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Summer love
Posted Friday April 6 2007, 10:01 pm
I'm 14/f and i go to sleepaway camp all summer. Last summer I became really attached to my best friend at camp whose a guy. We just fit like puzzle pieces ya know? When we left camp of course it was very traumatic and we both agreed that we had really deep feelings for eachother and agreed to try to see eachother over the year and keep in touch. He lives 15-20 minutes away!
Of course nothing ever goes as planned. I talk to him frequently on AIM and he sometimes says he wants to take me out somewhere, but the plans always fall through. He always reminds me that I'm his girl and that nothing can tear us apart. Whatever. He never has his phone on so i quit calling it.
Should i try harder to see him or just wait be...
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Unfelt Feelings
Posted Friday April 6 2007, 9:38 pm
SO this dude i like says he likes me i say i like him back he asks me do i want to go with him i say yea i ask him do he want to go with me he says i dont know you seem like you are crazy ive been knowin this dude for like 3 months!!!! i really cant understand him ??? i need help
Last friday he literally stalked me to find out if i liked him or not and when ever i try to talk to him about US he says somthing like i dont know you i need to get to know you first i really dont know what else to do i really like him alot!!!!!
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Love (jail) Birds
Posted Friday April 6 2007, 9:35 pm
Ok, so I am visiting my ex in jail tommorrow, someone I still have feelings for. I haven't seen him in over a year and I am very nervous about seeing him. So nervous infact that I've almost talked myself out of going. I'm afraid I'm going to say something dumb. I mean, I've never visited anyone in jail before, so I don't know what to say, ya know? What are some ideas to start the conversation going smoothly? HELP ASAP!!
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Kissing? where?
Posted Friday April 6 2007, 9:27 pm
13/f
Okay, me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 weeks now. We both like each other alotalotalot.
We've hung out with each other every weekend. He met my mom & dad, i met his mom, and our moms met each other.
The previous times that he has hung out at my house, we've just cuddled on the couch watching a movie. We've never made out (once i tried to..), just regular kissed. We both want to makeout with each other, and we've talked about it. Except everytime we plan to, my mom is at the top of the stairs, or we're supervised SOMEHOW. When we try to go outside, my mom is always like "NO KISSING" and she watches us.
I've made out with my last boyfriend several times, without my m...
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What now...?
Posted Friday April 6 2007, 9:08 pm
Ok so, im going out with this guy right? Ive realized that i basically cant stand him anymore!I mean sure, he's sweet,nice,and there for me but i dont know, its getting old. I have another guy in mind who i really like, and i cant get off of my mind! but...this guy is mad at me right now for going out with this guy in the first place...anyway i can convince him to not be mad? and if so, how am i supposed to break up with this guy as well?HELP!!
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Best Friend
Posted Friday April 6 2007, 9:07 pm
ok guys her's the deal. i think i like my best friend as much more than a friend. I just dont knwo what to do because i know there is another guy that she likes and if something did happen between us, id be worried in case something happened our friendship would be ruined. i dont know what to do. please help me
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interracial relationships
Posted Friday April 6 2007, 8:57 pm
i have a problem. ive been friends with this kid 'tom'. we're really, really close, and i just recently found out he likes me because he told one of my friends, who eventually told me. i was shocked, yet happy at the same time. Ever since i found this out, we have been together all the time in school. [in the halls, ect.] we also have a couple classes together and we text all the time in class. =X, ha, anyways, i have concluded that i really like him, alot, which is great for me because ive had trouble likeing someone ever since my last relationship i was in.[it was terrible.] But, theres one problem, hes 100% mexican, and pretty dark. Im irish, and my dad has a huge problem, and won't let me date anyone who's 'not white'. This bothers me b...
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Katrina, the hurricane of my life.
Posted Friday April 6 2007, 7:43 pm
I'm 18 and a male. I have an Aadvicenators account that I've been using for years, but sometimes I just need to reach out to my fellow advicenators for help.
Well, theres this girl that I like named Katrina. We've been friends for a long time, and lately we've been getting really flirtatious, and I've found that she likes me also. The only problem is that we live in two different counties. Even though shes only about a 45 minute drive away we've yet to stay in physical contact with each other over a long period of time. My question is, what should I do? I'd like to leave, 'cause I don't like to wait around for things that aren't going to happen, but her friends all tell me that if I leave she'll be devastated. Not that I wou...
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Popularity and drugs
Posted Friday April 6 2007, 7:01 pm
All of the "cool girls" at my school do drugs. All of the guys like them b/c they are easy. This guy I like only likes easy drug girls and I don't kow what to do to make him like me! Help!
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Internet Relationship.
Posted Friday April 6 2007, 5:57 pm
So I met this guy on an interactive internet game in September.
Well, I've been talking to him ever since, and we talk a lot.
Our friendship just recently blossomed into something beautiful.
I've never really felt this way about anyone before.
I love him and he loves me.
And fyi, I know he's safe. I've spoken to him on the phone, and I have his address.
But my real question is,
Is this worth it?
