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how to say no


Posted Tuesday July 17 2007, 4:09 pm

there is this guy "james". he always asks me out and i always say no. i say no mainly becuase i am not looking for someone right now, and happy being single. As much times as i try telling him no and my reason, he still tries to ask me out. he already asked me out about 12 times. what should i do?
much thanks

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What does she mean?


Posted Tuesday July 17 2007, 3:54 pm

15/m
I'm good friends with a girl and she told me she'll go out with me eventually but not now. What I want to know is, what do I have to do to get her to go out with me sooner. She calls me like almost every day and we talk, but I don't know if she's hinting about anything.

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his secret crush on me


Posted Tuesday July 17 2007, 3:54 pm

why does it freak a guy out when a girl that they've had a secret crush on finally starts to show an interest back and flirts with them, especially if he has no problem flirting with the other ladies?

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ex-boyfriend.


Posted Tuesday July 17 2007, 3:47 pm

14/f -well i still like my ex & i really want him back. i know he likes these 2 girls but they're both taken & he took a really long time to get over me, so i figured we'd like always love each other. WRONG. well we broke up on may 18th i think it was? but we went out twice since november. i know, iknow, there's a reason it didn't work out, but i'm willing to make it work. are there any tips anyone has for making him like me again? like duh hang out with him more, but i don't have anything specific i'm looking for cause i don't know what i need. please help!<3 i really want him back. =\

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what should i do


Posted Tuesday July 17 2007, 3:34 pm

i like this guy i think he like me, i like him to. he is not the most popler boy, but a lot of girls like him, but wont admit it. i am one of those girls what should i do should i make a move

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WHAT DO YOU THINK


Posted Tuesday July 17 2007, 3:07 pm

okay there is this guy i like, we hung out last week for the first time. (met through friends)A very cool kid we have a lot in common. I got out of the car and i gave him a handshake and thanked him for the nice evening. I mean it was our first time meeting and i began to like him so i didnt wana rush things. He hasnt talked to me since last thursday. I left him a comment, he didnt return one and i just called him now and he didnt pick up his phone. Do you think he isnt interested?

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no boyfriend =[


Posted Tuesday July 17 2007, 3:04 pm

13/f.Okay yeah I know it's kind of retarded thinking about it now,but it's so pathetic that I've never had a boyfriend before.Ever.I mean I flirt alot,but psh.It's dumb.I feel so stupid sometimes..I just wish I could find someone who liked me too.Liking the person I like now,is worthless.It's not going to go anywhere,considering the age difference >.<
Help please?
I have no idea what to do.
And I think about it everyday..

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love stinks!


Posted Tuesday July 17 2007, 2:52 pm

Ok so there's these 2 guys that I really really really like!!!

Guy #1- He's really sweet, caring and nice to me. Prob?? well he was my neighbors ex... so that makes it a little complicated. She is friends with me, but if I go out with him... she said she'll kill me and never speak to me again

Guy #2- is Guy #1's bff.... which also makes it hard and confusing. He was in my 7th, 8th, and 9th grade but we never really spoke to each other that much. Maybe because I didn't have a crush on him until I actually met him (thanks to guy #2)

HELP! I really like both of these guys but there's a twist to both of them. That makes it super hard for me.

Any advice on what to do?

I w...

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...........


Posted Tuesday July 17 2007, 2:25 pm

i dont knw what to do right now.... i feel likemy whole life is falling apart and i dont know what to do about it!!1 i just want to break down. tomorrow is the kast day i can see the guy i like for i dont know how long.... i dont think i am going to ever see him cause we dont go to the same school and we dont even live in the same area and i hate it!!! i actually find the right guy and i will probably nevere see him again and this whole thing is never going to work out!!!! i dont think anyone can help but any ideas????? :((( please help b4 o go crazy

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Oh no!!!


Posted Tuesday July 17 2007, 12:35 pm

I went to this summer camp once, and I made friends with this girl and her older brother. They were a bit younger than me, but we were the oldest there. This was about two-three years ago.

Well, the guy added me on myspace, and we talk once in a while. And then kaboom!! he asks me out! I say yes, I don't know why, and then he says that maybe we shouldn't. Ok. No big deal. I don't like you that way anyway. This was two years ago.

Now hes sendng me these messages through myspace like to rate him, and list the things I would potentially be willing to do with him. Well, I only like him as a friend. Period.

What should I do when he sends me these messages? So far, he sent me two, the first one of wh...

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How can you get a guy to notice?


Posted Tuesday July 17 2007, 11:18 am

I have some probs with getting guys to notice me. What should I do?

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I have a crush on my boyfriend's best friend.


