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what's wrong with me??
f/16. I've never been in a real relationship before, and I've only been on maybe 3 or 4 dates. But that's not the problem. I don't want this to come out sounding conceited, but I do think I'm a fun person, pretty, and smart. I don't have problems with guys liking me. I've been asked out five times this year. But the problem is, I always say no! Even when they're cute guys. I don't know why. I'm outgoing and a "people - person", and I want to have a boyfriend, but for whatever reason I have a problem starting relationships. Am I too picky? I keep telling myself that I'm holding out for the "right guy", but am I being too idealistic? Anyhow, anyone who has had this same problem ... your advice is appreciated! :)
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I would love to meet you because i feel like your my twin. i am the SAME exact way. i just recently starting being like this though because of what i went through in my past relationship. now i think that no good is worth my time because im scared to get hurt again. and i raised my expectations so high. its normal to me, its just that we know what we want and we wont settle for less. also i think its the same thing with guys, " they want what they cant have. " im sure sooner or later you will find one that makes you fall head over heals and believe me im sure he will have the same feelings because you sound like a great girl. the longer you wait, the better they come. just always remember that.
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Hun, that is not conceited at all. In fact I suggest telling everyone that you are fun and amazing. It makes them realize that you love you, and makes them love you too. But back to the question. Next time someone asks you out say yes. Even if they arent attractive in your eyes. That way you can see if you and that person have anything in common. If all else fails you might just make a new friend. Or try going to the other guys and asking them out, telling them you made a mistake. You might realize that that guy is the RIGHT guy. I hope I helped.
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oh wow, trust me, im in the exact position. when i reject a guy yeah, i feel conceited, but i cant help it if i just dont like the guy! everyone deserves to go out with someone they really like. my oppinion, you shouldnt settle for just any guy unless you really really want a bf. i mean you derserve a guy whos going to make you happy, and since youre outgoing, youll find him soon enough. oh and yeah theres other ppl like that, im one of them, i dont just settle for what i can get.
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Well I can't say for sure, but not going out with people isn't necessarily a bad thing when you don't like the guy (if you liked the guy and turned hm down there's probably nother story... hmm). My mom never actually was in a relationship until university!
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