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Let myself fall in love?
Oh my gosh - I have my whole destiny in my hands. I'm in total control, people. I just found out EVERYTHING is up to me. I get to choose if I see my crush this summer, I get to choose if THIS is the summer I'll have my first love. How do I know if I'm ready? Should I let myself fall? HOW DO I KNOW?
I don't want it to be a mistake, when I fall - I want it to last forever. And I know I will if I'm ready for love.
But how do I know if I'm ready yet?
Does it have to do with age? 15.
Gender? Female.
Is it all about experience? None. Just stupid innocent crushed.
Or religious maturity? So insecure in my faith.
What choice do I make? What's the right one? I don't want to get hurt. I don't want to interfere with destiny and what's meant to be, I wish it wasn't up to me.
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If you have a chance to do something that excites you and makes you happy, it only makes sense to take it.
What doesn't make sense is to expect happiness to last forever.
What doesn't make sense is to obsess until you are ill about a choice, as though it defines your whole life.
It wont.
You might be ready for love. Your love might not be ready for you. You might make a mistake. He might. You might not be ready. You might end up loathing each other. You might end up miserable and broken hearted. You might end up married with three kids and a collie. You might actually be the reincarnation of some Tibetan leader and leave in mid July to teach your deep wisdom at a secluded temple in the mountains.
You could drive yourself nuts with the might be. Or you could just make your choice and realize what is meant to be, is exactly what will be.
Don't tell yourself you know. Don't pretend you know. You don't know what your destiny is. It's not a set thing; it's an evolving and changing thing.
You don't know you are ready. So what?
Does it have to with age or experience or faith? Sure, everything does. Where you live, what you eat, how you speak, what you've done, what you think, how you treat others is all part of YOU. But none of that tells us, or you, what the future will hold.
Make the choice you want. Stop stalling life by worrying about it. Start living already.
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1. If you have that much control I'd be freaked on making the right decision also.
2. Don't think about you who will be affected think about others. Couls someone get mad at you for falling in love or does someone else have the same crush as you??
3. Love is not controlled, ever wonder why some people say love is painful when others say love is all you need? It's because Love is both it will hurt you and will make you so happy and untouchable. So think of falling into love as falling into a chance spinner. You can only dive in and hope for the best outcome but there's no way of knowing.
4. Is my real answer....I think you should fall in love especially for the first time during summer. but consider the above
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if its meant to be, when you see him, you'll feel it, and you'll now if its true love..and if you feel that feeling then you shouldnt turn back..dont ever be afraid to fall because you may miss out on something amazing..this could be destiny but you wont know until you see him..if you dont feel like its true love then just have fun and enjoy being young and having a crush and then in the future fate will come in and youll find the person youre truly meant to be with.
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