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does he like me?
hello, my name is Jackie. I am 14 years old. (haha I'll be 15 on the second) Well this kid Jordan, he's my friend but I like him as more than that. I thought he might feel the same way, or something more than a friendly thing for me. He would do things like, link arms when we walked, lie on my bed with me, lightly bump into me and stuff. He was advising me to go back out with my ex. (who he is friends with) and then it came out that he knows that I like him. Yet, he continued to advice me to go back out with the ex. This upset me, because I assumed that he doesn't like me. The next day he says to me in this kind of shy way "you make me smile" and now I'm extra confused. Do you HONOSTLY think that he likes me. (and again, please be honost, dont worry I'll rate well even if you say he doesn't like me)
thanks
*jackie*
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I think it sounds like he likes you.
If he's acting shy towards and everything towards you and telling you you make him smile, it sounds like there's defintely some nervousness there, which may be resulting in some feelings.
Also, linking arms and bump into you and everything, not many "friends" do that to eachother unless you're being really silly and joking around with eachother. Which in that case, most girl and guy friends still don't do that together.
I think the reason he was asking you to get back together with your ex is because maybe your ex wants to get back together with you, and he's using your friend as a sort of bait. You know like, get the close friend to butter up the guy to the girl and make him seem great so she'll go out with him? So he may just be being a good friend towards his friend.
I think you should try and flirt more than you usually do and see how he reacts and see if he flirts back. Get the message across to him that you like him - but still don't be discouraged if he doesn't notice, sometimes guys can't pick up on signals as easily as girls can. But sometimes whenever girls want to see what a guy might be feeling & thinking they have a friend help them out. The next time you two hang out and have a few friends with you, you should have a friend mention how cute you guys would look together as a couple, and see what he does. See if he smiles or gets nervous or blushes or what. Those'd definetely be signs of him liking you.
But if he sits there and goes,"Really? Haha, nawh. She's a great friennddd, like my sister." Or something like that, obviously, you can tell what that means there.
But like I said, I definetely think this guy has some feelings for you.
I hope I helped.
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alright well i'm gonna be completely honest because you asked nicely hahh(o: but seriously, i think he likes you. He just doesn't want to tell you because your ex likes you and he's friends with him and wouldn't wanna let him down like that. You have to somehow tell him straight up you like him! straight up is always the best way to do things, fer SHERRR. Just do it, and see what happens. See what he's thinking. If he doesn't like you, you'll move on. If he does, HEY! nice goin(:
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Well, every guy is different just like every girl is different. These acts of his might be just his nature or he just sees you as a really good friend. But it can also mean that he really likes you. Not many guys who are straight likes to lie in bed with girls or link arms...he's straight, right? Haha. I think that he does like you.
The only way to find out for sure is for you to ask him yourself. Not through anyone else because he might be too shy to say yes to your friend or something.
The next time he suggests you go back with your ex, in a joking way say "What about you?" or something like that hinting him to ask you out although many guys that I know are seriously obtuse to any hints. Haha but good luck
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