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are guys avoiding me?
I'm going to say that I'm 16/f and I'm very ashamed never to have had a boyfriend or ...never to even have been on a date =( V_V. I just do not understand. It drives me CRAZY. And the thing is. On places like myspace and facebook...guys joke around and flirt with me! While chatting, they flirt with me as well! They just never seem to make an attempt to want to have a relationship with me :| And I cannot believe that I'm saying this, but I'm desperate for a relationship x_x The worst part is...that guys tell my FRIENDS that they like me! But they never tell me! =( I'm quite an intelligent person ( I think so, anyways )) and I'm thinking that could be a turn off? Help, please ;_; The worst part..heh...is that my friends...who I think aren't THAT attractive..they almost ALL have been asked out! I don't understand! I'm nice, and I have a nice personality...but whyyyyy??????? ;_;
Thanks. ;_;
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Dear are guys avoiding me,
I don't think guys are avoiding you. Everyone is different. I know this is dumb to say but its true your time will come don't worry. There is nothing wrong with being intelligent. Guys are weird around that age dont worry everything will turn out fine. I hope I helped
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Okay sweetie maybe it's just because your shy?
Also remember that your chatting online..so that kind of changes everything..You have to interact with people in person because online realtionships aren't good =/
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sweetie, i dont think guys are avoiding you. just give it some time. with me, guys always flirt with me but never ask me out. i understand how you feel. if you give it some time, the right guys will come along.
also, if you want guys to be interested in you, show you're interested in THEM! flirt with them, smile, laugh, poke & hit jokingly and they'll get the hints, and maybe move for more bold stages in the relationship.
don't be desperate for a relationship. everyone is, but it's really not that great. you can't flirt with anyone you want & you make guys hotter than your boyfriend think that you're unavailable. + only one penis. haha just kidding. but anyway, enjoy the fact that you can flirt & hit on any guy you want right now. more serious relationships will come your way as you grow older. you're still pretty young, only 16. so your turn will come.
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