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he wont let me get off the phone!


Posted Thursday February 15 2007, 2:16 am

ok so im going out with this guy and if we are not hanging out he always wants to be on the phone i mean i love hanging out with him 24/7 and i LOVE talking to him on the phone but i am a human and people like there space so sometimes when i need time to my self i ask him if i can get off the phone and hes like .." why ,are you just trying to get rid of me " or he says stupid crap like.." ok whatever bye"
and it makes me so angry because i really like talking to him but it makes me mad that he wont even let me take a shower because he thinks that i am not really trying to take a shower, im trying to get off the phone with him ... how do get off the phone and not start a fight?

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I dont know what to do


Posted Thursday February 15 2007, 1:54 am

theres this girl i like and i think she likes me too but she said she cant have a boyfreind till shes 16, i want to ask her out but shes a realy nice girl and i am kinda shy what do i do?

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I should have told him earlier


Posted Thursday February 15 2007, 12:36 am

Well today he gave this friend of mine well we aren't that close but we are friends and he gave her a valentine, like a big red teddy bear. And yeah now I'm real sad and I should have told him earlier. But I guess I'll still have a friend tell him. But I'm scared since the girl that he gave it to, she would say that she wouldn't like him because I do and she knows I do. But I think she might start liking him because of the way she is....so I really want to tell him. Okay my friend thinks that I wouldn't want to tell him since along time ago when I liked him well I need to like bring up the subject on that to have her tell him. What do you think I should say?

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want to meet a guy


Posted Wednesday February 14 2007, 11:38 pm

ok so my problem is that i dont know where to find a boyfriend. its not that i want one that bad its just that i hate all the guys at my school. the facts are im 15, ive had 2 boyfriends so far, and id like hooked up with a guy once when i was in europe. Now that i started highschool, i guess i had expected the guys to be cuter, and a bit more mature. well my question is where could i find cute guys to go out with, other than at school or the boring movies or the internet!? guys that arent sleezy and are boyfirend material.

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Best friend turned boyfriend


Posted Wednesday February 14 2007, 11:14 pm

(Sorry if this is too long, but I'm just a 17-year-old girl who has no idea what she's doing in this area of her life :3 Never had a boyfriend [or girlfriend for that matter] before, mainly because... I just didn't want one enough to go out and seek one.)

So I've been best friends with this guy for at least five years. However, ever since we've met, he's had a huge crush on me--I'm not sure if it's been on/off or continuous, though he has had a couple of short-term relationships while I've known him. I kind of had a crush on him once or twice, but I never asked him out because, at the time I did like him, I was unsure of whether he liked me or not.

Anyway, now we're both 17, and he likes me, though I've kind...

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what to do


Posted Wednesday February 14 2007, 11:05 pm

15/f. So sometimes my bf will put my hand like down by his penis and will move it around there a little bit..and ive always disliked penises cause theyre pretty much gross to me..but i dont know what to do or how to feel it cause i never have and i never thought i would really (by the way, its with his pants or sweatpants on..not his bare penis)...and i dont want to hurt him (haha that sounds weird)..so help me out? idk what im doinggg

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Losing It


Posted Wednesday February 14 2007, 11:03 pm

Okay so when me and my bf makeout we sometimes like lay on top of eachother and he will put his penis like were having sex(that type of position laying down) and it will touch me down there and itll like feel good or whatever..and i get this feeling....(the really good feeling is for like 5 seconds)but then like right after its like i lose it and i just want to stop for some reason cause i already hit that point. i dont get it cause i still want to makeout and touch and stuff but part of me doesnt agreee? can someone help me whats going onnnn

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Shallow?


Posted Wednesday February 14 2007, 10:31 pm

14/f
So there's this guy "tyler" who likes me. I mean REALLY likes me. Now tyler is not the best-looking guy in the world, but he's amazigly nice. He has asked me out a few times, but I've always said no. There are just some things I cannot stand about him, like that he is really into drugs, he's practiclly an alcoholic, and again he's not the best-looking guy in the world. Since we live really far away, we usually talk online, and we've become really good friends this way. When I see him in person, though, I keep thinking about his faults and I can never see myself with him, though I can when we talk online. Because of this, I've come to think that I'm being very shallow about this whole situation...but then I think...

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aliitle confused...what does this mean?


Posted Wednesday February 14 2007, 10:26 pm

ah im so confused!!! me and this guy have know each other for ahile now and resently we have become a "thing"... we have hung out and we both have said we liked each other and i always have fun hanging out with him but idk lately he never seems like he wants to talk to me or always say he wants to hangout but then will never end up calling me or anything. what does this mean??? is he hinting to me or what? idk what to do i like him so much!!!

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sucks.


Posted Wednesday February 14 2007, 10:22 pm

Ive known this kid for about 2 years and Ive always had a little crush on him.
We got to be better friends and i started liking him alot and we had sex and all that stuff.
Then, rumors spread and he hated me.
After a while he started talking to me a little then not talk to me for weeks then talk to me again and repeat.
Sometimes it would be a good conversation,sometimes It just wouldnt.
He acts like he hates me ,hes always being mean to me and stuff.
His best friend said he likes me , and he does that because alot of other guys hate me [which is true]
His friend is a truthful person, so I believe him and his friend said he wanted to do me ,etc.
But he continues to act like he hates me ...

