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Jealousy, surprise surprise.
Posted Wednesday June 20 2007, 9:40 pm
I'll admit this straight up, I get jealous; I'm human. It was never a huge problem because I'm happy with who I am, until I got my recent boyfriend whose known as a flirt. We've been dating for about 9 months now, and we're doing great. But I still get jealous because he'll go to movies alone with one other girl, and right now he's in Italy on a group trip with a girl who is totally in love with him. I trust him for the most part, but some nights when I sit and think about him I worry about what he might be doing. He won't be home from his trip for a few more weeks. So what can I do to stop myself from dying in jealousy, also for the future? Thank you.
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Awkward? Amusement Part with Guys
Posted Wednesday June 20 2007, 9:00 pm
16/f
Two of my best friends (girls) and I invited a guy to an amusement park for Friday. We asked him to bring a couple of other guys, and we won`t know one of them. They all play hockey and one is a professional in the WHL which is kind of exciting (and they just won the Memorial Cup - if you follow).
We almost never talked to the guy we invited at school because things were just always really weird because he can get shy. Other than talking about hockey, how do we make it less awkward?
Any conversation tips, good topics to bring up with guys you don`t really know, or anything like that is a lot of help! We will be together for at least seven hours there, and might go to a bonfire that night (wh...
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You'll love this...
Posted Wednesday June 20 2007, 8:11 pm
So I just came out of a 24 hour relationship...Amazing, right? Not really. This is probably my 10th boyfriend and all of the previous ones have been jerks too me, I was so tired of it. Then this kid Gary was talking to me, and he dropped a few hints that he liked me, and then I dropped a few hints that I liked him back..But see, we only met once, and then we started talking on myspace and on the phone..
Then he was going to ask me out, and I told him I didn't really know, because if he met me after we started going out, he might think of me differently...
You know how someone talks to you for a long time, and you get a picture of how the person is, and then when you meet them, they're totally different?
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summertime, what to do w/ bf?
Posted Wednesday June 20 2007, 7:04 pm
now that it's summer my bf and i spend a lot of time together. we don't have a lot of money, nor do we want to constantly spend it all...but we will spend it on things like movies and dinners. other than that, we stay at home and watch tv usually. it's pretty hot outside, so it's kind of limiting...but i'm still open to suggestions. basically- WHAT CAN WE DO? i love being spontaneous but he usually needs future notice, i'd like to plan a lot of things for us to do so i don't get bored just sitting at home. what's fun for couples to do in the summer thats not outrageously expensive?
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How do I handle a "just friends" relationship?
Posted Wednesday June 20 2007, 5:51 pm
16/F junior in High School
I'm usally good with guy advice, but I can't seem to figure this one out..
There is this boy I really like. Ok well I don't like him but I do. I love the feeling I get when I'm with him but when were not together we ever rarely talk, and my cell has a special ring for him when he calls/texts me and I get SO excited my stumoch drops. Though I don't want a boyfriend but I still want to hook up with him and everything I just dont know how I should feel about him. I have a CRUSH and I never ever crush or think anyones HOT and I think hes hot. If anything I think I'm only attractide to his looks, cause otherwise his personailty for girls..sucks..HE LOVES GIRLS..and I dont get jeal...
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Was he flirting?
Posted Wednesday June 20 2007, 5:17 pm
14/f
There is this guy thats my friends friend, and we dont know each other very well. anyway, we met once before and my friend introduced us. then, when i was leaving, i went to say bye to my friend and the guy. but when i left he asked me what my name was. no big deal i told him again. then the second time i met him i was sitting outside with my friends. he comes up and sits really close to me, a little closer than shoulder to shoulder. i turn and look at him, and he asks me my name again. i got nervous cause he was just a few inches away from me, but i answered. was he trying to flirt with me or was he just being a jerk?
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Shy
Posted Wednesday June 20 2007, 5:12 pm
Normally, i am a really outgoing and funny person. but whenever i get around the guy i like, i get really shy and nervous. i want him to like me back, and people are always saying to flirt and make him laugh. but i get afraid that i will say something stupid. how can i get over this?
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TRUST?
Posted Wednesday June 20 2007, 3:47 pm
me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year. i don`t trust him and i want to so bad. i want our relationship to work out. i know he wont cheat on me but i don`t trust him with other girls. i get so mad when he just talks to one. he`s done some stpid stuff but after we were broken up though. well actually he never did anything with anyone he said things like i wanna fuck you. but never did anything with them or while we were together. but he isn`t going to do that anymore and he hasn`t. the last time we broke he didn`t want to get back together unless i let him talk to who ever he wanted. he said he wants to be able to talk to who ever he wants to and for me not get mad because he isn`t gonna do anything. and i want to be ok wit...
