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How To Decide?
Posted Wednesday June 7 2006, 10:47 pm
How do you decide whether its love or lust?
Or seven years over 7 months?
I'm caught between a long standing relationship and a hot crush?
What should i do ?
How can I decide?
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my friend
Posted Wednesday June 7 2006, 10:43 pm
So, I have this friend and she's been going out with this guy for like 3 years. No joke! They've been together for 3 looooong years now. She was like super duperly in love with him. Like, he was the only thing she could talk about whenever I hung out with her. Now....they just broke up. and she's completely devastated. She's been crying for like days now. I saw her this morning and she looked terrible. She is like, totally distraught over this. I'm wondering what I can do to help her through this. She's like, my best friend. Please help.
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boys boys boys
Posted Wednesday June 7 2006, 9:07 pm
i think at my age, i really want a boyfriend. but who? i know a relationship is special but i just can't wait. i kind of like my friend from ohio and he's coming during the summer. he's probably going to visit us for a few days. what should i do? i'm 15 and he's 16.
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love cyclone.. <3 <3
Posted Wednesday June 7 2006, 9:02 pm
Im 16/f and my friend is 15/m...we live quite a few citys apart...we've been freinds since 1999...
A few years ago i realized that i was in love with my friend.But beacaus i did'nt want to ruin the freindship i tried to ignor these fealings. This year i decided that i could'nt bear it any more and i was ready to tell him the way i feel.Then the night i had planed to tell him, he started asking me about my friend lets call her 17/f. I then knew that i had to tell him right then and there or i could really miss out, so i did. His reaction was a lil stuned, but he said something on the lines of him knowing.
The thing is i talked to him and he said that he had once liked me but the feeling had just left, or somethi...
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ex boyfriend
Posted Wednesday June 7 2006, 8:30 pm
Dear Columnists,
I need help really bad. Last weekend I was at a sleepover with me and my 2 other friends. They are my best friends. I was talking to my -ex and he said that he liked my friend...(one of the ones that was sleeping over)They went out for a while and I cried the whole time. She broke up with him because she felt bad ad that she did want this kid to Jepordise our friendship. She is giving me time but I feel inside as I never want them to get back together...Even though I am being selfish. I still love him! We have been off and on for a little. What should I do?
Srry it was SO long.
I rate 5's for good answers!
PLEASE HELP!
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8th grade dance
Posted Wednesday June 7 2006, 7:54 pm
so my dance is on friday i want to go with this guy and we have gone out like twice this year already but i really want to go with him but i am tired of waiting! so i was wondering, do guys think its creepy if a girl asks them out??
thanks
i'll rate high
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guy issues
Posted Wednesday June 7 2006, 7:18 pm
well i love this kid from my class,i havent told anyone. he is so perfect, i mean that isnt why i like him, i like him because our personalities clash so well. and sometimes i see him looking at me, but idk if its because i have something in my teeth or what. but, his best friend likes me, so idk if thats why he might not. but i want to find out if he does, because if he does then ill tell him how i feel, i just want a way to find out without reavealing to much about my feelings. i jsut need a quick way to get him to tell me if he's interested. thanks so much for any help at all<3
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back again
Posted Wednesday June 7 2006, 6:54 pm
i've liked this guy Aaron for awhile. i'm 17 his 21. i've known him forever. well we go on and off talking. i live in GA he lives in SC we live about and hour to an hour and a half from each other. but we just started talking again, but this time it feels different. he told me that next time we saw each other we would make it more then what it is now. but i'm scared of getting hurt. PROBELM!!! other girls. he flirts with so many other girls that are YOUNG and when i say young i mean 16 and under. it's crazy and it really hurts my feelings. should i be getting jealuos even though he is nothing but just a friend to me even though our relationship is about to go somewhere? and how should i treat what we are now since we are nothing basically?
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my crush
Posted Wednesday June 7 2006, 6:50 pm
Well, I am hoping to get some input from the guys, but, anyone is welcome to answer if they know. I have a crush on someone right now & I think he likes me back. We flirt & joke around all the time. My actual question is...Do guys kinda sit at home & think about girls they have an attraction to, like we do? And if anyone knows, what kind of things do they think about if they do like you? Thankx!
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First Kiss
Posted Wednesday June 7 2006, 6:02 pm
So, I'm sixteen years old, going into Junior high, and haven't lost my first kiss. Honestly, is this a good thing or a bad thing in guys eyes? I've had chances to lose it, but i feel its really important. Help. :\
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If your shy, how do you get close?
