Question Posted Wednesday February 14 2007, 10:22 pm
Ive known this kid for about 2 years and Ive always had a little crush on him.
We got to be better friends and i started liking him alot and we had sex and all that stuff.
Then, rumors spread and he hated me.
After a while he started talking to me a little then not talk to me for weeks then talk to me again and repeat.
Sometimes it would be a good conversation,sometimes It just wouldnt.
He acts like he hates me ,hes always being mean to me and stuff.
His best friend said he likes me , and he does that because alot of other guys hate me [which is true]
His friend is a truthful person, so I believe him and his friend said he wanted to do me ,etc.
But he continues to act like he hates me and is so mean to me!
I dont know what to do , i love him so much But i cant tell him becuase he has a girlfriend.
I need help!
BriannaBaybee05 answered Thursday February 15 2007, 12:29 pm: You need to get as much distance away from him as you can. im sorry to tell you but he is no good, he is alittle boy who cares what other people think and obviously he plays games if hes telling his friend about you but then has a girl. its hard dealing with a crush cause believe me it fits the name " crush " well. there are so many other boys out there and you have your WHOLE high school / college life ahead of you. too much stress cant be a good thing. your young and you better have fun while you can. screw this little boy that doesnt know what he wants and if he wants to believe rumors about you that goes to show how much " love " he really has for you. dont be stupid, realize whats going on and realize you can do better! girls dont deserve to be treated like this and you be the stronger person and move on like you know you should. good luck hun.
snickerzz11 answered Thursday February 15 2007, 12:12 am: This is kind of sad. Why would you want to go having sex and being in a relationship with someone who is usually mean to you? It seems like a dead end relationship to me. I think you should try and get over him, because someone who only treats you right part of the time isn't worth any of your time. [ snickerzz11's advice column | Ask snickerzz11 A Question ]
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