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What now...?
Ok so, im going out with this guy right? Ive realized that i basically cant stand him anymore!I mean sure, he's sweet,nice,and there for me but i dont know, its getting old. I have another guy in mind who i really like, and i cant get off of my mind! but...this guy is mad at me right now for going out with this guy in the first place...anyway i can convince him to not be mad? and if so, how am i supposed to break up with this guy as well?HELP!!
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If you don't like him, break up with him. If you didn't, you'd just be leading him on & you'd end up hurting him so much worse in the end. Just be his friend, & if you don't wanna be that either, then don't.
If you like this other guy, let him know that you & your boyfriend are no longer together, and then go out with him.
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If you don't like him any more, then break it off with him. There's no point in leading him on; you're going to break his heart eventually. While breaking up with him, make sure you include the fact that he is a smart, sweet, and nice. Just tell him the truth. Preferably, you should say "I'm really sorry [name], I can't lead you on any more. I like this other kid. It's really not something that I want you to be upset about, I didn't want to hurt you. I still really want to be friends with you... You were a great boyfriend"-etc., etc. Obviously you don't have to write that word for word, but I'd include the details in it.
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Ok, first, never get into something with another guy before breaking up with your current boyfriend. You NEVER want to be THAT girl. If the relationship has gone stale, you just have to sit him down and explain it to him NICELY. Say one of those lines like "I just don't think it's working out anymore" or "I think we should go our separate ways" or "You're a wonderful person, but I don't think we're right for each other".
After you break up, try to be friends with this other guy first. Don't just right into another relationship. It'll make you seem easy and it's just too quick. (My question is this: why is he mad that you're dating your current boyfriend? That sounds pretty ridiculous.)
After you get to know this guy better, you can decide if you want to move on or continue to date him. Just go slow with it all and go with the flow. Your boyfriend will get over it, trust me. I'm guessing you're fairly young, so it's just one of those things we go through.
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if you no longer like him, then you cant lead him on anymore. i had the same problem. But dont do it right away, you have to give him hints like less to an answer and become more busy with friends. and after you break it off, give it some time before you go out with the new guy or the other one wil think that you broke up with him just for this guy. hope i helped.
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