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Question Posted Wednesday January 31 2007, 9:25 pm

Around 2005 I met this guy, that is my boyfriend whom Iam with now. The problem is, i met his nephew first. Me and his nephew got to know each other and we hit it off pretty good. I met his nephew in may of 2005. We were friends and alot more. I happen to sleep with him, actually we were kind of in a relationship.when i first went over his house he introduced me to his uncle. His uncle is 22, and the nephew is 20. His uncle likes me, hes cool as ever. actually me and the uncle has alot in common, acutally more than me and the nephew as first. both were cool but i liked the uncle more actually i liked both.so i wind up messing with both of them. they both like me. However i didnt know they were related at first but later found out.Do you think they are talking about me or trying to compete over me. I am not with the uncle for 7 months, it seems the nephew wants to use me for sex. someone a strong women or man please give me advice.

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Brandi_S answered Thursday February 1 2007, 11:06 am:
A guy who wants to use you for sex is never worth your time. Why should he be? He's using you.
I would say that if the uncle is a good guy and you really like him, go for him. And if you go for him, stop messing around with the nephew. If you can't be with the uncle and maintain a 'friends only' relationship with the nephew, then steer away from both. Find another guy.

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sugarplum07 answered Thursday February 1 2007, 6:34 am:
You need to make up your mind. You need to decide which one you like better and stick to him. You're probably comfusing both of them right now. There's no reason you can't be friends with the person you reject. If the nephew is just using you for sex, I would suggest going for the other guy. Plus, you seem to like the uncle a lot more anyway, so why not just date him? Hope everything works out!

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