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Um hey guy's i think you should answer this question..


Posted Sunday June 3 2007, 10:06 pm

Hey everyone im 13/f and me and my boyfriend already hug and kiss and all that stuff but like i want to cuddle with him but i want to turn him on and i dont want us to kiss and have it be like every other one i want it to be difernet ya know?? so i guess what im trying to say is how can i cuddle with my guy and turn him on at the same time


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Boy?


Posted Sunday June 3 2007, 9:57 pm

This is an amazing site, and so are the people on here and i thank everyone and anyone who reads this question.

Theres this boy, Mike. Everyone in my school hates him, I don't know why, or how, but hes gorgeous.
He wants to hook up with me, but in school, and you know, I like him and I'm up for it. But in school?? what would happen if we got caught, or out of class for so long that our teachers were looking for us?

And I sit with this boy at lunch, but he is really mean to my friend and calls her mexican, and he is also rude to me in front of his friends. Like his friend jon calls me anorexic, becuase i can't eat at like, 10:00 in the morning, im usually still sleeping then.

But, when i w...

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playing hard to get?


Posted Sunday June 3 2007, 9:44 pm

Ok this is the same person that asked that freakishly long question about this guy named drew.
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=493029
This might be kind of long too, but not as. Please help hahah!

But anyway, I finally told him how I felt, not that I was crying about him all night, since I didn't want to freak him out, but I did tell him I really liked him and all. I wasn't sure if I was bothering him, so I apologized for the randomness and if I was bothering him.

And he said hahah it's ok, don't worry about it. i'm just not interested in a relationship right now, but I do like being friends, so friends?

So I said that was fine, that I liked being friends too. I never saw hi...

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i want a boy to chase me!


Posted Sunday June 3 2007, 9:43 pm

how do you get a boy to "chase" you without making him annoyed or run away. i guess what im saying is how do you flirt with him and let him know that your the one?

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does he like me?


Posted Sunday June 3 2007, 9:40 pm

Well, I've had a crush on this guy for a few months.
He knows because my now ex-friend told it right to his face. At first he didn't talk to me much, then my friend had given him my screen name and we talked a little on there and he said hi to me in the halls and stuff. Now, suddenly, he occasionally asks who I like (I'm guessing it's to know if I still like him) and he's been IMing me first. He seems a little more interested in me lately, and sometimes we talk in the halls (very occasionally, but either I go up to him first, or he comes up to me) Lately on IM when he says he has to go, he usually only said "got to go sorry" and got off. Now he's saying stuff like "got to go, sorry, bye, see you tomorrow," and s...

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opening up


Posted Sunday June 3 2007, 9:31 pm

Alright, so i have problems opening up. I know my boyfriend gets frusterated sometimes because i'll be upset and not tell him whats wrong for a while. Its like i have a hard time saying whats on my mind while the time is right. I really do try and open up and communicate better but its something thats kind of hard for me, for some reason. Its like when I'm talking to him I dont tell him things that I should and then when I hang up I think of things I should have told him. Does anyone else have this problem or have any advice on how to work on communicating better? Thanks. (18/f)

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whore?


Posted Sunday June 3 2007, 9:16 pm

me and my best friend started a friends with benefits relationship about a month before he broke up with his girlfriend, which i felt bad about but we have this very strong sexual attraction that has lasted for years and we can't break the habbit. ok so thats bad enough that he cheated but are people who are involved in friends with benefits relationships considered whores? just because we can screw with 'just a friend'. it's not like i'd screw anyone, i trust my best friend very much. would you think i was a whore?

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attraction


Posted Sunday June 3 2007, 8:42 pm

15/f. the other night i was out with my sisters friends who are all 17 & 18 and apparently they all think i'm hot. and i know that when i go places that guys notice me. so i must be pretty. but its weird because in school it seems like guys don't even notice me. like i've never had a boyfriend.

why is this? i'm not saying i want the guys at school to be like staring at me and stuff. its just weird because my sisters friends couldn't believe it that i've never had a boyfriend because they think i'm really pretty.

also i'm not a bitch or anything. i'm really nice and i have a lot of friends. could it maybe be because i'm a little shy? like around my friends i'm more outgoing but around people i don't know i...

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guy's i need help !!( im a gurl)


Posted Sunday June 3 2007, 8:21 pm

Hey im a 14/f and i adore my boyfriend and he adors me acording to him anyways but i trust him but yeah my question is what kind of things turn guys on ??? like i want to cuddle my guy and stuf and have it seem, really.... sweet and i really need help si can you heklp me ???? and what kind of things would turn you on if yor a guy ?? give me some idea's please and um when i kiss him what should i do so it doesn't just seem like a regular kiss?? i mean i have kissed him befor but i dont want it to be like every other kiss
love,
bubble gum
P.s. please help

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Do I Do It Or NoT ?? ?? ?? ??


