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Long Distance Relationships
Okay, so I've been talking to my ex boyfriend's friend(who is a freshman and so am I), and we both have been getting to know each other alot. Plus two days ago, he told me he liked me, and I told him I liked him...Bad part is that he lives like an hour away and I don't know how we would see each other. Even thought he goes to the same school with my ex, and they are friends, but i'm not on good terms with my ex. But we really want to hang out, we just don't know how, and if our parents would even let us.
Then he told me that he just wanted to be friends and he said that a relationship wouldn't work out, so by that I got very sad...I mean wouldn't you be sad if a guy led you on like that, then dropped you?
But then he told me he didn't mean it like that, yeah right, and then he still wanted to try to have something with me because apparently he likes me "alot".
I don't know though, because after he told me it probably wouldn't work, I agreed with him, and now I don't know how I feel.
Plus there are two other guys that like me too. One of them goes to the same school I do(I don't really like him), and the other guy goes to a different school but he still lives close by, which I kind of have feelings for...Even though i'm a freshman and he's a jr. (in highschool)
So if anyone has any advice on what I should dooo...Please help.
Because I'm stuckkk.
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I don't think he lead you on. He probably does like you but realized what you are right now. There's no way for you guys to see each other, and if there was, you wouldn't see each other often.
If you like the guy who lives close to you, then get to know him more & go out with him. Stay friends with the guy who lives an hour away, and let down the guy at your school easily.
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From experience ive noticed that long distance only works if both people are mature enough to handle. my ex-bf wasn't. so the relationship didn't work. it takes alot of trust. If you and him are ready for that, go for it.
but my advice is to focus on the guy that lives close by. you would see him more, even though he doesn't go to your school. its alot better than an hour away. right? and age shouldnt matter, even if he's a jr. my brothers gf is alsmot 3 years younger than him.
hope i could help (:
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i'd try it out with him. i'm going through the samething. my ex goes to school with my bf..and my bf lives like a hour an half away. but i see him every weekend. but just tell him i want to try to make this work. but if we break up can we still be friends.
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hun I am going through something very similar. I am liking someone alot too, they have the same feeling but we live TWO hours aparts. It is just in the begining stages on what is going though. I know there are a couple guys that live in my town that like me but i only have little feelings for one of them. But I like you prefer the far away. we disire what we cant have. Discuss it with the one from far away and tell each other keep things open and I say persue the jr friend. He is more accessable for now and if the other guy comes back inthe picture then you can decide.
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