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was he blowing me off?


Posted Thursday February 1 2007, 3:38 pm

alright this guy wanted to go with me to a mall kinda far away from where i live, and i dont really know him. so i said instead lets go get coffee, he said it was cool. now tday i texted him and he said that he couldnt hang out cause he had to take his mom to work which is near that mall he wanted to go to.he said maybe next thursday and that he was sorry. was he blowing me off or wat?

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what sould i do about this guy?


Posted Thursday February 1 2007, 3:38 pm

So I like this guy and he likes me too. But he has a new years resolution to not date anyone in the year 2007. So I either wait the year or forget about him. And I dont want to forget about him. Should I make him forget the resolution or should I wait?

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valentine<3


Posted Thursday February 1 2007, 3:36 pm

ok so i *really* want a valentine this year. last year, i didn't have one, and the year before that, my bf broke up with me on valentines day.

so...what should i do?

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wife is lost with out a clue


Posted Thursday February 1 2007, 2:23 pm

i am 36 years old and have been married for 12 years now we have 2 girls,11 and 13.anyway,to make a long story short wife for the last couple years has been going out and partying alot at night and on the weekends i always suspected her of doing something but she deneid it my friends even caught her but she still deneid it.finally this past nov. she admitted to cheating in me cause she wasnt happy. so we tried to sort it out and said she would stop. like a dumb ass i agreed she stays home and does stuff with me more but she still went out on the weekends and stayed out till the morning so this past weekend she went out and didnt come home till 1 in the afternoon now she tells me shes been doin coke after bar hours and this time she was so j...

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Stuck


Posted Thursday February 1 2007, 2:16 pm

Ok I'm 18.... and i'm stuck between these two guys.

Bob and i have history, about over a year of it. I fought my butt off to be with him. The thing is my mom and grandma dont like him. And after risking getting thrown out of my house for him and having to go through hell and all this i just dont want it to for nothing.

John is well a man. He has a job and is going some where in life. And my mom LOVES him is a postive. He's kind of overbearing, which gets annoying.

I like Bob, but i think i think i have a thing for John. So i have no idea what to do. I want to know that if I should just take a break from Bob and take a chance with John.

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Crushing but not sure how to handle it.....


Posted Thursday February 1 2007, 12:46 pm

Okay, first off I will give you some details about me. I am a Senior and 18. Now usually I like guys my age or older but since last year when I was a Junior I kept notcing this cute guy checking me out. His locker was in the 8th grade hallway but I didn't think anything of it. He looked older than an 8th grader and had the most amazing blue eyes and smile I had ever seen. Everyday when I walked to class, we would catch eachother looking at one another. It was funny. He would look at me, and then I'd look at him. He would look down and so would I, and then we both would look up at the same time again and smile and then he shyly would turn away. Well this year I noticed his locker was in the freshman hallway, so I asked around about his name ...

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okay its long sorry!


Posted Thursday February 1 2007, 10:09 am

so this is an online relationship thats been happening for over a year now?
okay a year ago i was dating a kid named john and yeah i dumped him.. and yeah it ended. but every time he has a girlfriend he likes another girl, EVERYTIME. so before he dated me he was with this girl named paige then he liked me they broke up; me and him dated then i found out he was hitting on this girl while he was dating me so since i considered that cheating i dumped him ever since a year ago he's dated that girl twice, another girl, another girl and yeah. now to the present. so he's player-ish but overall he's a good guy.
i started dating this amazing guy named conor in december so it was a week past and john comes out of nowhere and tells me he...

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Why do they want to talk to me now?


Posted Thursday February 1 2007, 6:33 am

22/f

Guys this is mostly aimed at you but I need EVERYONE’S help on this.
When I was younger like in high school I was the outcast losery dork. No guys would ever give me the time of day. Even when I would try to talk to them. All of a sudden now guys that I did go to school with are coming up to me and wanting to talk with me. Even ones that were bullies to me, are being all nice and flirty. I don’t get it. Can anyone help me with this. Why are guys so confusing like that? is it me? it doesn’t seem like I am different yet they have changed.

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My Boyfriend


Posted Thursday February 1 2007, 5:08 am

I love my boyfriend to bits but he's just so depressed with his work right now.

He is such a beautiful person but I haven't seen that beautiful person latley. He's been working in his job for 3 years this year. he's 20 going on 21! He is the only young male that works there, the rest are all older women.

The pick on him Constantly, they never leave him alone. He is the only one that is basically mentally abused by these women.

He's been looking for new jobs but there isn't a wide range of job opportunities around in our small country town. Moving towns isn't an option. Both our families are here and this is where we plan to have ours.

He looses sleep over it so he's always tired. I...

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xoxo


Posted Thursday February 1 2007, 2:01 am

I know xoxo stands for hugs and kisses and ive heard the o is for hugs and the x is for kissez but why?
i always thought the X was for hugs because when you hug your arms make an X and wehn you kiss your lips make an O shape
but sum1 told me im way off

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not to screw up any friendships or anything...but...


