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hesitation
ok well ive kissed 2 guys (im 15) but like, they werent like real.. like i didnt even like those guys .. and now whenever like a guy likes me or wants to get with me and like even if i want to too, i get really like nervous and akward, and it just ends up never happening. and its so frustrating because i want like a relationship like some of my friends have, but i just get so hesitant like i dont wanna do something wrong or like im scared to let someone into my life. how can i just let go and go for it?
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It's hard to change who you are. You're problem reminds me of a fav saying of mine. "Listen to your heart, but bring your brain with you" i know its hard to begin a new relationship, and its scary. but sometimes you just have to go for it. we all make mistakes sometimes and we learn from them. People walk and out of our lives and we some stay in our hearts forever. but before that can happen, you have to give them a chance. i'm not saying go out with any guy who asks you out. at least know a little about him and make sure you have feelings for him. never let guys or anyone else force you into doing things you don't want to do.
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~***Victoria***~
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My girlfriend used to be the same way never letting me in and it used to make me mad not knowing what was on her mind...So you shouldnt be scared of letting someone in because if you never do then you'll never know how it feels...You never know it could be the worst thing or the best but you dont know till you try...An with the whole getting nervous an feeling akward everyone feels that way atleast once in there life thats called life...If you really want a relationship that bad you should just forget all about feeling akward & nervous or thingking you may do something wrong and find the relationship you want...
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why would you kiss two guys you dont even like?- i think thats your problem right there. youre wanting to have fun, and not settle down. you might think youre ready for a seriosu relationship, but gonig around kissing random guys wont really help ya too much.
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