So, I'm sixteen years old, going into Junior high, and haven't lost my first kiss. Honestly, is this a good thing or a bad thing in guys eyes? I've had chances to lose it, but i feel its really important. Help. :\
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? iSpEaKsPaNiSh answered Wednesday June 7 2006, 6:57 pm: it really doesn't matter to the guys that you actually WANT it to matter to. the guys that you don't want to have anything to do with might want an experienced girl. however, most guys won't care, or even may like this about you. to quote footloose, they won't "suffer by comparison." they also know that you are serious about the feelings behind it; you aren't just looking to play around.
don't rush it, but also don't hold back. first kiss experiences, whether they are good or bad, are fun to look back on and it's fun to share your story with other people. so don't stress over it. it will happen when it happens.
Sherry answered Wednesday June 7 2006, 6:45 pm: Guys like to know that they may be your first kiss, so its definatley an okay thing! And it's better to never have kissed a guy than to be known for hooking up with a million guys.
advicequeen answered Wednesday June 7 2006, 6:44 pm: Hey! No it's not a big deal at all. A lot of guys even like it when they are a girls first kiss because they feel special. And there are SOME guys that like a girl with experience, but these guys wouldn't be worth your time and are often players. If you need anything else just drop one in my inbox. [ advicequeen's advice column | Ask advicequeen A Question ]
Xineph answered Wednesday June 7 2006, 6:42 pm: My phone number is...
Haha. Jk. I wouldn't worry about it too much. If you're dealing with the big-time obnoxious "playas" then it might be an issue, but if you're dealing with a guy you really love then he won't care. Trust me. From what I know, experience isn't really a big deal. [ Xineph's advice column | Ask Xineph A Question ]
herbivore answered Wednesday June 7 2006, 6:19 pm: hey. a guy could have mixed feelings about this. they could be turned off because you have no experience and you may not be that good at kissing. a guy could see this as a good thing because he knows that you are saving it for the right moment, and for a guy that you really like. the best thing to do is to just go with the flow. if you have an oppurtunity to do it and it feels right, go ahead. hope this helps!! :] ♥-X-♥ [ herbivore's advice column | Ask herbivore A Question ]
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