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i think my BESt fwen is a sex addict..
this school year, i got to know this gurl and we bacame best fwens. we are both in the 9th grade and same age and well FEMALES. since she has been introduced to sex and BOYZ!! everythin has changed. she had sex with lyk 5 or 6 six oredy in lyk 2 months..and most of them are taken,they are all seniors, and they are all fwens with each other. now all she wnats to do is hook up with a boi and i gues have a one nyt stand. my fwens and i tried talking to her i even told her to stop cuz peole r gona get the impresion that she is a slut or something, she said that she would stop but she didn't!..now she is with guys that she tells me she doesn't want to be with. then i tell her not be with them..isn't that lyk using ur common-sense? to stop seeing them if you don't want to??..anyway she still hangs out with us once in a while n she is stil a nice person but behind our backs she isn't..my fwens and are r stil debating whether to tell her to stop hanging out with us or not..i reali luv her like one of my sisters but everytime when she is with us we try and asnwer her problmes but she doesn't listen..we don't want this kind of influence you know...what should we do..continue to hangout w/ her..or what??
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I'm sorry but you're grammar is horrible and it took me a while to actually understand this. Anyways, you're being a good friend and you're concearned. She should appriciate the fact that you want to help her but she's so air headed that she won't listen. If people start to think she's a slut, that's her fault and she did that to herself. I think the reason she's doing this is because she likes the attention she's getting from those guy. You need to talk to her again and tell her about all the consequnces about it. She could end up getting pregnant and get a disease. She might actually realize that you're right when it's too late and I don't think eather of you want that to happen. If you and your friends don't want to hang out with her anymore because of what she's doing, then don't but you have to understand that you can't just leave your friends for the mistakes they're making. If she choses to have sex with all the guys she wants, it's what she wants to do and you can't stop her as much as you wish to. You're best friends, sisters and I know that you're smart enough make her realize what she's doing. I just don't want you to follow in her foot steps.
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