Posted Tuesday July 17 2007, 10:46 am

Well.. this is probably going to make me sound like such a low person but when I remind myself that you don't know me it doesn't matter so here goes: I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 8 months. He's my best friend and I love him to death, we spend alot of time with eachother and I wouldn't want to sacrifice him for anything but I realize that a friend of his has a crush on me, and I sort of like him too a little. And we flirt and I'm not sure where it's going. I told my boyfriend a friend of his liked me, we flirted, but not who it is or that I like him too and I'm in a world of hurt right now. =P Oh well, won't remember when I'm 30 anyway. </3
Anyway; what do I do?
He told me he loved me and I'm sure he does that to...

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are guys avoiding me?


Posted Tuesday July 17 2007, 10:02 am

I'm going to say that I'm 16/f and I'm very ashamed never to have had a boyfriend or ...never to even have been on a date =( V_V. I just do not understand. It drives me CRAZY. And the thing is. On places like myspace and facebook...guys joke around and flirt with me! While chatting, they flirt with me as well! They just never seem to make an attempt to want to have a relationship with me :| And I cannot believe that I'm saying this, but I'm desperate for a relationship x_x The worst part is...that guys tell my FRIENDS that they like me! But they never tell me! =( I'm quite an intelligent person ( I think so, anyways )) and I'm thinking that could be a turn off? Help, please ;_; The worst part..heh...is that my friends...who I think aren't T...

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last nighttt.


Posted Tuesday July 17 2007, 9:55 am


Last night I went to a party for a graduation. It was a fancy restaurant so I had nice clothes on and I looked my best. We had a HUGE group of like 35 so we had about 3 or 4 waiters serving us. I think one of the waiters liked me. I'm 13 and he looked pretty young like at least a teenager. I was sitting around all younger kids so there was no way he could really "flirt" with me. But when people ordered their drink for the girls he just said "What would you like to drink?" and then for me he said "Ma'am what can I get you to drink?" and like he wouldn't ask anyone for refills, but every time I was done he'd ask to get me another one. He wasn't even supposed to serve me because he was supposed to serve th...

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distant/online relationships :S


Posted Tuesday July 17 2007, 9:54 am

17/m. wow. so okay. I'm worried about my friend. He has a girlfriend that he met ONLINE...that lives in a DIFFERENT COUNTRY O_O. lets just say that he lives in North America and she lives in Europe...they met through a forum, I think. I just need opinions. Because I don't want him to ruin his life waiting for her. Okay, so...they knew each other for one year. she promised to move to North America next summer to live with him. they both say that they love each other o_O, they're both the same (almost) age. My question to you is....Will a chatting relationship be strong enough to make this girl move all the way from her home country? why would she though? education is like free in europe. isn't it hard to get a passport to come here...and the...

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girl confusion


Posted Tuesday July 17 2007, 7:46 am

Well theres this girl and a few weeks back she said she liked me, which was great but she had and still does have a boyfriend, i talked 2 her and she likes us both and doesn't know what to do.
one night i got confused by it all and said something stupid "i know u dont like me" so got angry bt this, we didnt talk 4 a while now we made up, but it's not the same, she wont talk like she used to, what should i do, but i dont want to sound to clingy, i really like her. like seriously.

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Oh man, what a rough situation


Posted Tuesday July 17 2007, 4:33 am

I am a 13 year old guy, and me and my girlfriend broke up not that long ago because I liked a different girl, but she's like really mad at me because I said, "If she doesn't want me, I don't need her."
That girl that I liked doesn't like me back (well at least i think she doesn't) and I don't know what to do. I lost my girlfriend, and now I cant even get the girl that I like right now.

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Getting noticed..


Posted Tuesday July 17 2007, 3:56 am

Okay so I'm a little shy you could say.
I really want this one guy to "notice me"
but i don't want to look stupid or not be myself
i've known him since 1st grade.
he sortof likes another girl and they've gone out
before. and he's liked me before but theres something about him that i just really like. he's into skating and rock and im into a lot of the same but how can i get him to notice me? should i stick out? im sortof shy. oh god what should i do!? i guess i like singing and he likes singers and he has a band but im so shy! i need help..

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is this just how guys act?


Posted Tuesday July 17 2007, 12:26 am

ok so say my name is jenna and this kid's name is john. alright well i have to go to summer school which sucks but im getting used to it. one day while i was at school in the morning i walked over to my friend who was talking to this guy. then he turned to me and said "hey you're jenna, i recognized you because you're her top person on her friends list on myspace" when the guy left i asked who it was and she said "john smith(not his real name)" and i recognized him because my friend had talked about him. it was a friend of my friends ex boyfriend. follow that? ok so that was on friday and over the weekend i accepted him over myspace to be my friend and we talked a bit on there but not much. just the simple questions like...

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breaking up w/ a guy?


Posted Tuesday July 17 2007, 12:23 am

i want to break up w/ my long distance boyfriend, for the second time (we broke up once and got back together). and idk why i really got back together w/ him. and now i want to break up again and we've only been bf and gf since the 4th of july and idk what to say...i dont have a good reason to break up..i'm kinda look'n for an excuse...but also some ways to break up gently, any help?

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