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Defining Love is a pain.
Posted Thursday November 30 2006, 11:09 am
After nearly two years together my boyfriend has decided he doesn’t really love me. Actually he has decided he has never really loved anyone. He said he’s never met anyone who he would do absolutely anything for, whose happiness he would put above his own; he hasn’t had that crazy love.
In my opinion, that is a good thing. If he had experienced that love he’d be insane and delusional. One of the things I love about him is how level-headed he is and how seriously he considers things. So I tried not to get too mad at first about this whole ‘love’ thing (although I think his expectation of real ‘love’ is completely ridiculous and impractical) but now I just can’t shake the feeling that I’m just a place-holder...
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My x man
Posted Thursday November 30 2006, 9:31 am
I broke up with myboyfriend of 6 months after things were getting really serious and I felt I just couldn't cope with it all.Even after he cheated on me after a week going out. I have never been scared of commitment in my entire life and thought this guy was the one. But it freaked me out so much, and i couldnt forget the fact that he cheated on me with the same girl that i warned him bout that I hated because the same girl did it to me before. So i decided to break up with him. I really hurt him as he felt the same way and he had just broken up with his gurl for me again.. I dont know if i did the right thing?? Help me please </3
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should i be worried?
Posted Thursday November 30 2006, 5:46 am
my boyfriend always checks other girls out on the street, it really bugs me and am scared its cuz he's lookin for someone better? should i be worried? please let me know and do all guys do this , he tells me he loves me but im not so sure cuz it bothers me :( help~
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Help with getting my boyfriend back, after I broke up with h
Posted Thursday November 30 2006, 4:04 am
I broke up with myboyfriend of 10months after things were getting really serious and I felt I just couldn't cope with it all. I have never been scared of commitment in my entire life and thought this guy was the one. But it freaked me out so much i decided to break up with him. I really hurt him as he felt the same way and he had just had his wife leave him for another man 10 months before our relationship. I love him so much and want him back and he said he just can't come back after i did this. He said he still wants to be good friends, and doesn't want to be with anyone else right now and still wants me to leave all my stuff over there. he just won't touch me and i feel like he's another person. It's so scary.I have made the biggest mist...
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I love you
Posted Thursday November 30 2006, 2:25 am
theres this boy and I love him a lot and he said he loved me and he wanted to be with me
Hes 16 and a junior
i'm 14 and he knew that but he didn't think I was freshman and I told him recently and i asked him if it was okay he said of course.
But it seems like he doesn't like me as much and like he ignores me.
I kinda envy his ex girlfriend too.
like I'm not worried and I don't mean jealous.
Its just they still say I love you to eachother and she dumped him for another guy but she is always crying to him for him back.
its just so annoying.
advice?
thanks :]
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a friendship turning into something more
Posted Thursday November 30 2006, 2:22 am
m/18
recently I've gotten a new atatude(sp?) on life due to the fact i've joined the army and lost 37 pounds, now if that isn't a confidence booster I don't know what is. but anyway i've liked one of my friends for quiet a long time about 2 years now come to think of it, and two days ago I asked her out... unfortunately(sp?) she is going out with someone that she knew in high school and he is off at college but she's back here and quite frankly stuck at home till the spring semester starts. The reason i'm asking this question is that i don't know my chances of he actually calling it of with the guy, btw they have broken up before and their relationship is patchy at best... and going with me. when I left her house two days ago...
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Christmas Present Ideas for Boyfriend
Posted Thursday November 30 2006, 2:09 am
My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 months now. He is 17 turning 18 and I am 15, but it feels like we've known each other forever. He is absolutely in love with baseball, (he got a full-ride scholarship to play ball at college,) and his fav. team is the Giants. So for christmas, I ordered him a customized Giants jersey with his name and number on the back.
The thing is, my friends say his present for me is perfect, so I want to get him something else that will show how I really feel about him. Something really cute and special. Ideas would be great.
Also, his birthday is January 9th, so any ideas to top his christmas presents would be much appreciated!!!
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question y?
Posted Wednesday November 29 2006, 10:05 pm
yeah my question why having sex in different postion hurt like a bitch? i mean i lost it already but when i do it when my boy damn when we do it in different ways it hurts soo bad i wanna do it but then it hurts ya know? i wanna make my bf happy doing it not like NO NO! so yeah answer me that question!
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Need cute present ideas.
Posted Wednesday November 29 2006, 9:44 pm
My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 2 months now, he's 17 and I'm 15, but we feel like we've known eachother forever. This Christmas I want to get him something really special. He is absolutely obsessed with the Giants baseball team, and is absolutely obsessed with baseball. Because he likes baseball so much, yesterday I ordered a custom Giants jersey for him with his last name and number on the back. But I don't know what else to get him! And another problem I have is that his birthday is January 9th, and I have no clue what to get him!! Help please.
