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What does she mean?
15/m
I'm good friends with a girl and she told me she'll go out with me eventually but not now. What I want to know is, what do I have to do to get her to go out with me sooner. She calls me like almost every day and we talk, but I don't know if she's hinting about anything.
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maybe she wants to get to know you a little more, well about the boyfriend you could be
just give her time to know what you would treat her like but dont wait so long because chances are she couldnt be hinting.but anything is possible.just ask whats going on between you two. it wouldnt hurt. goodluck ♥christina
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this girl seems a bit cruel to me. she's leading you on by calling you and starting conversations with you then she's telling you she doesn't want to go out with you right now for some mysterious reason. if you think she's worth it you should persue her but don't let her maneuver you all the time like a puppet master. when you talk to her you should really get down to business and ask her what's going and if she still tells you she doesn't wanna date right now you should find out exactly why.
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Oh yes, she's hinting you that she wants you, but just a little confused. Give her some time to find out if shes making the right choice to go out with you.
If you seriously want her. You have to know what to do to get her. Be yourself and not something that you're not. Give her compliments every now and then to show her that you have interest in her. Ask her to do stuff like go hang out at the mall, the park, and make sure you bring some friends so it doesn't get too boring//simple. Make sure you don't call her friends some names like, fat, because trust me, karma sucks.
Well, I hoped this helped. and Good Luck!
//Smallazn4lyfe
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She could be hinting that she's intersted in you. Girls are confusing [I'll admit that] and sometimes we act flirty around people we're only interested in as friends. See how she acts around you when you're in a group. If she seems to be giving YOU more attention, it's a good sign.
Things you could do would be showing an interest [describe your ideal girlfriend and use a lot of HER traits], doing things she likes [you probably already do, since you're good friends] but go the extra mile- see a movie she's interested in, but its not something you'd choose. Stuff like that. Compliments are nice, just don't overdo it.
Tell her how you feel, though. Tell her that you're still interested in her as being more than a friend. She may be confused about YOU- all the things you do together could either be flirting, or just being friends. Straight-up honesty is key no matter what :)
Good luck!
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Maybe she wants to be single for a litte while. She wants a break, and when she decides to date again, then you will be the first one she asks out. I am sure you are a great guy, and any girl would be lucky to go out with you. I bet she realizes this too, and wants to go out with you when she feels she is good and ready to go steady(woah! that rhymed), with a boy. Don't give up, just keep trying!
Just make sure you compliment her, talk to her a lot like you do, and go places with her- like the mall, or movies. I am sure you already do this though.
Just give her time, and good luck!
Oh, and if it takes her a really long time, maybe a few weeks or months, just ask her out:]. It won't hurt anyone!
Good Luck, she would be lucky to go out with you, I am sure.
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just ask her out. =]
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