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will it work, does he love me


Question Posted Wednesday June 20 2007, 3:07 pm

okay so i like this boy but hes 15 and im only 13 is he to old for me?
he said he liked me and everything
and i always think about him does that mean i love him?

please answer both my questions i need help!


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ductape_n_roses answered Wednesday June 20 2007, 11:18 pm:
I don't think age should matter in a crush, infatuation, love, relationship, etc. If you like him or if he likes you, that's that and nothing else should matter...EXCEPT for when there's an outrageous age matter like a 5yr old with a lover who's 98. That's just...erm impossible?

Anywhos, no one can tell you if you love ihm or not because the way we feel love and express our love and what love means to us all differ from person to person.

It may be a crush or an infatuation or as you questinoed, love. But before you make an impulsive decision to say "I love him!/You!", wiat it out a month or two. If you still have the strong feelins for him, it's NOT an infatuation. It's either a strong crush or love. But you won't know which it is until time's ready to reveal anything.

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infatuatedxxglamour answered Wednesday June 20 2007, 7:04 pm:
I don't think he's too old for you, since girls are always more mature than guys. However, he may be more mature with girls and dating, so I would definitely be cautious.

Just because you think about him doesn't mean you love him. If this is just like any other crush you've might've had when you were younger, or even close, then you don't love him. When you love him, you'll know it. Basically, if you have to ask, you don't love him.

Be careful with this guy; take it slow and don't let him pressure you into anything. Make sure you know your limits before you go out with him, so if he passes them, you can tell him to cut the crap.

Good luck. <3

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orphans answered Wednesday June 20 2007, 6:37 pm:
Well in my book, that isn't to old. I doubt you love him. You just like him a lot. You really can't be in love with someone unless you've been with them and have a strong sense of care, affection, and devotion towards him. You're also still young to know what love feels like, at least mature love. Anyway, you just have a big crush on him that's all.

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ElectricLime answered Wednesday June 20 2007, 6:34 pm:
No, he's not too old.. =) & If he likes you, then cool, but don't think too much about it.. I used to have 1249802190381 crushes when I was 13 and most of it meant AND led to nothing. And if you think about him a lot, then it doesn't mean you love him... Love is very very complicated. It's sorta like when you would die for that person and I'm pretty sure you don't want to die at age 13.. :) But who knows. Go for it if you want :)

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