Posted Wednesday January 31 2007, 11:01 pm

This is basically a disaster waiting to happen...but it could be fun. I'm going on a snowboarding trip in a few days, and theres about 4 guys going and i'm the only girl besides the girl leader. and well, one of the guys likes me. soooo awkward. i definitely don't like him, but i've started liking his best friend, who is also going. i haven't told anyone about it b/c i want to avoid drama. but everyone says the second guy likes me too, so my question is: if he does like me and tries to make a move, what should i do? or should i maybe act on it? i'm definitely not going to tell him i like him, but should i flirt more? he and i already flirt like mad crazy...

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Confused


Posted Wednesday January 31 2007, 10:54 pm

I'm 21 and i'm engaged, my fiance is 24. I kmow you thinking that i'm to young but we have been together for almost two years. Recently we got in a fight about when we were going to get married. We originally wanted the date to be somewhere around April, but when I told him that I was thinking about waiting until I finished college he got so upset. He kept saying that us getting married wouldn't interfer with my work but I really want to wait. Planning a wedding takes up so much time. So anyways he just left afterwards and said that he would be back later. I stayed up and by 2:00 he still wasn't back and I started freaking out. I called some of his friends, but he wasn't with them. So by then I was really freaking out, then he came home aro...

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romance a mess


Posted Wednesday January 31 2007, 10:47 pm

Ok this girl I know I've started to talk to her a lot, and i can tell she likes me and i like her too, even my friends think she likes me. But like I asked her to a dance like 3 months ago and she said no, but it was totally random kind of because I hadn't even talked to her in like a year or two. But now i talked to her for like 2 hours a day on aim/phone, i would at scool, but she doesnt go to my scool nemore. So like i donno wat i should do, like ask her out again, or i was thinking to jus go 2 a movie and do stuff wit her and hang then ask... if u hav ne ideas tell me, or jus othr advice on how to help me ask her out and get her to like me more.

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he is mean


Posted Wednesday January 31 2007, 10:45 pm

my ex is really mean hes mad at me and not his friend dylan me and his friend dylan are going out and hes not mad at him and hes been telling stuff mean about me and his dad has been calling and telling me im ganan go to court if i talk to him

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what to get my bf for valentines day


Posted Wednesday January 31 2007, 10:25 pm

I really need help! I am 13 and next monday me and my boyfriend will be going out for one month. which is a big deal for me. But I have no idea what to get him for valentines day I want to get him something sweet but I have no idea what! Please help me. Also I want to kiss him on valentines day. But I am nervous. We haven't kissed yet! What do I do? what do I get him?

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Not your average ''i love two guys'' story


Posted Wednesday January 31 2007, 10:09 pm

There is this boy (S) that i have known (he has been a family friend) since i was like 6 and i have always liked him though he never gave me the time of day. Well i never lost my felings for him and over the sumer he fianaly started to like me alot i thought. Well then my cousin came down to visit and basicaly took him away. Once she left at the end of the summer me and him started talking and i thought he still was atrackted (we were basicaly understood dating)Well then my cousin came back down and told me he had ben writing her love things and she had proof. Well i confrunted him and me and her basicaly left felings for him. I stil liked him so i continued to talk to him and gee i fell for him again. but i didn't tell him because of what ...

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hmm


Posted Wednesday January 31 2007, 9:57 pm

I love this one boy.
He acts mean and like he hates me, but all the guys do that to me.
His best friend told me , he likes me and just says that because everyone else does and hes scared of what people would say about him.
We used to be really good friends and stuff, and we've sex type things so i dont know.
Should I beleive his friend or what?
And his friend honestly isnt the type to lie and stuff but Im not sure.
Its confusing...

15/f/Ca

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is dating relatives right or wrong, if you didnt know they w


Posted Wednesday January 31 2007, 9:25 pm

Around 2005 I met this guy, that is my boyfriend whom Iam with now. The problem is, i met his nephew first. Me and his nephew got to know each other and we hit it off pretty good. I met his nephew in may of 2005. We were friends and alot more. I happen to sleep with him, actually we were kind of in a relationship.when i first went over his house he introduced me to his uncle. His uncle is 22, and the nephew is 20. His uncle likes me, hes cool as ever. actually me and the uncle has alot in common, acutally more than me and the nephew as first. both were cool but i liked the uncle more actually i liked both.so i wind up messing with both of them. they both like me. However i didnt know they were related at first but later found out.Do you thi...

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Break Up


Posted Wednesday January 31 2007, 9:24 pm

13/F
me and my bf are breaking up 2morow. i can tell from how he acts, hints hes giving me, and from mine and his friends. its mutual. we've both had a change in feelings (me mostly) but i still care about him enough not to want to hurt him, i just dont want to be together. how can i react so he understands im not hurt and im okay with the situation but not happy about it, like i cant wait to get rid of him?
thanx!

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He's To old


Posted Wednesday January 31 2007, 9:12 pm

ok here it goes me and this kid Mike were dating for a while he was 16 turning 17 and i was 13 turning 14 and his aunt that he was livin with said that he was to old for me just cuz i was layin on top of him makein out with him and she kicked me out but he moved back to northport with his rents and then oneday he called me up im lik OMFG and we humg out that next weekend and now he's stayin at my house cuz his rents r fighting again.!and last night i said i Fuckin hate you right now and i called him a bastered and he said he would talk to me but he ain't sayin a word. i try sayin sorry but that don't work what should i do?

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