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confusing guys.
okay there is this guy that told me he liked me first and then i said i liked him. we talked for a while and then summer came along. we havent seen eachother at all yet i and i want to before i leave for vacation in a week. I asked him to do something and he always just says i dont know. then when im talking to him online i feel like im annoying him becuase he doesnt really talk, but then again most guys dont. Then the other day i was on his myspace and i saw a comment from this girl and it was like yah so were gunna chill soon? and he commented her back and was lik yahh im free after sunday. and then i couldnt remember if i had told him i was going on vacation next week or not and thats why he said it. but i have been played over by like 5 guys already and really dont want it to happen again. soo how i can find out if he is or not? and how can i get him to hang out? im so confused about everythingg.
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I'd straight out ask him. I'd ask him if it's really worth it to try to have something with him. Because what you've said now just sounds like he's messing with your heart. And I know you don't want to hear it. Even if he had time to hang after sunday, he would have mentioned something or other...
But really, don't get yourself so tangled up about him...Just ask him, I mean, if he still likes you it should be okay right? Wouldn't you want to know how he feels about you, so you don't feel like you're being lead on?
And if worse comes to worse, and he was just playing you, there are many other guys out there that will be perfect for you...Normally with liking a guy, you find out what you like about the guy while you try to get to know him...Then if you both do go into a relationship, you look for what you like in that relationship. If the relationship doesn't work, that's okay. You know then what you're looking for in a relationship, and you learn from all your previous experiences.
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I think this guy is over it. You should probably ask him how he feels and why he seems to be ignoring you. In my experience though, a guy that wont talk to you or hang out doesnt really have feelings for you. Go find someone hotter and better and make him jealous!!!
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