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Depression? But why...?


Posted Sunday May 27 2007, 10:16 pm

Ok well im 14/f and ive been depressed for like two weeks. i think that its because i really really like this guy. hes so cute and nice and funny. but i dont think he likes me as more than a friend. I CANT STOP THINKING ABOUT HIM! but im too scared to tell him how i feel. i dont know what to do. i havent told any of my friends, and they keep asking me whats wrong. HELP ME PLEASEE


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IM THE ANGEL OF BAD LUCK AND DEATH!


Posted Saturday May 26 2007, 6:34 pm

I've been like a jinx, curse, and bad luck to me and everyone else ever since I was born and i feel so bad about it! I

'm the most smartest and best student in my class everyone says and I'm the most careful but at home it jsut doens't seem that way.

Like I try to be careful and I just amke stuff worse! Liek today for fun I was just going to shock my grandma like a surprise but I forgot that she's really old and when i did she looked liek she was about to have a seizure!

And I was just playing with my sister, jsut for fun. And when she played with me she ran into a tree and now she has a terrible scar liek across her head to remind everyone about it! And it came form an inacent game of tag!
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uhm am i depressed?


Posted Saturday May 26 2007, 4:41 pm

i dont know if im depressed but i saw this ( one advicenator put this in her/his answer stating it was 6 major signs of depression)

1-sudden change in eating habits
2-sudden change in weight
3-lack of motivation
4-dont care about self image
5-doesnt care about self anymore
6-doesnt care about others anymore

the problem is that i did gain weight a little, theres lack of motivation in my life but im not gonna comit sucide or anything, i dont care about my self image or the way i dress to school cause i believe im me and i dont need anyone else opinion on things

i have 5 out of 6 of those, am i depressed?
i do care about others(#6)

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SOMEONE HELP ME


Posted Friday May 25 2007, 3:27 pm

ok this goes here and some other places but i used to be this really happy cheerful little girl but then all of a sudden that changed and my life got turned upside down i mean i gained alot of weight i stopped caring abot myself and even some others but mainly myself and now i dont know what to do because i want to go back to the way i used to be but it seems like evry time i try to i just get pushed right back down i mean i want to lose alot of weight be more healthy and be happy again but i cant seem to get the motivation for it everytime i get pushed back down so how i am ever goona change HELP

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WHATS WRONG WITH ME


Posted Thursday May 24 2007, 9:49 pm

Do i have A.D.D.? and can you help me solve my other problems?

my parents thought that i have A.D.D. because at times.. usually often, its hard for me to concentrate. like for homework, i have to be doing it for a while and then im in like "homework mode" but it usually takes an hour or two till im in that phase. i procastinate so much. this is why i do most of my homework in my bedroom so i cant get distracted by tv or the comp. i mean.. and i always procastinate my projects till the very last day.. like right now i have something due tomorrow and i've only done the prewrite packet.. now i have to write this whole thingie (rough draft) and the final copy and more is due next week but i havent even started that yet ...

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Dealing with my emotions


Posted Thursday May 24 2007, 5:31 pm

Ok well when you're sad they say you should like tell someone and stuff but when i tell my best friends it seems liek it doens't matter much to them or they don't really feel any sympathy or they're not good at like cheering up.

And I can't jsut write all my feelings on this site and stuff you know, what can i do?

I feel so down and not even my best friends know how I'm feeling. And every part of my house is occupied so i can't even try to phone the kids help line thingy that I've always wondered what it's like.

Is there a site where you write all your feelings and people write stuff for you? I dunno I just feel so weak! I always need my spirit to be up and people to cheer me up. I'm sick of it!

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Dangerous movies!


Posted Thursday May 24 2007, 12:15 pm

Does anyone here believe that movies these days are dangerous because they make evil out to be such a big thing that when we do small evil things (for example LIE) we dont think of it as a big deal anymore.. ?!?! Because movies potray evil as psycopaths or murderers or cheaters, you know? so small evil doesnt seem lik evil anymore, its just human, you know??

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EVIL


Posted Thursday May 24 2007, 12:11 pm

Do you believe that people are evil because of some flaw they have, or a lack of something maybe, and they sort of project it on to others?

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Who am I?


Posted Tuesday May 22 2007, 9:00 pm

15/f (sixteen in a week)

When taking personality tests or being asked questions, I am usually so balanced in my answers that it's hard to choose.

Example:
Q: Do you rely on improvisation or careful planning more?

I do both, in nearly every situation. I focus on details and the big picture, etc.

I love wearing high heels and being a blonde/black haired hot girly girl. And a quiet straight A, dedicated and responsible student. But I love going out with guys and playing in the mud catching frogs and snakes.

How do I figure out who I am? Nothing describes me. I try to excell at everything I do and I am a perfectionist sometimes.

How do I learn to de...

