Question Posted Wednesday January 31 2007, 10:45 pm
my ex is really mean hes mad at me and not his friend dylan me and his friend dylan are going out and hes not mad at him and hes been telling stuff mean about me and his dad has been calling and telling me im ganan go to court if i talk to him
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MikeCFT answered Thursday February 1 2007, 9:21 pm: There's a lot more to this story than meets the eye. Orders of protection are issued by either family court or criminal court and they're issued at a judge's discretion when there is credible evidence that the person in question is a threat- I am not a lawyer or a police officer but you do not want an order of protection put against you- doesn't look good in the future when you want a nice job. Get your parents to quell the situation with his parents, break up with the friend and move on and don't talk to either anymore.
For your information- when it comes to issues of harassment and an order of protection and court is involved; you are not protected by the 1st amendment. [ MikeCFT's advice column | Ask MikeCFT A Question ]
xxguccibebe answered Thursday February 1 2007, 3:43 pm: to be honest with you court is not even going to listen to that..unless they have a restraining order on you then your free to talk to him (freedom of the speech) just ignore him thats the best thing to do.♥amy [ xxguccibebe's advice column | Ask xxguccibebe A Question ]
twistedlover69 answered Thursday February 1 2007, 2:28 pm: forget him hes being immature he needs to stop because you moved on so i would tell him to just let it go what you do and who you date is none of his bussness any more tell him to knock it off and back off lol hes mean so you be an asshole right back [ twistedlover69's advice column | Ask twistedlover69 A Question ]
queenhearts answered Thursday February 1 2007, 2:42 am: His dad can't take you to court. You did nothing. Your ex is just pissed off that you chose his friend. Of course he's not going to be angry at him.. it's his friend.
But you are a girl, his ex. So he can.
Talk to your parents about his dad calling and telling you that.
They should have that issue stopped.
Did you even talk to your ex? If you didn't threaten him.. I see no problem. His dad is probably trying to scare you or something.
WHATS_THE_QUESTION answered Thursday February 1 2007, 12:23 am: I would try to stay away from him best i could, because actully trying to deal with this could just ruin your life or your relationship, just ignore your X and if he is doing this he is not even worth saying hi to. From what you said your X is pretty much a loser and he is just really upset because you were to go for him and he wants to get you back. He does not feel his friend it any wrong and you were the one to blame. __or he could just be phyco__ you never know, he may have a mental problem that he never told you about, lol. I would not worry about him just go on with your life, he 2 are over and he should be able to deal with that. If anything you can try having your bf talk to him and make him stop.
&& if his dad is just RANDOMLY calling you saying he is going to take you to court for not dating his son that is just gay, and he is basically an idiot. If anything you can always talk to your parents about that phone calls because the police may say it is a threat and you maybe to take them to court. That is if your not the one calling the house first. Hope this helped. [ WHATS_THE_QUESTION's advice column | Ask WHATS_THE_QUESTION A Question ]
ductape_n_roses answered Thursday February 1 2007, 12:11 am: Talk to whom? His dad has no right to verbally attack you over the phone like that and you my dear cannot go to court if you talk to whoever you were referring to because you're not harming them in any way shape or form.
Your ex is probably really jealous and mad at you for going out with his friend and he's trying to make you sound bad to Dylan and put a strain on you two's relationship so that it would end soon.
Tell his dad the next time he calls and threatens you saying that you're going to go to court, tell him that he has no right to have you go to court and if he calls one more time, you're going to report him to the poice for harrassing you.
Tell your ex that he really needs to get over it and that you guys are over and if he wants to whine about something that has passed, let him do so without trying to break you and Dylan up
Also talk to your counslor about it because I'm sure they'll help and if you're planning to do so and bring the "dad calling" part, talk to your mom about it first. Tell her that your ex's dad has been calling and saying all those crap to you [ ductape_n_roses's advice column | Ask ductape_n_roses A Question ]
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