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guys are soooo confusing...help me please!
Posted Saturday April 28 2007, 5:12 am
f/16
well i like this guy , but he moved to california. now after a year he moved back here but he's going 2 a different school.
before he moved i think he liked me back! just trust me on this.ok so i asked his friend for his msn adress cause i couldn't really ask him since he's going to a different school. and i'm pretty good friends with his friend xD
yeah so i just chatted 4 times with him now. the first time he was like: who are you? and it took hom forver 2 figure out , but every1 is saying he's just acting. the second time i went online he said hi 2 me and we had a pretty good chat. i told him i play bass and he was like: "your amazing aren't you? trust me i can tell."
the 3rd time i said...
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i screwed things up
Posted Saturday April 28 2007, 2:36 am
15/f
im still in love with my ex bf. im the one who broke up with him but its only because i was having major issues w/ myself that i wish not to state here. we started hanging out again about 3 months after we broke it off & things were going good until my "problems" came back & i was so confused 7 i said a lot of things i didnt mean. & we stopped talking. then a month later he asks me to his prom & i accept. so then im thinking he wants to get back together so i kind of ask him about it. then he goes into things like i kept jerking him around & hes not really ready for a relationship again yet he kissed me. i told him i cant go to prom cuz that would be too awkward. but i screwed things up with...
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NERVOUSNESS....
Posted Saturday April 28 2007, 1:01 am
Ok well i have never really had a boyfriend well one but he doesnt really count because i moved like less then 3 days after we started going out anoywho i get really nervous around guys like i cant even really talk to them if it has anything to do with how i feel or something like i cant ask them out or tell them i like them and even if i did have a friend tell them and they like me i wouldnt be able to talk much i would be soooooooo nervous i wouldnt no what to say or how to say it or anything and i know that if you ask someone out and they say yes that they wouldnt have said yes unless they wanted to go but i would always get the feeling they like someone else or think all negative and what not how do i stop this and how can i be more comfortable talking to guys i like
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some how iu always get in to screwed up situations
Posted Saturday April 28 2007, 12:43 am
hello my name is rick barton
heres how it all started i have a freind who helped me out with two things the frist one was when i like a girl i mean really like her until she broke my heart she knew i like her, she said she would go out with me i kept on asking and she said no all the time. then one night when alica was over we were talking then meghan text me from my phone and told me that i don't want to ever go out with you and we should just be freinds. well i was devasated. and i relized she was using me. i ask her to go out and she said no but she asked me for something and i said yes. alica was there and told me you don't desirve her, your a nice guy and shes a female dog. just forget abouy her. then she told me if i nee...
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Help
Posted Saturday April 28 2007, 12:35 am
Ok so i'm in middles school and this year is almost over and i'll be in high school next year and of course i've been all about guys for a while now and it's kinda driving me crazy because all i can think about is if i like a guy and if he likes me and all that but well bascially my question is would it be better to figure myself out first and figure out who i really am first then worry about guys?
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how do i get him
Posted Friday April 27 2007, 11:48 pm
there is this guy and he is older than me and i really like him.he is already going out with this other girl and i really want him back.how do i get him back?
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kiss and don't tell
Posted Friday April 27 2007, 11:12 pm
okay so i recently got my first kiss at 15(i know kinda late right butt...) and i liked it and all but i'm not dating this boy and if my parents found out they would freak so how do i let this boy know i like him but to limit on the kisses till the coast is clear with the parents and all?????
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Prom dance advice
Posted Friday April 27 2007, 9:12 pm
Hey there,
Tomorrow's my prom night, and I'm really excited.
Of course I want to be dancing with my date, and I'm confident enough that I don't mind if I look like a loser, and I know I'll get out there and actually dance.
Problem is that I never really got any good. I still dance like a white boy.
Are there any general tips I can be thinking about when I'm out there, just for casual hanging-out dancing?
Thanks.
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what do i do
Posted Friday April 27 2007, 8:48 pm
i have this big problem. there is this girl, her name is alica. she is a freind, and now i wanna be more than freinds but like everything else in my life there is problem. she has a boyfreind, and he lives with me. before i begain to like her like her i was cool with just being freinds. but she was there for me when another girl broke my heart. she was there for me. she gave me advice, and told me there is someone out thier for me. i also have problems with my dad she is there for me for that. we get a long great we have everything in common, she told me she likes hang out with me and i like hanging with her. this week has been hell for me, if it hasn't been for her i would have killed my self. and when im with her all my worrie...
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How Long Do I Have To Wait For Him To Ask Me Out
Posted Friday April 27 2007, 5:38 pm
Ok so there is this guy i like and we've known eachother for 1 month.We talk all the time on the phone and just now are starting to hang out in person.He said he likes me alot and would date me.I've been totally ditched and forgot about by two guys and i told him that i didnt want it to happen again.He told me that he will never forget about me and that yea there will be a few days we dont talk because we got stuff goin on but i will never forget about you.He was like im not like those guys and i go well thats what the last guy said about the first and he says just trust me i love you.and thats the first time he said i love you.but anyway with what i just told you how long do i have to wait for him to ask me out?
-sierra
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does she want me to love her
Posted Friday April 27 2007, 5:02 pm
i dont know if she loves me, but she is still tied a bit to her old relationship, saddend by the rare phone calls of an old friend.
she makes moves towards me, says she loves me sincerly somtimes. given me head, made out with me
yet somtimes i think she is thinking "I dont want him to be in ove with me, because i truly dont love him"
but does she really think that way? is she really in love with me?
i was in love with her, untill i realized that i might need to get over the whole "love" things and lets just be amazing friends
HOW DO I ASK HER, i really cant just say, do you want me to love you? because that is to weakinging on my part. ...