All this effort.
He lives in North Carolina
And I live in Texas.
He's 17 and I'm 14.
When we were first talking, I told him I was 16, and I just recently told him I was 14, and nothing really changed between us.
My real concern ...
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guy tipss
Posted Friday April 6 2007, 5:31 pm
when a girl likes a guy, & the girl is kinda sure he
likes her, what should the girl do to make the guy
know that she likes him back / thinks he's hot?
nothing like, tell him you like him. a list of do's/
dont's would be per- fecttt. :] thanks SO much in advance!
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Why am I like this? Who is the real person?
Posted Friday April 6 2007, 5:29 pm
This might be long but please read it. Thanks.
Sometimes I think there is something wrong with me. Im 13/F. For a long period of time I liked this guy named Liam. I couldn't think of anyone else, I talked about him, I loved everything about him. We were really close and he was like a best friend to me. I trusted him with everything and he kept everything. He helped me through alot. We also flirted alot.
Then this month he seemed to avoid me, make fun of me and just be a different person. I was somewhat the same after a while. We are still friends but were not like always together like we used to. When im at home if I accidently see a picture of me and him I just say "idiot" or something like that while befo...
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OMFG
Posted Friday April 6 2007, 4:42 pm
i go to an all girl school and im not a lesbian. ive been fine with no boys for a while, but when i fisted my old school i realized how much i missed boys. I really want a boyfriend, and i know someguys, but they're like my family, and i just want to meet a guy so we can go out becasue im so lonely. Plus i like this guy, but hes younger than me, and my family and his family are good friends, and it would be awkward. I really need help on what to do to get a boyfriend, and how to deal with the guy i like!....
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BOY TROUBLE!!!
Posted Friday April 6 2007, 4:38 pm
Well listen, I had this great bf, but I broke with him because I was being stupid. Now when I'm basically on my knees, he won't take me back. I practically told him I love him, but that doesn't count. He really is hurting me. Should I leave him for good, or just keep hoping for him to take me back?
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Having fun with boyfriend
Posted Friday April 6 2007, 4:28 pm
I'm sorry for the innapropriate question, but after searching Advicenators.com I couldn't find an answer for my question. What are somethings my boyfriend and I can do for fun? He's fingered me, but unless he gets it just right it doesn't get me all excited and hot. I want to know somethings we can do to each other to turn each other on. (Not going all the way though, thanks)
Also, after he fingers me for a long time, it really starts to hurt. Is this okay?
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brain damage
Posted Friday April 6 2007, 3:18 pm
16/f.
i really like this kid. a couple months ago he got into this fight with this kid and the kid used brass knuckles. well he has permanent brain damage from it but he just found out. i have no clue about anything to do with the brain. is it gonna effect him alot to where he cant really do anything or can i still have a relationship with him. like i dont know how bad it is but i know that it didnt start effecting him until like a month and half to 2 months after the fight. and he only forgot one night that happened and thats when he had to go to the hospital cause he thought something TOTALLY different happened that night. so do you think he everything is gonna be different now? i mean it cant be that bad if he still remembers the people that were there that night like me. right?
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does he still love me?
Posted Friday April 6 2007, 2:58 pm
ive been with my boyfriend for a year and we literally talk all day, unless like we leave to go somewhere, to eat, and stuff like that. he'll call me right when he wakes up, but i usually call him about an hour or 2 hours after i wake up. he went to his dads house and spent the night on wednesday and stayed there again last night. he probably goes there for like 2 nights every couple of months. there he has 3 step brothers. like 6, 11, and 17. i cant stand the 17 year old and i dont like the younger ones very much since i just dont like little kids. my boyfriend and i have been on the phone the longest at a time maybe an hour? when we are his brothers are talking to him and i cant stand being on the phone and listening to their conversation...
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hhheyy
Posted Friday April 6 2007, 2:42 pm
okay, well i really like this guy & whenever we talk hes usually flirting lol and yesterday we were together for a little bit andd he was flirting and everything then he im'd me last night and was like what r u doing tonight & i was like shit bc i would have loved to do something with him but i had to pack for vacationnn & yeahh/ i reallyyy really reallllyy likee him. whatt shoujld i doo.
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crushed
Posted Friday April 6 2007, 2:30 pm
ok.
so there is this guy that i met at my aunt's school. his name is Ross Kenseth. YES Matt Kenseth's son. Well any way. I really like him and one of my friends told him that i liked him. obviousley he doesn't like me or even want to get to know me bacuse he deleted me from his friends on myspace and blocked me. I WAS CRUSHED. Another thing. I have this "friend" named Stephanie. She told me that I only liked him because his dad is famous. It is not going throught her head that that is not why I like him.
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idk if this should be under love life
Posted Friday April 6 2007, 1:33 pm
14/f/ca sumtimes im walking in the mall and i see this really cute guy and i like wanna talk to him and my friend says come on hilary lets go say hi and im all like NO!! well my question is how can i be more confident when it comes to talking to a cute boy i dont know
thanx in advance
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