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how to talk to boyfriends
i am always fine around boys-except if they are my boyfriend. like, if i know i like a guy, and i know that they like me, but we arent together, i am fine and not nervous. but then if we were like a couple... and we were like talking or something, i get so nervous and stuff. how can i help this?
i'll rate 5's for stuff that helps me = )
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Just try to think in your mind that you two aren't together. You are just 2 people who like each other and are hanging out. Even if you are doing things that couples do. Just think of it as 2 people who like each other doing things that couples do but not being a couple. That might help. It is all a matter of how you think about things and look at things when you are with him. Hugs fiesty
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i think the best thing is to be yourself. of course you are going to be nervous, starting a relationship or being in one isn't easy. it takes time. you should talk about the things that interest you and him. some tips are:
-Chill out with soulful tunes and soothing sweet talk.
-nice smiles
-Surround yourself with people who are like you. You'll be amazed how much more easily good things will come to you.
-Be sexy and spontaneous.
-Retain a little mystery and enigma.
-Courtesy and manners will get you everywhere on a date. Be nice.
good luck
Victoria
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I understand you. In fact, I was just having this problem. I've got a million friends who are guys and im usually even fine if i have to turn down a date to someone im not dating. But when there is someone who Im dating and they ask me out and I cant go, I always feel terrible! But on dates or even if u 2 are just alone, you're going to need to talk. And trust me, I know nervous. Its an akward feeling, at least for me. But what I've learned is if you think just as though your talking to a friend, and forget your dating for just a minute, words come easily. Like intrests--- what you have in common. they say its easy to talk about that kind of stuff, but i leaves awkard silences and stuff. So I dont know about you, but i find it so much easier to go with it---- to just have fun with a really really close friend who you have feeling for. Its so much easier that way. Hope this helps!!
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