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Im so confused
Posted Friday April 27 2007, 4:42 pm
Okay its long so get ready.....
Okay So Im 16 have had this boyfriend for a year and almost a month now. Well I have a best fiend. Me nad her are really close and we always joke around about doing stuff but it never happened. Well last weekend it did. An d I know were just friends and thats cool and I mgood with that. Now I liked kissing her and I want to continue as does she (I think) but anyways well I didnt tell my bf because he wuldnt really care but I dont want him to know. But all this week idk Ive gotten jealous. Now yes she gay and I guess you cancall me bicurious. Well she has lots of make out buddies and I think shallow of her vbc of it and I finally told her but hey it wont stop her. So I dont know what to ...
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there's this one guy.....
Posted Friday April 27 2007, 3:42 pm
okay, there's this guy i like in school, but i don't know what to do. I catch him looking my way a lot, but that's about it. He's friends with everygirls in my class, except four girls, including me. I don't know what to do. I really like him, and we kinda hit it off last year. But thenn we had summer vacay, and we didn't really talk.actually, there was no talking at all. now everythings weird, and we never talk. even when we were the only ones in a group together for an hour a whole week, or a group of three with the new kid, who dosen't speak english very well, we neer spoke. Help me, pleeeeeeeeeease! how can i start a conversation with this guy? help! guys, i would really like your help on who to go about this! thx, kitzy.
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MY EXBOYFRIEND. BOYS HELP ME!!!
Posted Friday April 27 2007, 3:26 pm
[i'm a 15/f.] me and my ex were hanging out yesterday night and we were flirting and stuff. [nothing graphic::my mom and sister were in the room] but later when he was texting me, he told me he still kind of liked me. but i don't know what to do about him. he said that nothing was going to change between us but i don't know. please help me.
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SHYYYYY around A GUY
Posted Friday April 27 2007, 3:21 pm
ahh! so i have this big problem =(
i get reallly shy around this guy i like.
and its getting worst every day!
ahh. in the beginning it wasnt that bad but now its getting worst and worst. ahh and i hate it. i mean i try to pull myslef together and get a grip and face him but im just too scared to!! why do you think that is?
also i want to be around him but once im there i pretend i dont know him and he wont talk to me either, hes the same as me.
but its weird becasue we used to talk in school a lot and we talk online almost everyday for atleast an hour!
this like almost never happens to me.
well it does everytime its a guy i like before im freinds with him =(( help me to get myself to RELAX and talk to him already!
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i really like him?
Posted Friday April 27 2007, 2:43 pm
i met this guy a while back and we kinda fell for eachother. well, recently, he was calling me like crazy and leaving me sweet voice mail messages and texting me during class. he would come see me between classes and such. however, a couple of days ago, he asked me if i really liked him. and i said "of course i do. i woulndnt have been jacking up my cell bill if i didnt." and i told him that i loved him and he said "i love you too". yesterday, he told me that he doesnt think a relationship is a good idea right now with his grades and such. he hasnt called me since. hes been avoiding me at school (which has been easy for him seeing as i dont go out of my way to see him, he always went out of his way to see me.) and today ...
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is it just me, or is he an asshole?
Posted Friday April 27 2007, 2:28 pm
Okay so theres ths guy that i really like: (im gunna put it in like..bullets so its easier to read):
-and it all started last month around the beginning of March.
-and we've met before but never really talked much because we dont go to the same school but he lives in the same town as me.
-we work at the same place, and thats basically how we started talking.
-so over the weeks in March, we started to text all the time everyday; from the time we'd wake up to the time we'd go to sleep.
- everything was going good and i got the chance to get to know him a bit more and he seemed like a really sweet guy. just had bad luck with past relationships because of the way he was treated.
- only problem: we neve...
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Sex talk.
Posted Friday April 27 2007, 1:27 pm
FYI:20/F
My friend (Jane)that i have a crush on started telling me that her co workes ask her if she was a virgin she reply yes. she told me that her co workers always talk about their sex life and she gets annoyed and grossed of it. but i know she gets cerious as i do too. but i hate thinking about some guy doing lala to her. and i hate when she talks about it. i know i'm a girl but i cant stop how i feel. then when we are in the book store she and i were looking at witch craft books that are near sex books. she goes up to look at them books and tells me what she looking at. i get cerious also but when she talks about it i get nervous. should i do? should i just let it go? or tell her how i feel again? i told her 2 years ago...
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I needed more answers!!!
Posted Friday April 27 2007, 6:14 am
I posted this earlier but i need more responses
22/f
I went dancing with a couple of friends of mine the other night. Now we have to drive an hour to get there and recently we see a friend (Brent) of our that we dance with down there. well I really like him but not real sure how to let him know, or if he even likes me. On the way down My friends were teasing me how I would never have the guts to dance with him (very riska) the way my other friend does. Well that day I figured well since I am playing hooky from work why not? It wasn’t immediate though. I had to build up the courage. Brent kinda helped me though. we were all sitting and this one song came on and I was the only one that went out on the d...
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Long Distance Relationships
Posted Friday April 27 2007, 1:07 am
Okay, so I've been talking to my ex boyfriend's friend(who is a freshman and so am I), and we both have been getting to know each other alot. Plus two days ago, he told me he liked me, and I told him I liked him...Bad part is that he lives like an hour away and I don't know how we would see each other. Even thought he goes to the same school with my ex, and they are friends, but i'm not on good terms with my ex. But we really want to hang out, we just don't know how, and if our parents would even let us.
Then he told me that he just wanted to be friends and he said that a relationship wouldn't work out, so by that I got very sad...I mean wouldn't you be sad if a guy led you on like that, then dropped you?
But...
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