Question Posted Wednesday February 14 2007, 6:32 pm
theres this girl whos a complete bitch named sophia
i was talking to a guy on facebook and she commented that he should stop talking to me &shed explain later.
i dont want to stop talking to him.
would it be a completely bad idea to message him saying "what did sophia say about me?"
loca1xcel3b answered Wednesday February 14 2007, 11:29 pm: Asking what she said will make you seem insecure. Instead try telling him that whatever Sophia said shouldn't alter what he thinks of you. Let him know that she doesnt know you well enough to give someone else any ideas about you, and youd like to show him the real you without worrying that someone else is trying to make you seem different. That way you'll seem mature and confident in yourself, and probably make her seem like a total loser. [ loca1xcel3b's advice column | Ask loca1xcel3b A Question ]
AskAndy answered Wednesday February 14 2007, 10:59 pm: Thats exactly what I would do, just make sure shes talking about you, and make sure the guy your talking to is better friends with you, than he is with sophia. My words would be sumthing like "wuz sophia talking about ME?? wut did she say 2 u?" [ AskAndy's advice column | Ask AskAndy A Question ]
Bey answered Wednesday February 14 2007, 10:28 pm: No it would not be a complete bad idea just as a woman i would not do it because you should not care. Even if you do you should pretend you don't especially if she is just being a bitch and dong some childish sh** for no reason. If you treated him the way a friend should treat a friend he should treat the you the same way in return and not care what some heifer tells him about you. Show maturity and confidence by being the biggger person and not caring because like I said before you shouldn't care; that is a waste of time especially on her part. Realize she had too much time on her hands to put that much energy into ruining a relationship you have established with someone else. If you tell anyone anything tell him that if it comes up he'll respect and admire you more. [ Bey's advice column | Ask Bey A Question ]
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