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If your shy, how do you get close?
OK. So my friend is pratically in love with this guy. Oh yeah--- and this really is my friend. Though her parents have this rule: no dating till shes 18.
"i dont no what i want to .....do with dave like...you know----i dont no if i want to go out---or jsut talk---or become strangers---or just ignore each other---i just dont no." AIM converstation.
She is so confused about everything, and it's messing her up. She keeps asking me what she should do, and i told her to get to know the guy better, but shes just too afraid of pushing him away. Can anyone help with this? I hate her like this and maybe if they can even just talk more, everything will be good.
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jeez no dating until age 18.. thats harsh!!! but their house- their laws. so, she should just talk to the guy. if he asks her out, she should just simply say the truth. im sorry, but i can't date until age 18, lets just be friends for now. she cant go against her parents rules, cuz that will make her feel worse, and she cant push the guy away because then she still feels bad. she has to just be friends with him until shes 18. i hope i helped.. even just a little bit =P
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Hi there, I think her parents are being a bit strict on her dating this guy at 18. Although I can see what they are getting at. For starters what does she think about this Dave? Does he turn her on? Do you think he would make a good boyfriend to her? or just a friend?. Ask her those questions and help her make a decision. Some women feel as though they need to keep that close to a guy that they become addicted to them and do anything to keep him for themselves. This could lead in tears because the guy would know that hes got power over her and will flirt with her and make her jealous. Maybe she should just strike up a conversation with him, get to know him as an aquaintance. Then in a few months take it further. Only if HE wants to though. Hope that sums it all up. Daniel.
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