Posted Sunday June 3 2007, 8:14 pm

Kay hey um well im 14/f and i just broke up with my totaly awsome boyfriend becuase we are going to different school's so adter we broke up witch was last wensday the same say i got with someone else but i didnt really like him but he really liked me please dont judge me on this i am not a player or notin but me and my NEW boyfriend broke up today and my ex- boyfriend asked me out again and i said yes cuz he wants to come see me everyday and said he promises to so my question is do i stay with him or not ?? Please answer
love,
bubble gum

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Posted Sunday June 3 2007, 8:00 pm

So i have had a lot of boyfriends in my past, and had no problem saying yes. It used to be like when someone asks me out i say yes right away, but this year it's been so hard, i have had no boyfriends. guys have asked me out but they just don't seem right. what is wrong with me? no one seems right? should i just go out with the...or whatttt...?

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cheating hurts :(


Posted Sunday June 3 2007, 7:07 pm

Alright. Long story short. My boyfriend cheated on me by having sex with another girl. It has been a couple of months and I really thought that I would be able to move past it and that our relationship could start over, and maybe even be stronger. But for some reason I cant seem to get past it. Please, how can I move on from this. I want to.

Also I feel like my boyfriend doesnt understand how badly this hurt me and how much it still is. I want him to be punished in some way. I just dont know how. How do I get him to realize that this is NOT okay? I mean I took him back once after he cheated. What if he has in his head that he could get away with it again?

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Let myself fall in love?


Posted Sunday June 3 2007, 6:18 pm

Oh my gosh - I have my whole destiny in my hands. I'm in total control, people. I just found out EVERYTHING is up to me. I get to choose if I see my crush this summer, I get to choose if THIS is the summer I'll have my first love. How do I know if I'm ready? Should I let myself fall? HOW DO I KNOW?

I don't want it to be a mistake, when I fall - I want it to last forever. And I know I will if I'm ready for love.

But how do I know if I'm ready yet?
Does it have to do with age? 15.
Gender? Female.
Is it all about experience? None. Just stupid innocent crushed.
Or religious maturity? So insecure in my faith.

What choice do I make? What's the right one? I don't want to ge...

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They're falling in love, arn't they?


Posted Sunday June 3 2007, 6:13 pm

I think my cousin and boyfriend are falling in love right in front of my eyes, and I can't do anything to stop it!

SHould I let love/destiny take its coarse, and let it pair them up, I mean if they're meant to be together, who am I to stop them?

Or do I fight for someone who appearantly doesn't even want to be with me?

Help!


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Summer Nervosity!


Posted Sunday June 3 2007, 6:10 pm

I've been counting down the days for this summer to come since summer 2004 - a long tiiime ago! Because this is the summer I'd finally get to see my crush again! But now I'M SO NERVOUS! I got so much more unattractive then I used to be, im not cute anymore, but HE on the other hand got HOTTTTER! I'm so nervous he wont like me this year! I'm secretly hoping something will ruin our plans so i dont see him! even though i really want to! just because im so nervous! help me people! thanks :D hahah

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you go up to a girl you like and you say


Posted Sunday June 3 2007, 5:05 pm

? like in an everyday situation like school or over the phone or on aim

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kissing advice-guys please read.


Posted Sunday June 3 2007, 4:55 pm

okay so i am 16/f. I currently have a friend that i hook up with sometimes. I was wondering, since we both like eachother, what is a really cute/hot/sexy thing i can do when we are kissing?it would be great to get answers from guys, but anything would be fine. thanks!

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kissing and touching


Posted Sunday June 3 2007, 4:44 pm

I have a boyfriend and we've kissed and all. We've talked about how making out is with touching. We both agreed we want to and he says he likes to. He just hasn't done anything but the kissing part. I kinda want him to touch me more then he does but I don't know what to do and how do bring it up to him and if I should. Should I talk to him about it more? Or should I just leave it alone and have it happen on its own. By the way...we've been dating for about 6 months. And I still get butterflies about looking into his eyes. I really want to though.
What should I do?


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getting ex boyfriend, whom i still like jealouse. maybe?


Posted Sunday June 3 2007, 4:39 pm

okay well really what i'm trying to say is that i still like my ex boyfriend alot and i heard he still "kinda" likes me. and i want to "get him jealous" if thats what you want to call it. really what i'm asking is how can i make myself look like "breath taking" if you will. or " eye catching".

i'll give you the low down. i'm a 13 year old girl. im about 5'3ish with short brown hair. its about sholder length. brown eyes, and i'm pretty skinny, about average. how should i do my hair, what color make up annd what not? i can pretty much do anything with my hair. i usually straighten it. sometimes i scrunch it. and what color eye shadow if any? what kind of shirt? low cut, full tshirt? qua...

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which one do i pick?


Posted Sunday June 3 2007, 4:38 pm

okay. so i went out with this one guy "b" and he was rly nice and i also went out with his best friend "z" who i rly rly liked but my best friend liked him so we broke up. and now im not going out with either one of them but i still like "z" and he flirts with me and stuff so i think he likes me but "b" told my friend that he likes me too. i dont want to sound into myself by saying it like this. but what should i do?

thx!

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