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not acting like a boyfriend.
Posted Saturday April 28 2007, 7:07 pm
13/f
alright. um..
i like this guy A LOT (we'll call him bob). he has a girlfriend & they've been going out for like more than a month. the thing is, they don't do anything. i never see them talk & they have only hugged like once. that's all the farther they've gone. my bff has been going out with this guy for 3 weeks & they hang out a lot, talk evweryday, are constantly holding hands, & have kissed like 4 or 5 times.
my problem is, is that i don't know if i could ever go out with someone like that. someone that doesn't act like a boyfriend should. so my question is, should i move on? should i wait for him? if i do & we end up going out, is he gonna act the same way? i just don't know what to think or do.
help?
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miss flirty
Posted Saturday April 28 2007, 7:01 pm
i like this guy and i want to start being more flirty around him. Hes kind of a perv, btu wicked funny. Any cute flirty things I can say or do?? Websites?? (dont tell me to use a search engine please and thank you)
Please help me fast I am going to see him again veryy soon :)
Thanks a bundle &HEARTS
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omggg
Posted Saturday April 28 2007, 6:56 pm
im like about to cry as i write this. okay i was tlaking to this guy.. hes 2 and a half years older than me and we were getting prettyy closee..and then he asked me for pictures and of course, cause im stupid i sent them..don't even say i shouldnt have because i know i shouldnt. well today he called me and we were talking then he said he was talking to another girl then he was like whne are you gonna come over and ahve sex im like never your talking ot someone remember then he was like dont pull that shit. then he was like if you ever come over will you do stuff with me im like uuhm no your talking to someone and he got mad that i kept bringing it up. i find him pretty damn dumb to do that bc he told me who he was talking to and i could t...
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freshman dance
Posted Saturday April 28 2007, 6:31 pm
15/f. there is this one guy that i really want to go to the freshman dance with. we sit next to each othe rin science class and we have a lot of other classes together. i just don't know if he likes me. we talk in science but he's also really shy. like he will talk to me but he's not the person to like wave in the hall.
also he is kind've "popular" i hate labels, but i feel like it is neccesary to do it here. his last girlfriend was this really pretty & "popular" girl and they broke up a couple weeks ago. but to me he doesn't seem the popular type. i think that his old gf was the only reason he is popular, plus he's extrememly hot. but if you see him in class he is friends with a lot of guys are can b...
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does he like me?
Posted Saturday April 28 2007, 6:21 pm
ok well i really like my best friend but he doesnt know and i cant tell him because well i either want things to work out in a bf gf way or just stay best friends. but i cant handle awkwardness around him. like lets say he doesnt like me and then i have to see him every day and yea it would be weird. a long time ago, months ago, i liked him and told him. he couldnt like me because he was going through a gay phase. but hes not gay now. he just wasnt sure at the time. so i know there is a chance he likes me. there are clear signs that he does. but those were also there when he was gay. he led me on and then hurt me. i have no idea why. and to top it all off, my friends are pissed at him because he has a tendency to piss people off. so they ar...
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movies
Posted Saturday April 28 2007, 5:15 pm
ok so im going out with a couple of my friends tonight. were going to the movies and im not sure what were seeing but its probably gonna be something scary. theres 5 boys going and 3 girls. theres this one i guy i think is sooooooooo gorgeous. hes so hot. and my friends said there gonna make sure i sit next to him. and then those 2 other girls are my bffs. one of them is going with her boyfriend with us. so they might be cuddling or making out. the other girl has a bf but hes not going.the other guys know i think that the guy i think is hot is hot. becuase my friends told him. and so they told that guy also. so i have no idea what to do. but there gonna set me up to sit next to him. but were seeing a scary movie. and i get scared so easily....
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i have a crush on a guy and he just broke up with his gf
Posted Saturday April 28 2007, 4:56 pm
14/f
ok, so i have a huge crush on this guy. ive liked him since about november. we usuaully flirt and talk and normal stuff. i just cant tell if he likes me or not. well, just yesterday his girlfriend broke up with him. they had only been together for about 2 weeks. so i want to know, how should i approach him? now that he's single, should i tell him i like him? should i start flirting more? any advice is appreciated.
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dry humping/sex
Posted Saturday April 28 2007, 4:55 pm
ok. i jsut love the feeling when im reading about sexual stuff or someting like that. like my vagina starts beating and i jsut love it. and like its jsut great. but i mean i also want to do like dry sex or dry humping which i do with a pillow or something. and its alright i guess but i mean i know it will be jsut great with another guy. but when i tried it on my boyfriend like when we were in my room making out we were on my bed and like his leg was between mine and i started dry humping and he just laughed and let me do it like as in it was cute or something. but he never rubs against me or anything. and im always pushing myself onto him and stuff and he likes it but he wont do it to me. and he always says he will but never does. well actu...
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He's so confusing...
Posted Saturday April 28 2007, 4:54 pm
this is super long, sorry!
Alright, I'm 16/f, and there's a guy I like, he's almost 18. I'd think we're pretty good friends, we met at the beginning of the school year, and we were assigned to work together on a year-long project. He's totally sweet and cute, and one of my good guy friends.
He has a girlfriend (i've seen them together, and she treats him terribly, and they always fight, but apparantly now they've exchanged promise rings?), he's only mentioned her to me twice, not by name, and one time he mumbled and lowered his voice when he said it.
