not to screw up any friendships or anything...but...
Question Posted Wednesday January 31 2007, 11:01 pm
This is basically a disaster waiting to happen...but it could be fun. I'm going on a snowboarding trip in a few days, and theres about 4 guys going and i'm the only girl besides the girl leader. and well, one of the guys likes me. soooo awkward. i definitely don't like him, but i've started liking his best friend, who is also going. i haven't told anyone about it b/c i want to avoid drama. but everyone says the second guy likes me too, so my question is: if he does like me and tries to make a move, what should i do? or should i maybe act on it? i'm definitely not going to tell him i like him, but should i flirt more? he and i already flirt like mad crazy...
sugarplum07 answered Thursday February 1 2007, 8:38 am: You need to make your feelings for the first guy clear: you are strictly friends and you have no other feelings for him. Of course you should flirt with the other guy! Just have fun and see what happens! Hope it works out! ;) [ sugarplum07's advice column | Ask sugarplum07 A Question ]
Laf16 answered Wednesday January 31 2007, 11:35 pm: well does the 1st guy know that you know that he likes you lol... becasue if he doesnt and you havent ever discussed that with him you could just pull the im sorry i didnt know you felt that way if he ever says anything... and i would say go for the second guy, definatly flirt more, do w/e... but be nice to both of them... dont ignoor the first one, just ignoor the flirting, act like you didnt hear him.... it will be ok but have fun... and if they both like you that would be more challanging for them so they will try harder for you ='s more fun... win win situation [ Laf16's advice column | Ask Laf16 A Question ]
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