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Losing It
Okay so when me and my bf makeout we sometimes like lay on top of eachother and he will put his penis like were having sex(that type of position laying down) and it will touch me down there and itll like feel good or whatever..and i get this feeling....(the really good feeling is for like 5 seconds)but then like right after its like i lose it and i just want to stop for some reason cause i already hit that point. i dont get it cause i still want to makeout and touch and stuff but part of me doesnt agreee? can someone help me whats going onnnn
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okay so it feels really good for like 5 seconds and then feels like kinda weird . idk if im rite but it sounds like an orgasm to me . alota the time after i have one it feel real weird if he touches on me for a lil while , but i still want to do stuff . so if thats what it is then its compleatley normal . lol hope i helpped !
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okay homie listen up, first you need to tell ya boy whatz going down if he really likes/ loves you he will understand. But whatz going on wit chu is you get caught up in tha moment but then you come back to reality and you mind and body realized this is what you want at tha time, maybe your just going to quick that's all. You might be physically ready for sex but your mind isn't quite caught up with tha S.E.X. part of your body, and that's okay. You just need to let your boyfriend know whatz up...
hope i helped holla
.Da One'n Only.
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I think that it's because your not ready to go that far with him. To go there you need someone that will do that for the same reason not because you feel you have to.
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thats exactly how i am. although i dont wanna do the " big bang " haha i still like to be touchy feely and stuff like that. it just means that you can see something going too far at that point and your just not ready to go all the way yet. thats why your stopping yourself before it goes farther. maybe just put yourself in a different position, like sitting up. i hope that helped.
<3brianna
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Obviously you just aren't ready to go that far with him. What you're experiencing is your subconscious telling you that. If you aren't ready, don't do it. If he is a good guy, he will understand and wait for you to be ready to have sex.
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