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Found out something that really hurt a lot
A few days ago, I invented a fake person online who has been talking to this guy I like. this guy and i have been friends for 3 years and have recently admitted we like each other, but he's usually not very vocal about his feelings and i thought i could get things out of him with this girl. "the girl" tells him things about "her guy" and they give each other advice. anyway, he just told "this girl" that he is no longer interested in me, he doesn't feel attracted to me anymore and doesn't see me as anymore than a good friend. He said I wasn't "too bad looking" but not his type of person.
Well the thing is, I told him a few weeks ago I wanted to wait till school was over ( a few months) till we went out, because i'm in year 12 and this year is very important. he was cool with waiting. But last week we made out for like 3 hours and my feelings for him grew more intense and a few days ago i told him i'd go out with him which he was really happy about. He was planning to ask me out in person. I haven't seen him at school since then (He's had exams) but now I found this out. I'm in tears because I thought he really liked me and we'd get together. Then this happens.
i know it was wrong to create this girl to get things out of him, especially because I don't like what I found out. I just don't know what to do now. I don't know whether I should admit to inventing the girl online, so I can ask him about what he told "her" There's a chance he might not have meant it.. but I don't know. I don't know what's happened in the last few days thats changed his feelings.
what should I do? Sorry this is so long. Thanks for your time.
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well it sounds to me like your guys a player. he is just useing you, and I know thats hard to hear and you dont want to believe it, but it is most likely true. Sounds like to me he is useing you for just a good time, or he really could like you and is just a little embarrased or shy toadmitt it. If I was you i would tell him your friend was "the girl" and she told you about it that way he might not me mad. If you want to know the truth thats what you need to do. well good luck
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well i think that you should tell him about the "girl" and ask him if what he sad to her was true. he led you on and then he told her he didnt liek you so i would ask him for the truth.
hope i helped=]
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Well, your right, it was wrong to create a fake girl, but! you wouldnt have known any of this without doing so. I'm not saying it was right, but if thats how he really feels about you then atlesat you know.
I wouldnt suggest telling him, because i think that would oonly make him really really angry.
But if you feel its the right thing to do,
then tell him and see if you can talk things out.
boys are boys, they change like the wind. So he probably just changed his mind for no reason, and I woudlnt worry about just him.
Especially if all you did was make out that oen time.. you know?
hope thingsare getting better.
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