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Boyfriend has a stalker? sorta.
This chick really likes my boyfriend. She texts him all the time.. which interrupts our time together sometimes. The thing is, he pays for all the texts. Incoming and whatnot. So she's flooding his phone. Blah blah. She gets mad whenever he says he busy or that he's with me ["his girl"]
She keeps sending messages about sex, getting drunk, and bjs. She just won't stop. She knows he's taken and that he's busy.
Advice? He's getting really annoyed and she's not taking a hint.
And here's my problem.
My new friend already likes me. He wants something more and he's like.. waiting for my relationship to fail. He's been "joking" or whatever about kissing me and making out. He's really sweet, believe me. But I'm really happy right now and I don't want to hang out with him.. to lead him on. He called me so many times in one day and now he's wanting for me to call him to hang out. I honestly don't want to hang out with him. It's so awkward and I don't trust him. During my finals, he walked me to all my classes and kissed my head, then later that day my cheek. :| Yeah, my boyfriend does not like that. He doesn't go to my school so he can't "Take care" of my friend. He already said sorry but he's annoying me with the constant "HANG OUT WITH ME" "ARE YOU BUSY TODAY" "CALL ME!" "CAN I HAVE YOUR NUMBER"
i have a really kind heart and i can't seem to let him down. any advice for me?
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Hmm.. what i'd do if i were your bf would be to either A. block the number, or B. call the cops. She is harrassing him, so they could probably do something about it. or your boyfriend could just tell her to leave him alone and what not.
About your friend situation, im like that too, but you have to talk to him, tell him to cut it out. It may be hard, but you should really tell him to leave you alone for a while, that you don't like him like that. You should tell him how you feel about the whole situation.
I hope this helps you a little bit.
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Your boyfriend can block the other girl's phone number, if not through functions on his phone, then through is phone provider. He should do that- she sounds like a serious weirdo.
As for the other guy, I would certainly tell him that if he wants to continue being your friend, he will have to respect your boundaries, because you already have a boyfriend you are perfectly happy with. If he doesn't want to behave himself, then he obviously doesn't respect you (yah. NOT a true friend) and you need to end the friendship.
Kind heart or no, you still need to look out for yourself and your best interests.
ygs-29/f
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Well you first problem:
I would personally get in her face about it and there would probably be a fight and she would get her ass kicked. But that is probably not the way you want to handle it I honestly don't know you could go up to her and be like "My boyfriend is happy with my he doesn't want you...keep looking and stop calling." Or you can get her number blocked.
Second problem:
I wouldn't worry about it too much. As long as he knows you are happily with you boyfriend and you aren't looking than I would still hang out with him. It's not that big of a deal he has a thing for you things like that pass.
:)goodluck.
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whenever he wants to hang out just be like 'oo im sorry im already hanging out with my boyfriend that day'. or say something like 'tell you what, whenever IM free ill call YOU and make plans to hang out.' hope i helped
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Now you see what your boyfriend is going through. Dont let this guy stress you out about letting your relationship fail or it will. Just tell him your happy at the moment and thats all you really can say. If he gets to be too much, let him know that. Dont let it keep going, doesnt matter how nice you are you have to stand up for your self. If you feel uncomforable telling him that, have a friend do it. Dont be threatning just be sweet about it.
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