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birthday surprise
Posted Wednesday November 29 2006, 9:16 pm
im 16 and my bf will be 17 on his birthday.. which then we'll have been together almost 7 months. we go to different schools and i wouldnt be able to really hang out with him that day because right after school he goes to work until late, but he says that his birthday is always just like another day and he never has parties or anything like that so i want to make it a good one for him. so i have two ideas:
1. get checked out of school about 30 minutes early and go to his school and show up and wait in the lobby or something about 5 minutes before the last bell rings so that when he walks out ill be there and have his present and maybe a balloon or rose with me to give him [btw would a guy like a single rose or is that more of...
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BFF trader
Posted Wednesday November 29 2006, 9:15 pm
Help! My BFF already has a BF but she's flirting w/my crush! She knows i hate that but she wont stop. And I think he likes it! what do i do?
-Broken Heart
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Best guy friend....
Posted Wednesday November 29 2006, 9:15 pm
I have found myself falling for my best guy friend. I did not have these feelings a while back, but now I totally do. When I would hang around him, I'd act totally cool and casual, but now I find myself nervous. When we talked on the phone it was the worst. I'd never been so nervous! I really want to get my message out that I have feelings for him, but I don't want to straight forward tell him. I really think I have a chance, and there's even times when I feel like he has feelings for me too. How do I let him know, like how do I flirt with him? I'm SO confused!
-Fallen for her best guy friend.
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does he like me?
Posted Wednesday November 29 2006, 8:22 pm
hello, my name is Jackie. I am 14 years old. (haha I'll be 15 on the second) Well this kid Jordan, he's my friend but I like him as more than that. I thought he might feel the same way, or something more than a friendly thing for me. He would do things like, link arms when we walked, lie on my bed with me, lightly bump into me and stuff. He was advising me to go back out with my ex. (who he is friends with) and then it came out that he knows that I like him. Yet, he continued to advice me to go back out with the ex. This upset me, because I assumed that he doesn't like me. The next day he says to me in this kind of shy way "you make me smile" and now I'm extra confused. Do you HONOSTLY think that he likes me. (and again, please b...
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another guy problem
Posted Wednesday November 29 2006, 8:07 pm
ok this guy tells his sister who is my neighbor that he thinks i am really cute and he is a T.A(teachers aid) for my english class and he won't talk to me why won't he just say something oh and he is a senior and i am a freshman(but i am 15).oh and sometimes i see him kind of loking at me.
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How long should I hold on?
Posted Wednesday November 29 2006, 7:38 pm
How long do you think you should hold on to a relationship you know will never happen?
Story behind the question:
I've liked this really nice guy for years. He's kind of popular because he's so nice and funny. Seriously, this guy would start a conversation with anyone. Not so many popular girls like him in a love way, but a lot of people from middle-lower to average on the social scale do. (Sorry, I hate when people talk like that, but its the only way I can really describe it.) I'm somewhere between average and popular, but I don't hang out with popular people. So basically, this guy and I used to be pretty good friends, but did nothing outside of school, then we barely talked for a year because we didn't have any cl...
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Boy Trouble!
Posted Wednesday November 29 2006, 7:35 pm
ok so i really think this guy is hot...hes from another town and i saw him at the rink when i was w/ my friends and him and his frends was lik checking me out...hes at the rink everytime we go so i really wanna talk to him...im not sure if i should tho...plz help...what should i do??
*LUCKY13*
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Posted Wednesday November 29 2006, 6:28 pm
guys wat do you like in a girl? like wat attracts you to a girl?
thx
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relationship not working
Posted Wednesday November 29 2006, 5:24 pm
I am going to break up with my boyfriend soon. We havent gone on a date yet and we've been dating for over 2 weeks. I want to go out with him this weekend and get a date and kiss out of him before I break up with him (he's my first boyfriend.) He isnt really into the relationship either, but I want to make him into it for this date. How can I do this?
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this other guy
Posted Wednesday November 29 2006, 11:11 am
okay 15/m, i really like this girl, and i asked her out but she rejected me, ever since at school i think shees been flirting with me, anyway she goes to this school band practice thing(i play the guitar but im not that good so i didnt bother joining, her on the other hand is brilliant) anyway, i get this paranoid feeling she likes him, theres no reason for this, but i just figure she does, it maakes me feel weird, yes i feel a little jelous but theres some other weird feeling i have, and its not a nice one, anyone knw what im seelin and how to make it stop(just thought id let u know i relli relli like her)
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Posted Wednesday November 29 2006, 10:59 am
today in P.E we had orienteering (sp?) i had to go through a woodland area, and the boy that i used to fancy, jake, was in there aswell, anyway jake had his leg stuck in some stinging nettles and i had my foot stuck in a bush and he pulled his leg out, even tho he knew it would hurt, just to come and help me and after when we had to get back up, he had helped me get up, coz my legs were really hurting and then after that we had lunch and he never really "noticed" me before but when he walked passed me he smiled nd sed "u alright", and then after lunch we had D.T and hes in my class nd he helped me alot and was making me laugh nd that, which he never used to joke about with me before bczo im not exactly his 'best mate'. s...
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