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I plan on being a virgin until I'm married. I am currently a fifteen year old female. I've been confused lately about whether or not I should be dating and in relationships. Can I be in relationships and still manage to stay true to the no sex thing?
[By no sex, it includes everything, not just intercourse. No oral, fingering, touching someone below the waist, nudity, cybersex, phone sex, etc.
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And no, these aren't rules set by my parents or anybody else. My parents have set no boundaries on me or even talked about it. This is something I decided on my own. (link)
I saw congrats on your plans for saving for marriage. I am also doing that as well and I am 23. Just to let in a some info. it WILL be a struggle. People will try to treat you different.They will think you dont know anything. AND ALoT of guys wont want to give the time of the days if they know they dont have a chance in bed.or they will try to pressure you even harder. But the way you look at it you wouldnt want to be with those kind of guys anyway. it does take time to find those type of guys that are willing to except you for who you are.keep me posted


anyone know any good songs to play when having sex/masturbating??? (link)
It depends on what you like.If you are a girl i would reccomend any of your favorite slow songs. My personal favorites of any Nickelback or Hinder ones. Those work like a charm. guys... no idea


my class is reading the sword in the stone. does anyone know how merlyn knows madame mim (the witch that caught wart and kay) thanks so much. (link)
actually in the original story of the sword in the stone Merlin knows everything about the futre and forgets something everyday. He knows mim( I cant remeber her actual name) but Arthur is the father of her son you dont see in the cartoon which she is trying to get on the thrown.He was under a spell at the time. Plus they are both practitioners of magic , sure they have to cross paths from time to time.


Okay, so I've been talking to my ex boyfriend's friend(who is a freshman and so am I), and we both have been getting to know each other alot. Plus two days ago, he told me he liked me, and I told him I liked him...Bad part is that he lives like an hour away and I don't know how we would see each other. Even thought he goes to the same school with my ex, and they are friends, but i'm not on good terms with my ex. But we really want to hang out, we just don't know how, and if our parents would even let us.

Then he told me that he just wanted to be friends and he said that a relationship wouldn't work out, so by that I got very sad...I mean wouldn't you be sad if a guy led you on like that, then dropped you?

But then he told me he didn't mean it like that, yeah right, and then he still wanted to try to have something with me because apparently he likes me "alot".
I don't know though, because after he told me it probably wouldn't work, I agreed with him, and now I don't know how I feel.

Plus there are two other guys that like me too. One of them goes to the same school I do(I don't really like him), and the other guy goes to a different school but he still lives close by, which I kind of have feelings for...Even though i'm a freshman and he's a jr. (in highschool)

So if anyone has any advice on what I should dooo...Please help.
Because I'm stuckkk. (link)
hun I am going through something very similar. I am liking someone alot too, they have the same feeling but we live TWO hours aparts. It is just in the begining stages on what is going though. I know there are a couple guys that live in my town that like me but i only have little feelings for one of them. But I like you prefer the far away. we disire what we cant have. Discuss it with the one from far away and tell each other keep things open and I say persue the jr friend. He is more accessable for now and if the other guy comes back inthe picture then you can decide.


This is gonna sound WIERD.

When I was really small, like in the early 90's, I remember seeing a movie that I still remember some parts of but I can't for the life of me remember what it is.. Here's what I remember.

-the two main characters are a teenage boy and his little kid sister
-there were ewok lookin' things (maybe they WERE ewoks?? I dunno..like teddy bears in clothes?)
-the kids were trying to get home to their family
-at one point the boy was on this HUGE spiderweb, dodging these giant evil spiders that would run at them.. the web was white and the background was all black
- At one moment, the little girl is sleeping in an old drier and the brother's trying to wake her up to take her home, but she's reluctant..

does any of this sound familiar to anyone?
I'm starting to think I imagined it!! (link)
22/f/cali


That was one of my childhood movies too!!!!!Yes you are right they ARE ewoks. It is a spin off movie after Star Wars. Star Wars: Ewoks Adventures. I have the double feature DVD. That one you are thinking of is Caravan of Courage. There is a sequel where both famlies get killed and the little girl and the little ewok have to save the village. it is a sad movie. That one is Called The Battle of Endor if you are curious. hope that helped at all.


15/f

Recently I've noticed that I've been receiving a lot more male attention than I used to. At first I thought that it was because I was a lot more flirtatious, but yesterday a really hot guy started talking to me before I even said anything. I lost some weight and I look pretty good, but I was wearing a huge down jacket, so this guy could only see my face, which has been described as pretty in a different way. So did I suddenly get better looking or am I releasing a different vibe? I don't get it. (link)
I woulnt worry about this, I asked the same question myself. It is a little harder since you are only 15. What I was told that guys grow up and stop being jerks, although at your age they still are insure, but maybe some of them are growing up and seeing you for who you are. hope that helped a little




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