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Help with getting my boyfriend back, after I broke up with h
I broke up with myboyfriend of 10months after things were getting really serious and I felt I just couldn't cope with it all. I have never been scared of commitment in my entire life and thought this guy was the one. But it freaked me out so much i decided to break up with him. I really hurt him as he felt the same way and he had just had his wife leave him for another man 10 months before our relationship. I love him so much and want him back and he said he just can't come back after i did this. He said he still wants to be good friends, and doesn't want to be with anyone else right now and still wants me to leave all my stuff over there. he just won't touch me and i feel like he's another person. It's so scary.I have made the biggest mistake of my life and just want to take it all back. I just want the man I feel in love with back, and to want me again. What do I do????? He told me last night I'm the best thing that has ever happened to him and gave me the biggest compliments I have ever recieved from anyone...I didn't know that his kids knew about me either, if i had i wouldn't have done this. Now he says he was scared of this, telling people about me, and another women leaving him like his wife did. This guy is the best boyfriend a girl could ever ever have, and I'm so stupid!
I'm 27 years old female and he's 38 years old. with 2 kids.
I'm from Australia
I hope you can give me some advice on what to do? I know I can only wait and see what happens, have tried everything... Don't want to push him away anymore than I already have.
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Tell him exactly how you feel about him now and before the breakup.
Tell him why you got scared and why you felt the need to break it off.
Tell him what you learned and what you have missed since you have broke up.
Go into great detail. Don't worry about sounding like an idiot, just do it.
Then, give it to him to read. Either in person or in
an email. Its so much easier to talk to someone about important things when you don't have to worry about being interrupted or having them talking back to you and getting you off subject.
Give it a try. I can tell you from experience it works. Hope to hear from you that it did for you as well. :)
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