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Crushing but not sure how to handle it.....
Okay, first off I will give you some details about me. I am a Senior and 18. Now usually I like guys my age or older but since last year when I was a Junior I kept notcing this cute guy checking me out. His locker was in the 8th grade hallway but I didn't think anything of it. He looked older than an 8th grader and had the most amazing blue eyes and smile I had ever seen. Everyday when I walked to class, we would catch eachother looking at one another. It was funny. He would look at me, and then I'd look at him. He would look down and so would I, and then we both would look up at the same time again and smile and then he shyly would turn away. Well this year I noticed his locker was in the freshman hallway, so I asked around about his name and what grade he was in. Turns out he is a freshman and he is only 15, but turning 16 soon. I just turned 18 and it is so weird to me that I can't let this guy go. He is just so adorably cute and I can't get over it. He seems really outgoing and I am very outgoing, but when we are near eachother, we get incredibly shy. Both of us. This isn't like me at all. Well at our school we can get guys/girls stuff for Valentine's Day. I bought a pink note (meaning secret admirer) and wrote a little poem on it. It said, "I've seen you around, You're very cute, but I can't seem to let you know what I want to do. So if you can figure out who wrote this to you, then write me a note and tell me if you feel the same way I do. Happy Valentine's Day." The notes get sent out on Valentines Day. Now there is no way that he can find out I wrote this, but I am nervous that if he finds out its me he might not say anything. I just want to talk to him and break the ice. Because we both abviously like eachother because we both make eye contact and stop talking to who we are talking to when we see eachother in the halls. Any other ideas about what I should do to break the ice. He recently added me on Myspace, which I had no idea how he found me, so I guess he had been searching me :) but he never wrote me anything, and I am too scared to send him a message or comment on his page. Any ideas?
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I know you said you're shy when you're around him, but try saying Hi, I'm -insert name-. And just try a casual conversation. Like, I saw you added me on myspace. :) Or something. And if something does happen, he's definitely not too young for you. My best friend's sister was a senior who dated a freshman for a while. Good luck! Hope this helps.
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heyy your in luck because that's the way me and my boyfriend were before we got together. Well you see I'm older then him and he went out with one of my friends she's in his grade. That's how i met him. My first step was to BECOME GOOD FREINDS WITH HIM !! Then he asked me out and i was like shocked and so happy but then he broke up with me. This was awhile before we got back together. Then when i would see him in the halls at school he would stare and me and i would stare at him as we walked past each other. I purposly tried to walk past him or a class he was in to make him look at me. (i asked around to find out what classes he was in this is a good idea to find out his schedule.)Then i broke the ice one day imed him. I had not imed him in so long and i was scared. But then we started a convo and he asked me out again !! So you have to break the ice because it seems to me that this guy is to shy to break the ice.
i think that you should send him a comment on mayspace. Like hey whats up or somthing. Or even when you see him at school try saying hey or somthing. Then there's a pretty good chance he will start talking to you. And if you comment him on myspace im sure he will comment you back !! And im pretty sure if he likes you this will give him the courage to ask you out.
hope this helps !!
x3 kaylee
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hey, well age shouldnt make a difference. if you guys like each other and are compatable(sp?) then who cares? dont let others bring you down about liking a younger guy if they find out. there just jealous [=. if you want flirting tips or anything else go to [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) but i say that you should message him on myspace. that way no one will see it, like you can see a comment. just say something like hey, your pretty cute [=. something flirty. its much easier saying stuff like that on a computer rather then in person and its not as hard as it seems.
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