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wife is lost with out a clue
i am 36 years old and have been married for 12 years now we have 2 girls,11 and 13.anyway,to make a long story short wife for the last couple years has been going out and partying alot at night and on the weekends i always suspected her of doing something but she deneid it my friends even caught her but she still deneid it.finally this past nov. she admitted to cheating in me cause she wasnt happy. so we tried to sort it out and said she would stop. like a dumb ass i agreed she stays home and does stuff with me more but she still went out on the weekends and stayed out till the morning so this past weekend she went out and didnt come home till 1 in the afternoon now she tells me shes been doin coke after bar hours and this time she was so jacked up she was afraid to come home.she says she is goin turn her life around cause she dont want that lifestyle but i dont know if can beleive her.i love her but like i told what is gonna be next.i honestly dont think she can shake this habit if she still goes out even if its every other weekend when she is off.so where do i go from here
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You have to decide if she is worth another chance. That would mean her going to detox and staying at home and being a wife and mother *gasp* even on the weekends.
You have 2 kids at very impressionable ages. Think of them first and foremost. In a year or two, if not before, you will be having to explain why that behavior is not right, even though mom is doing it.
You are in the best position to decide if you think she is serious or not about changing her lifestyle. If you honestly don't believe she will change, take her house keys and tell her not to come back next time. Be serious about it though. If you don't think you can get past it all, pack her bags and show her the door. Let those kids no right now that bad behavior, doing drugs and staying out all night are not acceptable.
Good luck. :)
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