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cheating hurts :(


Question Posted Sunday June 3 2007, 7:07 pm

Alright. Long story short. My boyfriend cheated on me by having sex with another girl. It has been a couple of months and I really thought that I would be able to move past it and that our relationship could start over, and maybe even be stronger. But for some reason I cant seem to get past it. Please, how can I move on from this. I want to.

Also I feel like my boyfriend doesnt understand how badly this hurt me and how much it still is. I want him to be punished in some way. I just dont know how. How do I get him to realize that this is NOT okay? I mean I took him back once after he cheated. What if he has in his head that he could get away with it again?


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CheerCandi answered Sunday June 3 2007, 9:31 pm:
well kissing and cheating on another girls then you can get over it. but actual sex. that bf would be dead to me. i couldnt be able to get over it sweetsz.

you need it to get throught to him that this is a very serious matter. you ACTUALLY back with him? wow lovey thats brave. (and a little stupid) i can almost guarantee you that hes ot worth it and doesnt love you. id dump him for good and never mention it OR him again.

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xoxwannabemexox answered Sunday June 3 2007, 9:27 pm:
Get the idea out of his head.Talk to him and say how much it hurt (The cruel truth) and that you will not just give it up and act normal. You obviously love him and maybe just maybe he doesn't love you back. You should almost threaten to leave him and see if it has effect have a "break" from him

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hollister_lover09 answered Sunday June 3 2007, 9:26 pm:
it is for sure in his head he can get away with it. hunny, get out of the relationship, only way to get over it, really. if he cheated on you, esp. by having sex. then he doesnt need your time of day!.. if you wanna get him back, then break up with him.. make him feel bad about it. hope i helped and i hope you get over him<3

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