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Me being very depressed when my friends don't do anything


Posted Monday May 21 2007, 8:36 pm

Well, I find I am very odd. I always feel depressed when i'm not with my friends. Most of the time I feel like there blowing me off everytime I want to do something with them. I'm wondering if there is something mentally wrong with me :S

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Recovering of a depressed patient?


Posted Saturday May 19 2007, 10:39 am

Can a clinical depress patient recover completely and lead a normal life as before?

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depression


Posted Friday May 18 2007, 4:45 pm

13/f. I think I am depressed and its not helping that everything is overwhelming me and stressing me out. Also I'm going to say before hand that I know most the things on here don't sound like a big deal but keep this in mind; I'm a person who gets stressed out at the most littlest things. So please, please understand that I'm having trouble here.

1. I am super stressed. nervous, and scared about going to high school for the first year. Most my friends are excited but I'm not. I'm rather shy, so its hard to make friends. And I've been working my butt since 7th grade, to get the social life I have now in 8th grade, which is practically no where. I have friends, but only 2 of them we actually make plans with each other and stuf...

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No, i don't No


Posted Thursday May 17 2007, 11:51 pm

I seem sick everyday ..im tired all the time, i feel so messed up, I've never takin any drugs or drank,I eat healthy food, im just...

i have thought about killing myself, but thats just plain stupid, still laugh sometimes, main things is my pains hurt so bad, such as my stomach, almost feel the flu :|, but its not, i need advice, or distractions, or love: something, i just wish i could be better, but no matter what though i still fail, i probley sound stupid, but im so.. sad , then i ask, sad of what? depressed of what? wtf i don't know, i don't want attention, i pretend at school that im ok" but i don't lie.

Maybe its this girl i know? shes the only one who actuallys make's me feel happy, but i don't want...

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whats wrong with me if anything?


Posted Wednesday May 16 2007, 9:32 pm

okay, well i get like wicked mad over everything all the time. like if i drop something, i'll get wicked pissed and like flip out and start throwing stuff. and i'll get like wicked mad at something and then feel like crying. and then start laughing at nothing. ive noticed this a few times. is this different?

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Depression.


Posted Wednesday May 16 2007, 7:30 pm

I think I'm going through a fit of depression.
I've been looking up symptoms & I literally say yes to every single one.

Here's my little story:
I have a best friend, our parents are friends & we've been friends literally forever. But she's a grade lower so we don't have the same friends.. so I don't hang out with her when I'm with my grade friends.
But that's not what this is about. Just that, she's my only friend, but I feel like I have none.
I talk to all the people at school but.. none hang out with me on weekends/after school. They all have their own friend circles.
All year + last year I've had three best friends [besides the other].
We hung out all the time.
Then,...

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Very Bad Nail Biting Habit


Posted Tuesday May 15 2007, 8:07 pm

** This question is intended for people who have had experience with nail biting for quite awhile. Please do not get an answer from Google that won't help me with my problem. **

13/F

I have a very bad nail biting habit. I have been biting my nails ever since I could bite. My mom has been biting her nails too for a long time, so I guess I just picked it up from her when I was little. I've tried everything. The nasty tasting stuff, putting on gloves, and my aunt even threatened to not take me to Cali with her if I didn't stop biting my nails. I stopped biting my nails after that happened and they looked great. Unfortunately, soon before we were about to leave Cali, I picked up on it again. I've been on again off ...

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Scared?


Posted Monday May 14 2007, 1:40 am

im getting surgery on my heart in about a month. im not exactly sure what its alled but i do know that its treating a condition called SVT, that they are putting wires through incisions in my neck and upper leg, and that they are zapping an extra thing in my heart that makes it beat too fast somtimes. theres is less then one percent chance that it does not work. its pretty safe. still, ill be un-concious for the three hour surgery, and i will probably have to stay the night at the hospital.

my parents werent going to let me do it because they where worried. they knew that there werent a lot of risks, but still im their first child and they worry about me like parents are suposed too.

the few friends that ive t...

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How can I feel some emotion?


Posted Sunday May 13 2007, 9:06 pm

I've noticed that I hardly get excited over anything,nothing seems all that interesting,and it's pretty much IMPOSSIBLE for me to cry.How can I sort this out.Maybe find something that I'm passionate about,show some character,be something besides a total robot.

I want to go through all of my options before I see a doctor or something.

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??


Posted Sunday May 13 2007, 9:02 pm

i cant stand it anymore. i want it to be over and i dont feel like waiting for it to 'get better'. i just dont want to feel teh pain anymore and im going to end it. im so sick of nobody listening to me and telling me im stupid and not to 'talk that way'. i just need someone to lsiten. i need someone to ehlp me.

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smoke


Posted Sunday May 13 2007, 8:20 pm

if you smoke ciggaretts can it delay your period?

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