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no flower or anything


Posted Wednesday February 14 2007, 9:51 pm

when you date a guy, but he doesn't send anything to you or call you or email you or anything on Valentine's day.

Do you just break up with him? Or you call and ask him what's going on?

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who could it be?!?


Posted Wednesday February 14 2007, 9:23 pm

at my school we had this kind of fundraisor the highschoolers did. what they did was sell cut out hearts that kids can buy and give to people with a sucker. unfortunately the people selling them gave them to the kids that got one from someone who bought them one. i got one who didnt put there name on the heart on purpose( secret admire). it looked like the guy got a girl to write my name and the comment which was( my heart aches for you) i found out later by talking to one of the women that work at my school that a boy got her to write it to me but she wouldnt tell me who! all i know is hes not in my class.i dont even know if hes in my grade but its a good chance he is. how do i find out who it is?

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Comfortable.


Posted Wednesday February 14 2007, 8:01 pm

16/f

I've talked to this guy on myspace [I knew him from middle school] so he's not a stranger to me. We talked for many weeks. We met up about 3-4 times and we are going out now.

But I feel so stupid because I'm so shy and I can't look at him

We are surrounded around our friends and we haven't been alone.. I can only glance at his face. If i really stare at him, i get so shy.. my eyes water [for some reason? sensitive eyes?] and i blush like mad. I'm awful at eye contact. i keep telling myself to look into his eyes but i end up looking away.

I'm also tensed and nervous. I don't know how to feel comfortable around him. We haven't been dating long. Maybe a week? How can I be more o...

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Young Sex


Posted Wednesday February 14 2007, 7:00 pm

K ill make this short. My male friend (13) says he is going to have sex with his girlfriend on Friday night. I really really tried telling him all the consequences about AIDS and Pregnancy and how young he is etc. He wont listen to me! I really care for him, and im not shure how to tell him not to have sex so he would listen to me. If anyone can help, that would be great.

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boy trouble


Posted Wednesday February 14 2007, 6:47 pm

i really started crushing on this kid about a month and a half ago. i hung out with him once and ever since then we never talked. but then in the past week i talked to him again. i really want to hook up with him, but i never will be able to. as soon as i was starting to get him out of my head, he randomly comes into my life again but leaves just as quick. HOW CAN I FORGET ABOUT HIM? i never felt this way before :(

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what's wrong with me??


Posted Wednesday February 14 2007, 6:28 pm

f/16. I've never been in a real relationship before, and I've only been on maybe 3 or 4 dates. But that's not the problem. I don't want this to come out sounding conceited, but I do think I'm a fun person, pretty, and smart. I don't have problems with guys liking me. I've been asked out five times this year. But the problem is, I always say no! Even when they're cute guys. I don't know why. I'm outgoing and a "people - person", and I want to have a boyfriend, but for whatever reason I have a problem starting relationships. Am I too picky? I keep telling myself that I'm holding out for the "right guy", but am I being too idealistic? Anyhow, anyone who has had this same problem ... your advice is appreciated! :)

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no words


Posted Wednesday February 14 2007, 6:04 pm

i just got a new boy friend(he asked me out today...) and before he asked me out we were really good friends and we would say hi and stuff.....
but anyway, so he asked me out today and i said yes but now it's like really awkward to talk. it's like we don't really no what to talk about.

So, do you have any conversation starters or things we could talk about?
it it helps im 13/f

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is it bad


Posted Wednesday February 14 2007, 5:30 pm

There's this guy Dean who I just started to talk to on myspace. He's two years older and really hot... blonde surf hair and gorgeousss blue eyes. I havent talked to him in person before, but he commented me last night, and we've been talking a lot on myspace. He seems really sweet. We don't ever see eachother in person, and he has different friends. I think I'm starting to like him... is that bad?

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what happened?


Posted Wednesday February 14 2007, 5:25 pm

Theres this guy, Jake. I've known him for two years, but until this year we didn't really talk. Last year, he would say hi to me and all, which was nice because I was new, and we weren't really friends. This year, we started talking more because we had classes. We're kind of friends, I guess. But I developed a huge crush on him. And now he seems a little more distant. Like, he'll talk to me, and say something really sweet, and he seems like he's genuinely interested. But then I respond and he seems like he suddenly loses interest. Why!?

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florida


Posted Wednesday February 14 2007, 4:53 pm

ok so i jsut got back from florida. i have asked many times on here for advice for going to florida with my crush. well now im back and it was sooo much fun. and well as i said my crush was there. he told me friend he wanted to talk and hang in florida before we went. so im like ok i will talk to him. but in florida i dont like the people he was with. well i mean i wasnt friends with them and i didnt know them. so i just stared. which i know was a big mistake. but i have talked to him at school before at lunch because he eats with my other friends. well so yesterday we came back and like he was sitting behind me nxt to my friend. and he asked her if i still liked him. and she said yes. then hes like ooh yeah i would have come over to talk t...

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