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Summer love
I'm 14/f and i go to sleepaway camp all summer. Last summer I became really attached to my best friend at camp whose a guy. We just fit like puzzle pieces ya know? When we left camp of course it was very traumatic and we both agreed that we had really deep feelings for eachother and agreed to try to see eachother over the year and keep in touch. He lives 15-20 minutes away!
Of course nothing ever goes as planned. I talk to him frequently on AIM and he sometimes says he wants to take me out somewhere, but the plans always fall through. He always reminds me that I'm his girl and that nothing can tear us apart. Whatever. He never has his phone on so i quit calling it.
Should i try harder to see him or just wait because theres a little less than 3 months til camp? Its just...I really miss him and i may be crazy but i could swear i love him.
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I would try harder. Always keep trying to make plans with him & if they fall through, or he keeps making excuses as to why they don't work, then you know you're not doing anything wrong, and it's him.
If you still insist that you quit calling, then wait until summer & ask him why you guys never hung out throughout the year. Maybe you can work on a plan to keep seeing each other. Besides, what's a relationship if you're not seeing each other anyways?
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Talk to him. Make definite plans. Plan them a month ahead if you gotta! If he keeps trying to back out, maybe he's lost interest or maybe has another girl in mind where he lives. But thats jumping to conclusions. Anyway, tell him you want a boyfriend you can be with, and not just talk to. If he really cares, he'll step up and spend some time with you!
Good luck,
Abby
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