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Why do they want to talk to me now?
22/f
Guys this is mostly aimed at you but I need EVERYONE’S help on this.
When I was younger like in high school I was the outcast losery dork. No guys would ever give me the time of day. Even when I would try to talk to them. All of a sudden now guys that I did go to school with are coming up to me and wanting to talk with me. Even ones that were bullies to me, are being all nice and flirty. I don’t get it. Can anyone help me with this. Why are guys so confusing like that? is it me? it doesn’t seem like I am different yet they have changed.
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I have an older brother & I asked him about this, so this is coming from the mouth of one of your peers-
most guys grow up, simply, in the time between high school and college. They realize that girls are more than just something to hit on, and that they are wonderful companions and enjoyable to spend time with. There's a chance you have become more attractive to them literally, but definatly figuratively, because they've realized what a wonderful person you are.
Also, in high school guys usually travel in packs, like dogs. They like the girls their friends tell them to like and are immature. Once they mature and become more independant, the realize that they don't need people telling them what to do or how to behave anymore.
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ok well what i am thinking here is 1) you werent all that good looking in high school or maybe a little dorky (no offence ment) and now you just changed a little bit with out knowing it since it happend over time. or 2) maybe they changed. like got more mature and saw you for the person you are on the inside, maybe got into some things you were more into. or 3) maybe they liked back then but since no one else talked to you they felt if they flirted with you it would make them seem like a dork. i know im not the best at this but i enjoy helping and i hope i helped. :)
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