyfriend before, but I dumped him because he wasn't a good boyfriend. Does this have anything to do with it? What should I do?

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Found out something that really hurt a lot


Posted Friday May 26 2006, 3:27 am

A few days ago, I invented a fake person online who has been talking to this guy I like. this guy and i have been friends for 3 years and have recently admitted we like each other, but he's usually not very vocal about his feelings and i thought i could get things out of him with this girl. "the girl" tells him things about "her guy" and they give each other advice. anyway, he just told "this girl" that he is no longer interested in me, he doesn't feel attracted to me anymore and doesn't see me as anymore than a good friend. He said I wasn't "too bad looking" but not his type of person.
Well the thing is, I told him a few weeks ago I wanted to wait till school was over ( a few months) till we ...

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=\


Posted Thursday May 25 2006, 11:55 pm

Hey. Well yeah, theres this boy and I liked him for a very, very long time now. He finally broke up with his girl friend, but he still doesn't like me. Every time one of my friends ask he says I don't know. Just today one of my ex boyfriends, my first love, told me that he liked me again. We were talking for a while. I don't know what to do. When he told me he liked me I had butterflys and felt like we were starting over again. I don't know if I should wait longer, because I already waited about 3 months for this first boy, or if I should go back out with my first love. Please help.

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He's moving


Posted Thursday May 25 2006, 9:22 pm

So, as questions like these always begin...

There's this guy, who I very much like, and have liked for quite a while now. Quite a while being around a year or so. Well, at the time I was dating my ex boyfriend of two years, so of course I didn't break up with him like I should have. I'm so smart...

Well, this guy has been sending me mixed signals. I really, honestly think he might like me, but I'm not sure. I've had a major, major crush on him for the longest time, and I've always hoped he'd work up to asking me out. He'd been talking to me for the longest time, then he suddenly stopped. I wondered what was wrong, but then the bomb dropped.

Anyway, today I found out that he's moving.
...

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Crazy for a boy


Posted Thursday May 25 2006, 8:17 pm

Ok well one of my friends is like the hugest flirt ever, and her parents are stricter then ever and she still hooks up with guys. I am starting to get really annoyed because she likes a new guy everyday. See what i dont understand is my parents dont care if i have a boy friend but i dont!! I am soo shy to anybody i like, But i am not shy at all to guys i only like as friends. I just want to be more flirty and have the perfect guy. Any suggestions?

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ex boyfriend


Posted Thursday May 25 2006, 8:13 pm

Okay so sorry if this is long but if you repond I'll give you a five no matter what:]]

I had been going out with a boy and he was like, the best boyfriend possible except he just would suffocate me kind of, but not a lot. I started to like this other boy so I broke up with my boyfriend. My boyfriend was sad and stuff but then I started liking him again and not the other guy. Now I really want to get back with my ex but he is just like considering it. I am having my friend talk to him because I am soo shy. I have never loved someone so much in my life and I really want to get with him again. What should I do?

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trust


Posted Thursday May 25 2006, 7:46 pm

okay;; well i havea huge issue with trust
but its only with this one boy.
i really dont care about anyone else
well. anyways.
okay.
sometimes i dont belive he loves me
i mean theres a differnt bewteen
"thinking" you love someone
and "knowing" you love someone.
and i KNOW i love him.
and he said he KNOWS he loves me
but i dont believe him
and he asked me how can he prove it
but i dont know how?
so do you got any advice on what i should do with
telling him to prove it.
like any ideas.

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I like two dudes; offered to hook my BFF up with him. Why?


Posted Thursday May 25 2006, 6:19 pm

I recently asked a question about liking two guys, who are friends..and not knowing which one to like more, to go for..


One of the guys was outspoken, popular and wanted, the other one was more good looking, but more shy, and not as charming. (don't worry, I don't judge by looks, just reminding you of the two guys)
Lets call the outspoken one #1 and the shy one #2

Okey, so recap; the first time I met them I hepled them study for like 30 minutes, alright?

Now I met guy #2 at the library the other day, and he was like "HEY, what's up? The test went pretty good actually.." and we talked for like two minutes. And I was like "wow he seems to want to get to know me" B...

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KiSSiNG FACTS.


Posted Thursday May 25 2006, 5:43 pm

Hey, Lets Say My name is KT okay.
well im 14 years old & i think im really attractive, i was voted the prettiest white girl of my school. I have had many botfriends, but i still havent gotten my first kiss. I tell people i did, just so i wont seem prude, because im not i just havent gotten the chance with any guy. is there a certain way to kiss and a special technique to get into it. well i really want to know. ive done other stuff. . jus never kissed.
it sounds weird about that . . but i've gotten fingured and stuff . but i jus need help. pleaseee help i rate (:
always
Kay Tee

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doing what he wants


Posted Thursday May 25 2006, 5:08 pm

I've been going out with my boyfriend for about two months, and I love him, and he says he loves me. I pretty much let him do just about whatever he wants to me, like not sexual just like boyfriend girlfriend type stuff I guess. But he told one of my best friends that it sometimes takes the fun out of it. So should I like sometimes stop him or what?

Also what kinda stuff can I do to make him happier and be more involved in the relationship. I mean I hold his hand, hug him, let him hold me, that kinda stuff but what else can I do?

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What should I do?


Posted Thursday May 25 2006, 4:42 pm

I work with this really great girl that I didn't initially have feelings for, but as I've come to know her, I can't stop thinking about her. I'm not good at picking up girl's signals, but it looks to me like she flirts with me a lot. Laughs at my jokes, smiles a lot, I'll catch her staring every now and again, but I've misread these signals before.
Plus she's got this boyfriend who's kind of clingy, emotional, neurotic and all this. They've been going out for awhile and live together, but they won't anymore starting this fall. He'll be in another city and she has said that they don't have near the chemistry they did earlier(I guess that can be said for everyone though) and that she hadn't broken up with him yet because of the way...

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