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No, i don't No


Question Posted Thursday May 17 2007, 11:51 pm

I seem sick everyday ..im tired all the time, i feel so messed up, I've never takin any drugs or drank,I eat healthy food, im just...

i have thought about killing myself, but thats just plain stupid, still laugh sometimes, main things is my pains hurt so bad, such as my stomach, almost feel the flu :|, but its not, i need advice, or distractions, or love: something, i just wish i could be better, but no matter what though i still fail, i probley sound stupid, but im so.. sad , then i ask, sad of what? depressed of what? wtf i don't know, i don't want attention, i pretend at school that im ok" but i don't lie.

Maybe its this girl i know? shes the only one who actuallys make's me feel happy, but i don't want to intrude on her, nor do i want her to feel sorry for me, i can survive the depression
but the stomach pains and headaches is what is killing me.
I hope my pains go away tomarrow, otherwise im in for it

my question is, depression? stess? being sad sometimes may be the cause of these awkward stomach pains?, i feel stupid for even saying this
maybe i need antidepression pills..? so i can be tipsy
16/ m /
Im gonna try real hard to pull myself together
cheers :(


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Additional info, added Saturday May 19 2007, 1:17 pm:
another part of this could be the fact that my mother cheated on my father, then my father cheated on my mother, and now they have been fighting every night sence i was 14, they didn't devorce, now just weeks ago they have seemingly recovered and seem ok, and all that buried shit i put under my wing is coming out http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZaIGVJDsrqM&mode=related&search=.

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jlle answered Saturday May 19 2007, 2:41 pm:
I'm sure this is going to sound stupid, but it's worked for me and it tends to be worth at least a try. In addition to the other things that were suggested, I would try getting out as much as possible, working out, stretching, that sort of thing. It helps to raise your energy level, let you feel better and relaxes some of the stress on your mind and your body. I'm glad you're looking for ways to make things better; talk to someone and good luck with this. <3

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AskJR answered Friday May 18 2007, 9:45 am:
Depression is painful. It can manifest in any physical form.

Stress can too.

The stomach and headaches are common targets for stress and depression.

You need to see a therapist or pyschatrist to get counseling and maybe antidepressants.

Being 16 is harder for them to prescribe antidepressants because it's a known fact that they can cause adverse behavior in teens than they do adults.

It's the hormonal difference and mental differences that cause the adverse behavior.

You need to get to the root of your depression and faster the better.

The quality of life at 16 should be the happiest time of your life at this point.

Get help.

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Elcee answered Friday May 18 2007, 6:31 am:
Being stressed can cause all sorts of pains and ailments. Well done for recognising that you are down at the moment and for doing something about it. I feel that you need to talk to a professional like your doctor just to rule out any medical causes for your pains. Once you have established the facts then you can start to turn your life around and then the pains should disappear. The more you worry about something the more it will increase. Even if you do not feel like smiling try to make the effort because that really does help. Try to think positive thoughts like how good you have life at the moment even if it feels crap. You should never feel stupid for being worried about your physical and mental state of health. I hope that I have been able to help a little bit. Take care.

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RoxyMoo answered Friday May 18 2007, 2:30 am:
The pain could be making things worse, but it wont be the reason for it all.

It could be anything, especially hormones, you could try speaking to an adult who you trust and see what they think, or maybe a teacher?

Try getting out a bit more maybe, not saying you dont go out, but get out more than you do, do stuff that keeps your mind oppcupied.

And if the stomach pains get worse, go to the doctor

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