He's ALWAYS doing flirty things. We've talked a LOT about important things. I'll give you some examples:
-ear blowing
-leg r...
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how do i know if he loves me?
Posted Saturday April 28 2007, 4:35 pm
my boyfriend tells me he loves me but sometimes im not so sure. i love him but i do not know if he says he loves me because he thinks he has to so i will not feel bad. girls has this happened to you? and guys if you love someone how do you know?
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HANGING out with this really hot guy finally!
Posted Saturday April 28 2007, 4:30 pm
ok so this guy who i like and i guess he likes me too wants to hang out so bad with me. he asked me for my phone # and he gave me his. first he invited me to his game and then a school dance afterwards which i couldnt go to. now is like the perfect day for him to hang out with me. but you see he wants me to call HIM? and i cant b/c i get embarassed and i just freak out. also i dont even know what we are going to do i havent planned anything but alls i know is im free today, next weekend im not. but you see its already 4 and i dont know what to do right now so help me before the day is over?
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we just say hi
Posted Saturday April 28 2007, 4:19 pm
In school theres this guy and we have known each other since december. but everytime i see him we ususally stare @ each other and then he waves to me and says hi. and i always do the same like whenever i see him. its all we do basically. but i wish it was more he tried talking to me and i did too but it didnt work out. he flirts with most of my friends. but i never got the chance to actually know him. hes popular im not. but i would like to know what to do because alls we do is say HI (name) its just i like him! what should I do?
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boyfriend issues
Posted Saturday April 28 2007, 3:25 pm
I am 15. My boyfriend, 'Danny' is 17. We have been going out for 6 months. I really like him, and he is really sweet. But lately, he has been acting strange. He rarely talks to me outside of class or hugs me. He doesn't call anymore, talk to any of my friends, and has just been aloof. At first, I was worried, until my friend said she saw him hugging some girl (who dislikes me) and making out with her and hanging with her friends (who dislike me also since their ringleader does). I'm pretty sure he wants to break up with me, but I don't know why, since I don't know if what my friend said is true. should I confront him about it, and how? Or should I just let it go and move on?
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he's going away :(
Posted Saturday April 28 2007, 2:43 pm
Hey i'm 17f, and work at a small restrant. The bosses son is about 19/20 y.o. He always looks at me when im at work and comes and talks to me, gets stuff like drinks... (he dosn't do this for any one els).... I like him verry much, he's realy nice and realy good looking.
The problem is next week he's goig away to europ and i wont see him for a month and a half... tomorows the last day i will see him until he comes back, and i would realy like to keep in contact with him.
should i ask him for his e-mail? If so how could i bring it up?... thanks
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x boyfriend
Posted Saturday April 28 2007, 2:03 pm
ok so iam a 16/f and i recently broke up with my boyfriend because he couldn't believe that i trusted him... so i told him its over.. and then i told one of our friends that i wanted to go back out with him and she told me that he said he doesn't date his exes... o yah and also he started being mean t o me in class and like he was calling me stupid and i was like your just saying that because i broke up with you.. well why is he mean to me now? and i still like him and he doesn't want me back so what should i do?
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guy help
Posted Saturday April 28 2007, 1:54 pm
15/f.
is it fair to tell the guy i like that i like him even though he has a girlfriend? because i feel like he has the right to know since we are also good friends. but then i don't want to be mean to him and ruin his relationship.
thanks!
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this guyy..
Posted Saturday April 28 2007, 1:37 pm
okay well i really like this kid whos in 11th grade..and im in 9th..whatever thats besides the point. we talk on the phone and stuff and he seems really nice & everythingg. but then everyone is like don't get involved with him, stop talking to him now and stuff but like i dont want to. if the rumors are true..i'd rather find out myself bc i know rumors aren't always true..what should i do
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playing hard to get.
Posted Saturday April 28 2007, 12:57 pm
im a girl age 14 turning 15 and well all the guys say i play hard to get and everytime i hang out with guys theres always at least one guy thats like lets do stuff or something and i wont do it and untill maybee laterr and i was wondering do guys like when girls play hard to get? please tell me.
--angie
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Posted Saturday April 28 2007, 11:19 am
I am kind of in a predicament here. Or at least I feel really confused. (It is quite long, I’m sorry)
My boyfriend and I have been dating for quite a while, nearly a year. I love him a lot and I feel that things were going smoothly. However, a few weeks ago his ex came back to NY. (She had moved to VA before) And I felt that it was nothing really. The background is that he had dated her for a long time as well, about two years or so and from his friends, they told me that he really liked her (when they were dating) and the reason they broke up was because she had to move to VA and because she thought she’ll be leaving permanently, they decided to stop their relationship so it won’t drag on.
So I gue...
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My bf broke up with me. =/
Posted Saturday April 28 2007, 10:42 am
My bf of 5 1/2 months broke up with me on Thurs. It's my fault though. We loved each other and been through so much but I have been giving him so much shit and I was so demanding. I wanted everything my way and I always wanted to me right. I always talked shit about his family and his friends when I got mad. I knew he was getting sick of it. He was sick of the shit I was doing. He's given me multiple chances to stop and I took what he said for granted. I thought he'd take me back no matter what. But the last time he dumped me he said the next time I do it, it's really gonna be over and I said I wouldn't. But what happened was that he was out with his friends playing baseball and I texted him twice and he didn't respond and I thought he was ...
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