i dont know if she loves me, but she is still tied a bit to her old relationship, saddend by the rare phone calls of an old friend.
she makes moves towards me, says she loves me sincerly somtimes. given me head, made out with me
yet somtimes i think she is thinking "I dont want him to be in ove with me, because i truly dont love him"
but does she really think that way? is she really in love with me?
i was in love with her, untill i realized that i might need to get over the whole "love" things and lets just be amazing friends
HOW DO I ASK HER, i really cant just say, do you want me to love you? because that is to weakinging on my part. i have already appeared alot as the quieter more submissive friend, but i am not. so i cant ask her "do you wajt me to love you"
DepthofHeart answered Friday April 27 2007, 6:27 pm: You can't just stop loving somebody because you want to, and if she loves you that isn't going to change from day to day just because some days you don't believe she loves you. Sometimes people feel as if they're not worthy of being loved by someone, they think that they don't deserve it. It's not because they're not in love with them, it's probably just the opposite. Or she may be afraid to get into another relationship due to her previous one. I know you probably don't want to her talk to her and tell her how you feel but I'm going to say it anyways. Talk to her and tell her how you feel. You'll never know what to do until you find out how she really feels. I hope everything works out.
hollister_lover09 answered Friday April 27 2007, 6:20 pm: hey, just because she gives you head and kisses you, doesnt mean she loves you. you might be her rebound.
so to find out, tell her you LIKE her not love, not yet. and see what she says. if she likes you too, ask her out, date for awhile then say i love you, if your sure!!..
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