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freshman dance
15/f. there is this one guy that i really want to go to the freshman dance with. we sit next to each othe rin science class and we have a lot of other classes together. i just don't know if he likes me. we talk in science but he's also really shy. like he will talk to me but he's not the person to like wave in the hall.
also he is kind've "popular" i hate labels, but i feel like it is neccesary to do it here. his last girlfriend was this really pretty & "popular" girl and they broke up a couple weeks ago. but to me he doesn't seem the popular type. i think that his old gf was the only reason he is popular, plus he's extrememly hot. but if you see him in class he is friends with a lot of guys are can be considered "nerds" and he doesn't dress all hollister like every other guy does. he's just different.
so my question is how do i get him to notice me more?
plus i catch him staring at me a lot during other classes. does this mean anything?
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Let's deal with you wanting to dance with him at your Freshman Dance. This part of your problem is the easiest to solve. Find him eating alone or alone period and say
"Hey so and so I'm so and so and I sit behind you in class. I just wanted to let you know I'm saving a dance for you at the dance week." Leave it at that as it will work. All you do at the dance is walk over and say "How about that dance?"
This makes it so it's not awkward. The guy is a genuine kind of person and is looking for someone who is genuine and really doesn't give a damn about labels (good for him) and hangs out with who he pleases regardless of what others think.
Just be careful not to view him as "different" or with "nerdy" friends as he's the same/they're the same as everyone else. He probably ditched his girlfriend because she was so fake and into that superficial kind of crowd.
Aside from the dance suggestion you can try to get him to notice you through compliments, smiling, subtle glances and twirling your hair. Le thim catch you once or twice looking directly at him. He'll get it.
You can also invite him to parties, to hang out with friends etc or movies in groups. See how he responds and up the ante a couple of levels when it's the appropriate time to do so.
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hey, well if hes staring at you, that must mean something. he could think your pretty or even like you. you said hes the shy type, so even if he does like you, theres a one percent chance that he would actually get the confidence to ask you to the dance. so sweetie, the only way your getting with him for the dance is by you asking him yourself. its not "weird" for girls to ask guys out, so theres nothing to worry about. some guys even get turned on by the fact that girls have the confidence to ask a guy out. just go for it. i recommend doing it in person, but since this guy is so shy, maybe doing it on the phone or on AIM is better. the only sucky thing with aim is that you dont know if its really him or not, so you might want to call him and make sure its really him. good luck.
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just because he stares at you don't mean squat, i used to stare at goth girls a lot because i was a wierd kid, but that didnt mean i liked him.
i dont care if he's popular and your not, if you dont see him with you, or you dont have a good feeling about it dont worry about it and go on with life.
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