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idk
Posted Wednesday June 20 2007, 3:21 pm
well, i've known this guy for awhile but recently we started talking. we hung out for the first time in school Friday and likee were all close bcause he was saying how he doesn't want any hookups anymore and wants to get into a serious relationship and he said he thinks i'm the right girl. So yeah we talked on the phone for a couple of days he would call like 2x a day maybe but he hasn't called me since saturday.
i don't think hes waiting for me to call him, because hes not shy about calling.
i don't think i should call him because even my mom said i was look like an idiot, and that if he wanted to call me he would. i just don't understand what went wrong!
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will it work, does he love me
Posted Wednesday June 20 2007, 3:07 pm
okay so i like this boy but hes 15 and im only 13 is he to old for me?
he said he liked me and everything
and i always think about him does that mean i love him?
please answer both my questions i need help!
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love on grad nite
Posted Wednesday June 20 2007, 2:04 pm
i want to tell my crush i like him at graduation. how should i do it?
14/f
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confusing guys.
Posted Wednesday June 20 2007, 12:21 pm
okay there is this guy that told me he liked me first and then i said i liked him. we talked for a while and then summer came along. we havent seen eachother at all yet i and i want to before i leave for vacation in a week. I asked him to do something and he always just says i dont know. then when im talking to him online i feel like im annoying him becuase he doesnt really talk, but then again most guys dont. Then the other day i was on his myspace and i saw a comment from this girl and it was like yah so were gunna chill soon? and he commented her back and was lik yahh im free after sunday. and then i couldnt remember if i had told him i was going on vacation next week or not and thats why he said it. but i have been played over by like 5...
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my boyfriend
Posted Wednesday June 20 2007, 11:43 am
my friend saw some girl on his profile on myspace
like the whole ilysfm jazz.
and i asked him why hed cheat on me.
and he said he isnt.
i dont know what to believe.
i even went on hers an she had his picture too saying how much SHE loves him.
i love him alot.
im really hurt.
i pretend to him that it was okay
[we didnt breakup]
i just pretended i was reassured.
why cant he be honest with me?
what do i do?
l:
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I wanna talk to him!
Posted Wednesday June 20 2007, 10:21 am
see this guy i have always talked online b/c thats how it is,has gotten grounded from the computer.
and i cant talk to him on the phone because it would be:
1)too akward
2)he always has the phone line busy
how else can i get to him [without giving him a letter]
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Boyfriend has a stalker? sorta.
Posted Wednesday June 20 2007, 2:23 am
This chick really likes my boyfriend. She texts him all the time.. which interrupts our time together sometimes. The thing is, he pays for all the texts. Incoming and whatnot. So she's flooding his phone. Blah blah. She gets mad whenever he says he busy or that he's with me ["his girl"]
She keeps sending messages about sex, getting drunk, and bjs. She just won't stop. She knows he's taken and that he's busy.
Advice? He's getting really annoyed and she's not taking a hint.
And here's my problem.
My new friend already likes me. He wants something more and he's like.. waiting for my relationship to fail. He's been "joking" or whatever about kissing me and making ou...
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what do you think
Posted Wednesday June 20 2007, 1:31 am
hiii, okay im going to show you conversations on AIM, and tell me if you think he likes me, if you don't its cool ohh&& he just will randomly sign off so you know.
Me: heyyy
boy: hey kid
boy: wazz up
me: nothingg really just boredd youu
boy: same
me: do you know aj w?
boy: no
me: ahah i was talking to mitch a long time ago and he brought up visi basketball and hes like oh ben is so mean he gets really aggresive in basketball he punched me
boy: thats a lie
boy: even though i would kick his ass
boy: but i got a good heart
boy: i wouldnt do that i am really a nice dude but in sports i can be a lil mean
boy: haha
boy: but i dont ...
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meeting the family
Posted Wednesday June 20 2007, 12:51 am
hi. well i need help with my boyfriend. i love him so much but he really wants to meet my family my mom knows about him but doesnt want to tell my family. i feel bad he gets mad but what can i do? im so sad hes a good guy and i wanna be with him forever but hes sad he thinks i dont want him to meet them n stuff. =(
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I just want to know what should I do!
Posted Wednesday June 20 2007, 12:32 am
me and my crush,we known each other since last december,he's in marine,right now he's in Nevada dessert for his training,after that he have to go to Iraq.I like him so much.he can't take his phone or whatever{with him}he sent me a message to myspace one time{when he got a chance} and last two days ago,he called me around 3;00 am..I woke up at that time but I din't familiar with that phone number that why I didn't pick up the phone{I was so regret}he told me "he miss me very very much and thinking about me a lot!"{I never hope that}I was crying at that time,till this day.I kept his voicemail and listen that again and again..cuz I miss him so much too.he said he call me back if he can.I miss him so bad..that can make me cry everynig...
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stupid boys
Posted Wednesday June 20 2007, 12:28 am
i fantasize about doing things w/ guys but when it comes time to actually do something with one i dont get turned on at all. but i get horny when i see my friends undressing. does that mean ima lesbian?
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boys
Posted Tuesday June 19 2007, 11:18 pm
if a boy says he likes you and wants to be with you does he usually mean it?
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