Posted Wednesday June 7 2006, 4:56 pm
OK. So my friend is pratically in love with this guy. Oh yeah--- and this really is my friend. Though her parents have this rule: no dating till shes 18.
"i dont no what i want to .....do with dave like...you know----i dont no if i want to go out---or jsut talk---or become strangers---or just ignore each other---i just dont no." AIM converstation.
She is so confused about everything, and it's messing her up. She keeps asking me what she should do, and i told her to get to know the guy better, but shes just too afraid of pushing him away. Can anyone help with this? I hate her like this and maybe if they can even just talk more, everything will be good.
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Posted Wednesday June 7 2006, 4:34 pm
i like my friends boyfriend, and i tend to flirt with him A LOT,but not while my friends around.is it ok to flirt with him even though its my friends boyfriend?it must be pretty obvious i like him, because today a kid in my math class yelled STACEY(me) WANTS TREVORS(the kid i like) NUTS!!
should i stop flirting with him so much because hes my friends boyfriend?or what?
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how to talk to boyfriends
Posted Wednesday June 7 2006, 3:57 pm
i am always fine around boys-except if they are my boyfriend. like, if i know i like a guy, and i know that they like me, but we arent together, i am fine and not nervous. but then if we were like a couple... and we were like talking or something, i get so nervous and stuff. how can i help this?
i'll rate 5's for stuff that helps me = )
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i like a guy
Posted Wednesday June 7 2006, 3:02 pm
i met a guy 4yrs back he was 2yrs senior 2 me nd ever since i like him.earlier he dnt show much intrest in me but recently he found out my id nd sent me a mail saying that he's been miserable without me .do u thnk he likes me?
i am from india
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hate myself
Posted Wednesday June 7 2006, 2:59 pm
omg i hate myself sooo much....i'm not supposed to miss my ex and stuff. i'm not supposed to cry over him when i'm going out with my bf joe. god i'm soooo stupid and i shouldn't cry over schuyler i'm like joe a lot i'm a bitch and a whore i don't know what i should do.
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help
Posted Wednesday June 7 2006, 2:56 pm
hey my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and i've been having these weird dreams about my ex boyfriend Donnie in one dream I was meeting him in a restraunt on a date and then we kissed could these dreams mean I steal have feelings for my ex boyfriend?I don't think my mom would like me going back out with him if I do still have feelings for him becouse donnie was kindof a criminal he got arrested last month and he was 18 so I think he's a little old for me,but does these dreams mean I have feelings for him I've had this same dream every day for the past week now please help me in telling me what it means Thanks.
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does he like me?
Posted Wednesday June 7 2006, 2:23 pm
hey
this guy and i have been talking over myspace and now i go to his school.
he asks if i want to hangout
and stuff
and he tried calling me but i didnt answer because i didnt have my phone at the time
hes really hot
and i mean REALLY hot.
what should i do to get him where i want him?
well how do i get him to be my boyfreind?
thank you so much for the people that answer this.
even if you try..
i rate 5s for trying
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hesitation
Posted Wednesday June 7 2006, 1:39 pm
ok well ive kissed 2 guys (im 15) but like, they werent like real.. like i didnt even like those guys .. and now whenever like a guy likes me or wants to get with me and like even if i want to too, i get really like nervous and akward, and it just ends up never happening. and its so frustrating because i want like a relationship like some of my friends have, but i just get so hesitant like i dont wanna do something wrong or like im scared to let someone into my life. how can i just let go and go for it?
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dance
Posted Wednesday June 7 2006, 1:20 pm
tonights the formal at my school & since your not allowed to being anyone from outside the school my boyfriend can't come. I really didn't want to go since I wouldn't be able to dance with anyone (like grinding) But one of my guy friends says he does it with other girls during dances (and he has a girlfriend) and that the point is to have fun & he thinks it's not cheating. Is grinding with another guy, just as a fun thing not like like you have feelings for the person, considered cheating? thanks.
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Should I?
Posted Wednesday June 7 2006, 1:17 pm
13/female
Okay, so i like this guy, like love this guy. I think he likes me 2, but im not sure... I really, really want to go out with him but it seems we both are really shy and i can't hold how i feel anymore but i dont know how to tell him. what should i do?
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